Update on Getting Caught....

[Megan G]

Well where do I begin........

For those of you that do not remember my post last week about almost getting caught I was all dressed up and doing a few things around the house when my wife pulled into the laneway. Panicing, I jumped into the bathroom and started a bath. Well I had thought that I had escaped but that was not the case. I thought I may have been seen but that is also not true......

Well my wife and I had the big "talk" last night. She came right out and told me that she knew but did not say anything about CD'ing or wearing womens cloths...... She just said " I know". Turn's out she has known for sometime now that I am a CD and while my heart was racing a mile a minute she told me that she figured it out way before we were even married but she wanted me to tell her when I was ready.

Before I get to far into it I will say that she also told me up front last night that is is OK with it and it does not make her think of me any differently or love me any less. I told her that one of the reasons I did not tell her about this side of me was I was afraid that she would leave me because of it but she assured me that she would never leave because of me CD'ing. She knows that this is a part of who I am, the man she fell in love with. I also admitted that it is hard to talk about with her because in my eye's I feel like "less of a man" when talking about this subject but her exact words were " If anything I think of you as more of a man". She assured me that she loves me with all of her heart and would do anything to support me. She also told me that I do not have to feel embarased about talking about this side of me to her.

With that said she also mentioned that she does not think that she is ready to see me dressed up yet and I totally understand that. While she has known about this for over a year seeing me dressed up may be a little too much too soon. Well now on to the trail I left.

What really shocked me was she mentioned that she has read my posts on this forum. She followed my trail to this sight but instead of confronting me about it she left it alone as she figured that I just needed someone to talk to. She also knew the whole time that I was wearing her cloths as I left little clues ( unbuttoned cuffs ect...) and she even found my stash of cloths. I said jokingly last night when she was trying to re-assure me that everything is OK that I no longer needed to hind my cloths and she said that I did a poor job of it then discribed where I had them:eek:

Anyways I just wanted to let everyone know what has happened, hopefully what I have said will help some other's. What I will say is this.......

Sweetie if you are reading this, there is a reason that I fell so maddly in love with you. You continue to suprise me day after day, just when I think I know you something happens that takes me totally of guard and makes me fall even more in love with you. You are my life, my reason for living and without you I am nothing. God has truly blessed me with a beutifull wife that is all I could ever hope for. :love:

[ashlee chiffon]

always for the best...hidden truths and desires are more pain then they are worth! and all that lost time you and your SO wasted not enjoying the best aspects of dressing!

[SherriePall]

Trisha -- So much for my theory that she thought she saw another woman in the house. Actually, I'm glad that she finally told you that she knew and that the two of you have talked about it and she is okay with it.
Take it slow now. Even though she is okay, don't forget to let her know how much she means to you. And keep us (and obviously her) posted on what is new.

[~Kitty GG~]

That's wonderful, Trisha.

Please extend an invitation to her from us GGs.

Love & Hugs
~Kitty~

[kittypw GG]

She sounds like a great women. I second what Kitty said. We would love to have another in our fold. Great story. Aint life grand sometimes?

[Tracy_Victoria]

Trisha

I know just how you feel today, I have a wonderful and understand SO as well. She has the same problems as yours, and has yet to see me dress fully and totally en-fem, but all the same, she is trying just for me!!! (like yours is!)

Your partner sounds like she is going to do well handling this wilth you, good luck.

[sherri]

You have a very, very cool wife, and I predict good things for y'all.

Women always know ...

[Jenn2716]

That was great to hear that she is ok with you being a cd. What a weight to have lifted off your shoulders, eh?
Now that the hardest part is over, just take your time with her and slowly start introducing her to your femme side when she is ready. It might be better to do it in stages, instead of going fully dressed (wig, makeup, etc.)

Let us know how it goes.

:thumbsup:

[Ms. Donna]

Hi Trisha,

Glad to hear that things are working out well for you!

Love & Stuff,
Donna

[Trisha51]

Congratulations from one Trisha to another.
I sincerely hope things continue to go well for both of you.

Hugs
Trisha

[Lv51]

Good things worked out wonderful for you.

[SatinSarah]

You have a wonderful SO. Take it easy both of you. My wide helped and was ok for 10 years until I fully dressed and spent the night as Sarah (wig & prancing around like a woman). She had been coped with 90% dressing even with make up etc - but seeing me as a beautiful woman was a bit much. Find your level that suits you both and take it slowly

[suzanne claire]

I cannot recall seeing a more wonderful post.The love and care it expresses is great.:hugs:

[gennee]

That's so wonderful she accepts your dreessing up. Now you can relax and enjoy yourself.

Gennee

[Janelle Young]

I just love a happy ending. This is one of the best posts I have ever seen.

[DonnaT]

Good to hear how cool your wife is. Congratulations Trisha.

Note: If she's read your posts, she's seen your avatar, and if that's you, she's seen you dressed.

[Sage GG]

posts that just make you go



ahhhhwwwwwwwww


How sweet

[Holly]

Trish, that is just the best news. As another CD who has an understand and supportive wife, I know the relief and peace you must now be feeling. As for yor SO, she's an angel :angel: .

[Tina Dixon]

Good for you, a nother CD that may be out.

[bredalee25]

I'm so happy for you trisha I hope the two of you explore and learn from one another. Makes me wonder if my gf knows about me dressing or if she's found my stash as i just moved it from the toolbox on the pick-up back into the house after moving. It's in a box full of my old guy clothes in my closet emmmm I wonder has she seen them or not if she did i'm pretty sure she'd of said so cuz she hates the idea of me dressing. Yes i told her when we met but she thinks i've stopped. ttfn

[dancinginthedark]

Trisha,
I love a happy ending and a great beginning. :love:

PS~ If Trisha's wife is still reading: I know everyone will welcome you with open arms and hearts if/when you join the family here.

[lostmyhubby GG]

Another happy Trisha out there with the weight of the world off her shoulders and a new begining with her wife!!!! I too have a "Trisha" in my life who recently came out to me after being my Husband for 5 years and we have never been closer and happier!!!!
Good luck to you both and much love and happiness in your lives.

Lostmyhubby GG & Trisha

[Talon DeRojo]

Trisha - You are one fortunate human being who is blessed with a loving wife. Don't let her go! Don't keep all your feelings inside - I did that for way too long (not about CDing) and it hurts the relationship. Good luck!
Talon:)

[Megan G]

Where do I begin.....

First off thanks for all the kind reply's, it is very much appriciated:hugs: I am truly blessed to have found such a loving,caring and wonderfull wife. What she said to me last night I will remember for the rest of my life.

I have no plans on rushing her in any way, the way I feel is when she is ready to see me dressed up she will let me know. Of course I hope that time will come sooner than later as it would make talking about this side of me alot easier.


If she's read your posts, she's seen your avatar, and if that's you, she's seen you dressed

I thought about that when she told me that she has read my posts but I can only imagine that seeing a picture is one thing and having it right in front of you is another.


Please extend an invitation to her from us GGs

I will definately do that, she is not much for the "net" and I would really doubt that she would post but who know, she suprises me all the time.

Once again thanks for all the kind and loving words, it means alot....

Trish.....

[Alicia_lynn419]

Wow! How lucky are you! that's an amazing and heart warming story.. so many of us wish to have someone like your wife in our lives... My Ex at first tried to deal with it, but in the end it was too much for her... but I can relate to your joy!

Take things slow... let her warm up to this at HER pace.. and good luck!


Allie

[KrazyKat]

Trisha, how wonderful to share with us, I'm so happy for you both!!
I'm happy to hear you being so sensitive to her needs, I think that will take the two of you where ever you want to go!!
It's a wonderful thing, love!! :<3:
Please let your wonderful lady know that us GG S/O's are here for her if she so chooses. We will be gentle, I promise!!

Hugs to both, :gh:

Kat

[Marlena Dahlstrom]

I'm so happy for the both of you. You've got a wonderful wife.

[weemoofrazz]

Trisha, first off congratulations....It's great to see that your wife is comfortable enough with herself as an individual to allow you to be truly you without predjudice and you will need her support, as she will need yours. On the note of her not wanting to see you fully dressed yet, I too had that reaction when I discovered that my boyfriend was a CD...for me the reasons were fairly clear and simple, but he had a different take on it and worried for some time that I hadn't really accepted him just because I didn't want to see him totally en femme !

It just takes time Trisha, your wife just needs some time to process everything, and although she knew for some time before you told her I can tell you personally that it is entirely different when she actually hear's it from you in person.

Yes, I can admitt to being a little aprehensive that I might be upset if I saw my boyfriend dressed fully as Kirsteen, I just didn't know how I would feel more than expecting anything negative and I didn't want to hurt his feelings.

Build up gradually, let your wife accept new thing's, nylons, heels, show her your clothes, although she found them before and know's what you have it would mean more to her if you were to go through them with her, explain what you like wearing and why and ask her opinion, involve her...We did this and for both of us it was fun and intimate....

I wish you both all the luck in the world...and I think that like me and many others your wife will soon come to realise that she has a truly wonderful husband and an extreamly unique individual with fantastic qualities as a friend.

P.s...I still havn't seen Kirsteen, totally en femme yet, that will happen soon, so you may well be able to read my post about it after the time !!! :hugs:

[Shelly Preston]

Hi Trisha

Congratulations,
It's alway nice to hear of a happy ending ( or begining)
You wife deserves a lot of praise.
Make sure she gets it
I hope she decides to join us as the opionions of accepting GG's are most welcome here.

[ava_bruna]

I came out to my wife 25 or so yr's ago and after a couple yr's she started to accept my dressing, having 2 kid's at home made it hard for me to do it very much but still able to on sick day's ( fely like it ):) for the last 12 yr's ive had a great time drressing, going to bed in a pretty sexy nightie is soooooooo exciting for me the freedom is wonderfull, I feel so at ease, so normal, my big thing is and im probly being foolish about it, My wife say's she dont care what I do, this year is our 49th togeather and having a wife like her has been a dream come true, she went shopping with me a couple time's and I had hope's that she would help me with my makeup ect but all ahe say's is she care's less at what I do?
I should be happy and I am but still wondering what " I dont care " really mean's, not knowing my wife I know no one can say but any idea's? Thank's, Huggie's, Ava.:hugs:

[MarciGrrl]

.... God has truly blessed me with a beutifull wife that is all I could ever hope for.

Trisha G.

Please give her a big hug and kiss on behalf of all of us!

Marci

[Rachel Morley]

Great news Trisha! I'm very happy for you. Your wife sounds cool :shades: