A question for the GGs please

[heathr1]

This is a serious question.

I now only wear lipstick and a skirt for about half an hour, once every two months at the most. That is as far as my dressing goes at present.

However, I'm not in a relationship now, but when I was, with a previous girlfriend she enjoyed dressing me up herself.

It did get to the stage where I needed to include a small amount of dressing in foreplay etc. for example, her putting make-up on me or getting me to wear her bra.

If the only dressing a partner did was a small amount that was needed for foreplay/sex, would you find it easier to come to terms with than a partial CDer or one who dressed regularly?

[Tamara Croft]

I think if one only dresses on the odd occasion and includes this in foreplay/sex, to me this is more a degree of fetishism... and not cd'ing at all. You say you only wear a skirt and lipstick, is that it? nothing else? This seems to be more of a fetish (this is only my own personal opinion) rather than actual crossdressing.

Could I live with that, yes I could, at the moment, this is how it is for me as Tam very rarely dresses.

[Sandra]

I think if one only dresses on the odd occasion and includes this in foreplay/sex, to me this is more a degree of fetishism... and not cd'ing at all. You say you only wear a skirt and lipstick, is that it? nothing else? This seems to be more of a fetish (this is only my own personal opinion) rather than actual crossdressing.



I have to agree with you here Tamara :D

Nigellas CDing is 24/7 so no it's not viewed as foreplay, but if it was only partial dressing then yes I could live with it.

[Bev06 GG]

If the only dressing a partner did was a small amount that was needed for foreplay/sex, would you find it easier to come to terms with than a partial CDer or one who dressed regularly?
Hi Heather,
Apart from the fact that Ive never had to come to terms with CDing, because for me its not a problem, I actually agree with Tamara. I would see it more as abit kinky. Im afraid Im abit old fashioned in my thinking really because altho I think foreplay is an integral part of making love, if I thought my fella needed something kinky to get turned on, then I'd be thinking that there was something wrong with me.
Unless when you say needed for foreplay you actually meant enjoyed. Dont get me wrong I can have as much fun as the next person and wouldn't describe myself as a prude between the sheets. However, a crossdresser who just does it for a sexual buzz would be less of a turn on for me than someone who took it more seriously and took a pride in how he looked. Maybe your asking the wrong audience. Maybe you need to ask a GG who doesn't like Crossdressing at all but would tolerate it alittle for the sake of damned good romp between the sheets tee hee.
BEVxxxx

[heathr1]

Yes, as Bev06 mentioned, adding to the enjoyment is what I meant, rather than being completely necessary for foreplay.

[KewTnCurvy GG]

No!

Please grrl, there are different strokes for different folks. Now perhaps that's true for those who have an issue with the dressing but not true for those of us who don't.

[heathr1]

Do you allow your SO to wear your clothes or insist they use their own?

[Sandra]

Do you allow your SO to wear your clothes or insist they use their own?


Hi Heather,

Just a minute just checking that I can answer this, yes everything seems to be ok I AM A GG, now to your question, me and Nigella do share clothes mostly tee-shirts as these fit both of us, as for dresses and skirts she is a bit thiner than me and some of the dresses,skirts and trousers don't fit me but those that do I wear as well.

[Bev06 GG]

Hi Heather,

Just a minute just checking that I can answer this, yes everything seems to be ok I AM A GG, now to your question, me and Nigella do share clothes mostly tee-shirts as these fit both of us, as for dresses and skirts she is a bit thiner than me and some of the dresses,skirts and trousers don't fit me but those that do I wear as well.
Tee hee, Ooooh Sandra, naughty girl,
well Heather, yes we do share clothes and makeup, and jewellery. The only thing we can't share is shoes mores the pity because he's got far more than I have. I have to admit tho, its usually me going in his wardrobe and not the other way round. He doesn't seem to mind too much tho.
BEVxxxx