Living your dream

[Kate Simmons]

I've asked before how much time you spend en femme. I also asked how you feel when you are en femme. My question now is if you could live your dream tomorrow, would you do it and what would you choose to do as your femme self 24/7? My first choice would probably be a female adventuress such as an archeologist or private investigator but knowing feminine instincts would jump at the chance of being a domestic partner and homemaker. What would you do? Ericka Kay Richards

[~Dee~]

id do exactly what im doing at the moment :happy:

i love my life and the only thing that needs to be changed is this fiddly gender thingy .. but after thats taken care of .. i dont see the need to change anything else .. its all good with my kitty by my side ... or me by hers, whichever the case may be.
:D

[Kate Simmons]

id do exactly what im doing at the moment :happy:

i love my life and the only thing that needs to be changed is this fiddly gender thingy .. but after thats taken care of .. i dont see the need to change anything else .. its all good with my kitty by my side ... or me by hers, whichever the case may be.
:D
I know Dee. From what I've read, you have a very lovely Kitty who cares about you a great deal. I'm glad you are happy. Ericka

[Tracy_Victoria]

id do exactly what im doing at the moment :happy:

i love my life and the only thing that needs to be changed is this fiddly gender thingy .. but after thats taken care of .. i dont see the need to change anything else .. its all good with my kitty by my side ... or me by hers, whichever the case may be.
:D

I don't even have a problem with the gender thing, I would change a few things, but there only very minor ones! But as for my dressing, I suppose I'm really lucky to have a Wonderful SO who I have always been able to talk with, and say I need some time to myself, and she knew full well that meant I needed to crossdress! (even if sadly then she was not around!)

Thankfully now, she's begining to understand my male self will never change with this hobby of mine, I do this just for fun! But because I can talk to her more easierly about it now, my whole outlook on life has changed, and i feel some chains I've had for year have been cast off! I know we still have a long way to go, but we will do that slowly together!

So thankfully I'm far from living a dream, I'm living my reality, and loving it, so I'll check on this hand!

[~Dee~]

I know Dee. From what I've read, you have a very lovely Kitty who cares about you a great deal. I'm glad you are happy. Ericka

thanks :happy:
we do have a good life together and yes, she is great.
my little hero in fact.

but really, the way we came to see it is we have to be happy to begin with.
there is no point in hoping that me transitioning will make everything better for me and our life become wonderful.
i think a lot of people think that its a solution to problems.
weve taken steps to do the things we like to do and be the people we want to be .. and its working just fine thank you very muchly :D

[TGMarla]

A woman 24/7? Well, I'd be doing much of what I do now, except that I imagine that I'd be a wife and a mother, taking care of what wives and mothers generally do. Are we talking about if I were to suddenly change and find myself a woman? I guess I'd be doing a lot of explaining then! :D But as a woman, I'd want a family, a career, and some outside interests just like I do now. I'd just get the pleasure of meeting the world every day as a female. And I think I'd like that.

[Joy Carter]

A woman 24/7 ??????? Where do I sign up ????? I'd be the house wife get more creative, like sewing, painting, cooking but I'd keep my flower garden and my 56' Chevy (natch). As far as dressing I'd never go out unless it was stylish no not over done just no sweats or large tees. You can be real girly in shorts and lovely top or jeans and a tank. As far as the man would go well we would let nature take it's course, you did say woman ! total woman 24/7 right+?

[alysonatl]

As a woman, I'd start the day being caressed by my husband as we have a few intimate moments before the alarm goes off and it's time to get the kids ready for school. When the house is quiet, I'l;l watch the female-oriented last hour or so of Today, checking out what Katie, Anne and Natalie are wearing. Then I'd take a long, soothing bubble bath, shave my legs and underarms and prepare for the day. I'd carefully review the outfit I've chosen, change it once or twice and get into my undies. After doing my hair, I'd do my makeup, put on hose slip into the dress I want to wear, pick out shoes and accessories and see that my purse is in order. A final touchup of my lipstick and a spray of perfume and I'll meet the other girls for lunch,gossip and a bit of shopping. Arriving home before the kids, I'd change into something leisurely and do wwhat needs to be done around the house and prepare dinner for my family. Then Id snuggle up with my man, watch tv or read until it was time to put the kids to bed. Afterwards, I'd put on a sexy night gown and lure my husband into the bedroom and .....You girls can guess the rest!

[maid phylis]

if i could be a woman 24/7,i would probably be a photographer as i was once in the navy only as a woman i would travel all over the world getting the besy pictures i could take .i would probably dress in skirts and some times cargo pants when i would be on a shoot in a place to rugged for a skirt.but when i would have my pictures displayed for awards i would be dressed as feminine as i could be .love phylisanne:love:

[Kate Simmons]

I wasn't really talking about transitioning but if that's how some can envision it, it's okay. I meant being your femme self 24/7 as is. With all the "challenges" of "shaving" and makeup, etc. . Just imagine if everyone accepted you as you are, what would you choose to do? Ericka

[bredalee25]

What I do now drive a forklift. I think it would be so cool to wear a skirt on a forklift and feel the wind blow up under it. But anyways i'm dreaming there. I'd have to wear pants company uniform ya know. But yea i'd keep my life as is just be femme 24/7.

Works for me.

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