I Finally Did It...

[heather_nouveau]

Hello All:

Several weeks ago I made an appointment to see a Gender Specialist; my appointment was yesterday.

I had many conflicting emotions while sitting in the car waiting to go in; I almost called and cancelled, but I summoned up my courage and went in.

I was initially a bit nervous, but soon relaxed and ended up talking about unresolved femme feelings and taking herbals.

She had some good advice about when and how to tell my SO and several options regarding if and when I want to tranisition. She diagnosed me as Gender Dysphoric and probably TS. I think I knew this all along, but was just struggling to accept the fact.

She's referred me to another colleague who specializes in gender issues; I hope to begin seeing her regularly to continue this process.

Anyway, it was a positive experience overall, but a really big step for me personally.

Just wanted to share.

Heather

[CharlaineCadence]

all steps begin with baby steps. congrats. if you need a friend Pm me.

kiss kiss
char

[~Kitty GG~]

congratulations on overcoming your nervousness and taking the step.

keep us posted on how things progress.

Love & Hugs
~Kitty~

[CaptLex]

Congratulations, Heather! I know just how big a step that is, so I'm glad it went well. Hopefully you'll look back on it soon as the beginning of good things for you. Please keep us posted. :happy:

[Kayla Smith]

Heather,

I think that you are on the right track seeing a gender therapist. I have been told just a few months ago by my gender therapist that I am TS and like you for awhile I had issues with accepting something that I had known about since I was about 5.

Best wishes and Hugs

[GypsyKaren]

Good for you Heather, I'm very happy for you and wish you the best of luck with your new journey. Sounds to me like you're on a pretty good stretch of highway now, just make sure you take the time to enjoy the scenery.

Karen

[Briarose GG]

Can anyone tell me of a mental health provider in the west central WI area that deals with transgender issues. My SO is seriously considering transitioning. Briarose GG

[kelli]

Congrats and I hope you find the solace your seek. I know I did, I started seeing a gender counselor last July. HRT referral this week more to come.

kelli

[Chrissycd]

Sitting in the car and thinking it over b4 going in for an appt... I wonder how many of us go through the same steps. I know every time I do something new en femme it's like a new personal triumph.
A few months ago, it was going in for my first laser appt and now my beard is nearly gone and I'm thrilled
In two weeks, it will be for my first HRT appt.
In three weeks, it will be when I head to the airport. I'm taking a week long vacation en femme 24/7.
Even last week, stepping into Target to shop was a big deal.
And every time, I just take an extra breathe before I step out of the car.
So far, so good.
Congratulations, Heather! You're on the high road now girl!
Hugs,
Chrissy

[Sally24]

Congratulations Heather. This is the best thing you could have done to get yourself aimed in the right direction. I'm not TS, but I have had one session to verify to myself just exactly where I am on the scale (3). It was a relief to have my own opinions confirmed by someone who works in this area all the time. I'm sure you are feeling the same thing.

Good luck!

[heather_nouveau]

Hello Everybody!

Thanks ever so much for all of your kind words and support! I really appreciate it! I am so glad I found this site! This is a tough time for me; I'm determined to continue on the path; knowing that there are others out there walking the same road is really comforting!

Thank you all!

Big Hugs! :hugs:

Heather

[Sarah Smile]

Congratulations, Heather! That's what I need to do next. :( :)

[traceytv]

Well done, Heather.

[jamie_44]

Heather, glad to hear you took the giant step. I am not far behind you!