What "type" of cd are you?

[jen]

After veiwing the dom/sub thread, Dawn's excellent reply has me wondering just how many cd lifestyles are there? Hetro, bi, gay, pre-op, sub. what is, what isn't, what else? :confused:
Myself, just a simple gal; hetro cder, divorced and still looking for that understanding gg. Hoping all you gals are enjoying the holiday!

[Krystenw]

I'm just a regular person that preferrs to wear clothes usually designed for persons of the opposit sex.

[Toni]

I've never been anything other than a regular man who loves to wear ladies clothes and luckily one who has a wife that supports him in his hobby.

[Emma England]

I am a straight man that likes ladies clothes.

It started with lingerie which is far superior to mens underwear.

I love GGs and would not have a relationship with a guy (even if they crossdress).

[EricaCD]

Another one here: hetero, happily married, occasional CD. Wife is slowly working her way through understanding!

[Marla S]

Hetero, partly dressed and some makeup most every day, fully dressed not very often, SO knows but would be happier without it.

[jen]

I guess you could add, like myself closeted, then theres open, fulltime, partime, sometimes and...

[susanjane]

I am a hetro cross dresser who would love to be a GG. My wife loves and supports me. I have no desire at all for a relation ship with a male. If I was a GG I am sure I would be a lesbian.

Love

Susanjane
:love:

[Raychel]

Just a straight married guy, who just happens to love womens clothes. My wife knows and accepts, but not very supportive.

[carolinecd2006]

Hetro cd who dresses fully twice per week and just love being out and if possible in the company of a GG in my local lingerie shop or nail manicure shop.



caroline

xx

[Donna Delite]

I've noticed that every response to this thread is hetero. So one may conclude that all cd's are hetero. Since this was not a "scientific" survey, drawing this conclusion is probably incorrect and the true answer lies somewhere in between. Plus, it may be difficult to catagorize many of us, maybe you're a closet cd and straight, or gay or bi for example, the possibilities are many. Myself, I left the closet years ago, and I am bi.

[Tina Dixon]

Just a married person that always liked to try on ladies clothing, then found out how fun it really is when I bought a wig and breast forms, now there is no going back, my wife has found out but mum still the word at home.

[Deidra Cowen]

I'm a social CD. My big thrill is to dress up and go out into social settings and be a girl! The sex stuff is really not that big a deal. Had fun with that as a guy its really not too differant now. :evil:

I probably slip and reveal myself every once in a while but I don't generally give away my sexual preferences since I don't want that to be how I am defined nor have that the reason people want to interact with me.

[Annabel]

Hetero cd who dresses partly.

I wear my skirts/tights/boots/shoes as often as I can, which is usually on my own. SO gently tolerates it. I don't go out and don't dress fully (I think that would cause problems, but I can mostly get by without).

[Siobhan Marie]

I'm a hetro closeted cd who loves GG's.

:hugs: Anna x

[Jillian310]

I enter these waters with caution! I would best describe my 'orientation' as follows: I love having sex with GG's. Wearing panties before/during the act is a real turn on. I like for the GG to also be wearing panties at the time. I love havng sex with other CD's the best, and am always dressed for this. Girly/lesbian lovemaking is also a real turn on, including lots of kissing, hugging and foreplay. I also like having sex with straight and gay males whether dressed or not, but prefer being dressed. Kissing, hugging, etc. usually precedes. Maybe the best term is 'Univeralist/unihibited'

[Kate Simmons]

I'm kind of like Deidra, a social person who enjoys a good time as my femme self and associating and talking with my friends. Ericka

[Nike]

I am a heterosexual CD. I have been offered the opportunity (as most of us have) to explore bi/gay sex on more than one occasion and chose not to, as men do nothing for me. I was single at the time and the only constraint on me was my personal needs and desires. I am attracted to feminininity.

I love my wife who is smart, strong, mature and sexy. I also enjoy that my Bride often takes the Dominant role in our sexual relationship. What we share is consensual and mutually beneficial. We each get what we want. I can experience femininity with her in a very casual around the house setting just sharing time and/or in a sexual setting. We each have our limits on what we will or won't do and those limits are respected.

[Eugenie]

Well,

I considered myself pretty much heterosexual until I had a fascinating experience while dressed "en femme". I'm not going to tell the story again. Suffice to say that during an evening at a TV friend, she seduced me.

She was attracted by my cleavage and quickly turned back to her maleself reactions.

So much for my certitudes about my gender orientation... I am still very much attracted to women and certainly not attracted to men when I'm in drab.

Complex isn't it?
:love:
Eugenie

[QZ2]

I am a happily married hetero CDr. Very much still in the closet. Because of our lifestyle I may go months in drab, then find myself with the opportunity to 24/7 for as much as two weeks in a row.

Like some others, there have been some gay encounters when I was younger and more experimental, but with no satisfaction. Now I feel that a woman is God's gift to mankind. They are beautiful, gentle and sexy. If sometimes I am able to look like a woman, it is a real turn on to me. :cheeky:

Susie

[Byllie]

I'm a heterosexual CD, happily married to a beautiful woman for 28 years.

[Tiffy]

I am a cd who is bi and married to a wonderful and supportive wife. Just had an anniversary Saturday.:D

April

[Amanduhrob]

Hetero, dress five or six times a year, engaged to a dominant woman, never had, or wanted to have any sexual relations with males, or cd's.

[Eleanor]

I am bi-sexual when I dress up!

[Joy Carter]

Love my So nobody else can give me what I need but then there is the girl within that she can't bare meeting.

[sparks]

I slip into the whatever catagory. I'm just kinda weird little me. I've never tried to define who or what I am! Sometimes I don't want to dress at all sometimes i wish I could stay dressed forever. Happily married for many moons and will most likely stay that way!
I hate living in the sticks though. I can't stand it. Narrow mindness all over the place.

[rickie121x]

:bonk: I am so very male - though and through, that the thought of a sensual touch from another male sends the wrong kind of shivers up my spine! I love my male friends, the straight ones - and shy away from most CD, TS, TG contacts.

:doll: Crossdressed at the BDSM parties, which are nearly the only CD outings that I have, I feel wonderful and light hearted, and then I am a great deal more social and desireous of mingling that I am when in straight clothing. I seem to don an easier going personality which is so much more engaging!

:c9: Sex is great, straight or crossdressed, but I do love to switch roles from dominant to submissive when I am dressed and it is the close of an evening of that "really hard and heavy dominant stuff", then to be tied or chained :chained: - for her to have her way with me. That is the ultimate sensual trip for me! (That's a true "10" on the scale. It is only an "8 1/2" when I maintain my Dom role) (8 1/2 is still very high on the scale!)

I am single these days, and so I dress lightly around the house - I am retired and so have more opportunity to dress than I really feel like using.... Say, about 60 percent of my time, around the house, I wear undies, or cutoffs with a chemise top, or when it's colder, a long skirt and sweater, of course always with a pair black boots (I soooo love them!)

Straight, heteropsyched, part time dresser, and loving it.

Rickie :la:

[seanmc]

80min/700mb.
The kind that dresses in women's clothing? Uh....

I like to dress as my mood sees fit. I'm just as comfortable in a t-shirt and jeans as I am in a dress and heels.

[Brianna Lovely]

Hmm, ok here goes.
I used to be straight, now I’m gay.
I used to just dress in lingerie, but now I’m going all out.
I used to think that I had to “dress to pass”, now I’m thinking of going out as a man wearing women’s clothing.
I used to be a man, now I’m a person. I’m now a person fully aware of having male and female feelings and desires and accepting these feelings as who I really am.
I still love my ex-wife, but I also LOVE men. If a man smiles at me, I’ll melt with wonderful feelings, but I’m not “easy”.
I love to be tender, loving, caring. I really enjoy holding hands, kissing and hugging.

I guess I’m now a more rounded person than I used to be, and I like who I am.

[Christa]

I've noticed that every response to this thread is hetero. So one may conclude that all cd's are hetero. Since this was not a "scientific" survey, drawing this conclusion is probably incorrect and the true answer lies somewhere in between. Plus, it may be difficult to catagorize many of us, maybe you're a closet cd and straight, or gay or bi for example, the possibilities are many. Myself, I left the closet years ago, and I am bi.

I'm a gay CDer and have been with my guy for 15 years. After coming out to him about it (will I ever be done coming out!?) about 9 months ago, we're sort of at an impass. He understands, but isn't interested in participating in any way. That leaves me dressing on my own when he's not around. I don't go out as a girl as I dress mostly for sexual or fetish reasons (no desire to live/pass as a woman). I'd love to be with a guy who likes me to dress as his girl, but that seems improbable... but I'm not giving up hope that things might change or a solution might present itself.

Love all y'all!

Christa

[az_azeel]

hi Jen
I am a hetro cd with a very supportive s/o

az_azeel

[jessica duprea]

pre-op ts live full time, srs June 2007 live with a man love him with all my heart.

I don't do woman. tried it I have but rather be with a man.

[TGMarla]

I'm a heterosexual CD, and for all practical purposes, in the closet. And for now, I'm content with that. I have no interest in sexual relations with GMs at all.

[Cherry Lynn]

I am happily married for 28 years and love to be with GG's drab or femme. When femme I am bi and love to be with a man or woman.

[Andrea Elva]

0.02 Wow and wow again. This is a hard one to give a truthful answer. I am a happy marries hero T-girl and if circumstances were different I would go for srs. The SO is supportive and tolerant of my needs to be girly at times. One thing I know that often when one transitioned one sexual choice changes and can be anything from liking GGs as sexual partners to being attracted to men and sometime bi.
At the moment I consider myself hetro loving and being attracted to females but I also admire a good-looking manly man with a nice personality. One thing I would love to do but it would have to be with a man who I can trust but also someone that fits the description I gave. That is to go away for a long weekend and spend it as a girl 24/7 and be treated as a woman for that time with the guy “escort” acting as my husband and treating me as his wife. This includes the holding of hands, kissing in public and even when we are alone. As far as ex goes well that is some thing that I just say I just leave to the experience and enjoyment of this type of adventure, not have any is what I would stop at but…..things could go the other way. The adventure would have to be acted out as if I was really his wife in all ways and if he is the right guy then…..
Any way this is fantasy of only real life type and mine that is so intense.
Going shopping while dressed and doing normal girl things is what I do now.
So for the moment till someting like the "story" above happens if evey I am an happy married hetro t-girl who loves to express the girl inside as often as I can.:love:

[Deborah]

I think i'm a TS in the closet. I'm not sure about orientation. I've only been with a few (read very few) GG's, but i've always wanted to try it (for now) with a man.

[Holly_of_Bucks]

Hetero CDr married to a wonderful woman who understands and likes me to dress. She said the other day that she could not imagine an evening alone where I was not in a skirt or dress. So after years of searching I have found my real home.

Holly

[jade lee]

Married cd/les. consider myself bi, into the dom and sub role. Love lingerie.
She really does not accept.

[LindaTS]

I happen to be a non-op TS, not by choice but by some medical reasons, who enjoys being with other women like myself and also females. Just as long as we can all enjoy life to the fullest, this is what really counts.

[Talon DeRojo]

Jen - I am a married, hetero CD who dresses in the home. I told my wife on our first date and there was still a second date! We've been together 16 years and counting. I love to dress up in satin lingerie, nylons, and high heels.
Talon

[Sharon B.]

Type of CD?
I have been dressing off and on for over forty years, the last few years I have been dressing more.
When dressed I often think what it would be like to have a male make love to me when I am dressed as a woman.
The few women I have been with, when they ask what turns me on and I tell them playing with my nipples, kissing and sucking my nipples and breast are what turn me on. They tell me I am sick and in need of help, a few of them give into my request and will play with my breast and nipples. So I guess I am bi-curious

[KarenNY]

Like a lot of you, I'm a straight, happily married CDer who doesn't get to dress very often anymore because my wife is non-tolerant... used to dress a lot more often in my younger days, was blessed to have an accepting and supportive mother...

[Katie Ashe]

I think I'm a lesbian in a males body, so CD to me is normal.

[pinkshelly]

I've always said I'm a lesbian trapped in a mans body.
I just love and has always love women, 'spesially bigger girls. now i know why. they are so soft and feminin. Just like I like to be. The s.o. is very supportive of me, she even brings home the Avon catalog and asks what i want from it. I do wish she would be alittle more dom but I got it so good I can't complain.
I don't get to dress as much as I would like, but that is going to change here in July.
The preference thing. I couldn't tell a hot guy from a mutt. although I do have a fantasy.
Huggs, Shelly.

[panty-boy]

I'm a married CD that doesn't get to dress as often as desired because my wife is not tolerant. When dressed, I feel like a girl and want to take on those roles, not sure if that makes me bi or what...

[Helen MC]

Hetero male , fetishistic about female clothing especially panties, stockings, suspender belts (garter belts), slips , pleated and A line knee length skirts, full cup and long line bras. These days I am auto-erotic.

[Jamie Coffee]

I'm Hetro married dress when ever I can SO knows but will never understand or help wishes it never happened
:(

[Marla]

Well here we go. We're all different. I am definitely bi. I cant think of anything more exciting than to have sex with a man when I'm dressed as Marla.

[donna h]

Im 43 married 2 kids, they dont know. Hetero, no interest in men.Love my wife more than I can say. We went through the hard times of CDing and have reached some agreement on it. She gives me time and I give her my love and support.

[anne16]

After veiwing the dom/sub thread, Dawn's excellent reply has me wondering just how many cd lifestyles are there? Hetro, bi, gay, pre-op, sub. what is, what isn't, what else? :confused:
Myself, just a simple gal; hetro cder, divorced and still looking for that understanding gg. Hoping all you gals are enjoying the holiday!
Hi im a TV/Bi sexual love men but only when dressed fem.
Anne,

[michelle-h]

I am a hetero CD, married 10 yrs to a wonderful girl. She has recently become very supportive. She does not mind if I dress at home as long as the kids are gone or in bed. For now there are no plans for dressed adventures outside the home, but who knows what the future will bring. A week ago my wife was tolerant of my dressing, now she is buying me bra and panties. She even admitted to getting a little hot and bothered thinking about making love to me dressed en femme. I feel like the luckiest girl in the world. I can't imagine getting this much love and understanding from a man. I will definitely stay with my girl.

Michelle-H

[Melissa Ann]

I am a hetero male,single, 40. I have always been curious of what women's clothing felt like. Once I tried hose and heels I was hooked. Now I dress to relax release stress. I enjoy going out and not have to put on a male persona.
Love, Melissa Ann

[pockets]

simply hetero

[MissAnnie]

I am a closeted TV/CD, and I think my sexuality is mostly bi, which means that I love GGs and I love other TV/CDs. But I have no interest in men, only if they are dressed as females.

[lee james]

A lonely one-based on the geographical area that I live and work in & the ''redneck'' prejudices that are rampart here.Thank God I have a lovely wife who keeps me sane-most of the time anyway!

[MsJanessa]

I'm a bi-sexual, transgendered Domme----have sex with men and women---My sex with men is exclusivly with Me as the Dominant party and only when dressed---get really turned on by topping them---both verbally and physically---My sex with women is more conventional---My favorite sexual partners are other attractive CDs/TGs---particularly those with a submissive streak---the best of both worlds as far as I'm concerned.:dom:

[Bernice]

Here come those labels again. Problem is, I'm always different. So few labels really fit me.

I have male genitalia, and my body produces more testosterone than I would like. I hate wearing pants of any kind. Dressing is not a sexual thing for me. I like the look and feel of "womens" clothing, both on me and on others. I'd be happier if absolutely nobody wore pants!

Sexually, I just don't know. I am happily married to a wonderful person with female genitalia whose body produces much less testosterone than mine does. I have my fantasies, and some are very bizzarre. In all my fantasies, my fantasy genitalia are always different than those of my fantasy sex partner, but often not the same as in the "real world". TS is out of the question for so many reasons. I don't think it pays to rock the boat and speculate about "what if?", since "what if" will likely never occur. If I were younger, and never married, and wealthy, then I might speculate. I'm not trying to evade the question. I just don't know how to convey fitting labels.

[Keely]

Well, here goes. Hetero, married, mostly in the closet. Usually wear something femme most days but don't do it up completely that often.

[Audrey34]

Hetero, single, dresses up whenever my depression lifts and the double burden of being a bondage fanatic.
-Audrey

[Toyah]

I am hetro sorry but guys bits are yuck !!!!! Married not sure if happily but maybe contentjust love dressing up every so often

[MsJordan]

Hetero...married...closeted...love the feel and look of female clothes (always have)...expressing my inner femininity!!

[Sky]

"Well-defined bi".

Whadjasay?

I'm a top with women and a bottom with men. The switch happens when I crossdress, and it's pretty much automatic. I rarely feel attracted by women when I'm dressed up, and never by men when I'm in drab.

[dancer1]

Well a hard survey to answer i am married 22 years have 3 grown sons and one younster I love GG for all they inspier me to look as good as them and for the warm compassion that they have and thier plight in a mans world i have had a social bi exsperiance but my desire is to at least be nadeen who is the better part of me myself and I.:love:

[Khriss]

...exotic erotic...
(i'vebeenknowntoturnmyself"on"whendressed!?):eek: :D xx"K"

[Butterfly Bill]

I like girls so much I want to wear their clothes (and sometimes look as good as they do). I've never been married because I know I'm too crazy to live with anybody else. In pants when I am doing work that makes clothes dirty. In a dress all the rest of the time (except when I'm naked).

[Kristen Kelly]

I'm a social CD. My big thrill is to dress up and go out into social settings and be a girl! The sex stuff is really not that big a deal. Had fun with that as a guy its really not too differant now. :evil:

I probably slip and reveal myself every once in a while but I don't generally give away my sexual preferences since I don't want that to be how I am defined nor have that the reason people want to interact with me.

Deidra I'm with you and agree, I hate labels, I am who I am, get to know me, see who I am, not who I think I am.

[lisa92268]

I'm straight and married. I Just love wearing girls clothes and looking and acting the part. My wife knows, sometimes she's good with it and sometimes not. Seems lately more like she's not. Just depends on her mood. Either way I love her, and i know that i love doing what i do!

Lisa

[Francine]

I'm a married male, and as a male, I do like the ladies..but as a woman.. I think I have a tendency to like ladies too! A friend of mine once said ... "Well, that must make you "Hetro-Lesbian".
The term.. just may fit.

Francine

[TeriAnn]

I am a happily married cder with one child . I have not even tried to explain what I like to do to her. My wife is very accepting we go to dept.stroes and look together for clothes that each might like. Same goes for shoes I look for her and her for me. We have a blast doing the shopping thing together. I have never and will never go or be with a male. I have a few cd friends and we treat each other as sisters. For which I am grateful. All in all gg's rock.0.02

[Dee 1062]

Iamme:
I am bi when I am dress,I go out once a month, But wear makeup and dress as much as I can around the house....I do use safe sex and like straight guys.
I like the attention I get from guys when I'm dress.

[tgirlkari]

What type of CD? I do not really know if they have an actual term for the way I am, I sexually prefer to be with women (yes men have been tried) Iam more than a crossdresser but not really a transexual if that makes sense at times I would give anything to have been born a woman and other times I am happy to have been born the way I am no I never wish for the girl within me to go away She's here to stay I love her and I love being her.

[HaleyPink2000]

Ok, label myself HUH?0.02

Hetro CD TG MTF Lesbian. LOLOL:):D

Oh, and very Married!

[suchacutie]

Just another straight hetero male married to a loving hetero female, both of whom enjoy it when Tina visits!

Tina

[marti]

I am a straight married cd as well. I wife wants nothing to do with my dressing so I get to dress for short times maybe a couple of times a month at home. When not dressed I am not fem at all.

[Amelie]

I'm a goth, who likes guys. I would rather receive pain from guys than to have sex with them, I am into S&M.

[Paula G]

I am a Hetero CDer, married, who likes to dress when I have the time to myself. I have dressed for my wife when she's in the mood to have me in the bedroom (she figured out a couple of years ago that she was gay), but I don't think she knows about my dressing outside of the bedroom (or doesn't let on if she does know).

[Deanna2]

I'm a guy who loves to wear femme gear because it is so soft and comfortable.

[JennyTVPerth]

I seem to be among the minority of the replies - I'm an otherwise-straight guy who has very strong fantasies about being with a guy when I'm dressed as Jenny.

The fantasies aren't just about having sex, but more of being a sweet girlfriend to a nice guy and sharing lots of hand-holding, cuddles, kisses and romantic interludes.

I haven't acted on these fantasies as yet, although I did end up have a few phone conversations with another CD a few years ago. It could have lead to more than just phone contact, but I didn't feel ready to go any further at that time.

However, the fantasies remain very strong .....

[danielle1973]

I'm yet another hetro cd. I'm married to a beautiful gal who has become more accepting of my obsession than i am, i think. I ove to see this as a poll again to see the mix of hetro, bi or gay cd's in here

chhers

Danni

[WandaLou]

Like most of the girls here, I'm Herto, I just prefer wearing women's clothing. Wife has known for awhile.

[Sky]

I seem to be among the minority of the replies - I'm an otherwise-straight guy who has very strong fantasies about being with a guy when I'm dressed as Jenny.

The fantasies aren't just about having sex, but more of being a sweet girlfriend to a nice guy and sharing lots of hand-holding, cuddles, kisses and romantic interludes.

I haven't acted on these fantasies as yet, although I did end up have a few phone conversations with another CD a few years ago. It could have lead to more than just phone contact, but I didn't feel ready to go any further at that time.

However, the fantasies remain very strong .....
The only way to get rid of fantasies is to live them.

Go for it, girl!

[Han]

Straight, dom, CD, with a very supportive partner.

Han
:dom:

[SatinSarah]

As with most I am a very male CDer who becomes a woman as soon as dressed, and then bck again afterwards. I am very hetro - very attracted to other women - but often jealous of how thye look and what they are wearing as well. I have had a supportive wife for 10 years (although not for the last 18 months - another long story told elsewhere)

I have been reading the thread about being gay. I suppoe like most Cders I want to feel very femenine when dressed and would like to be admired as a woman by a man - but would want to always go home with a GG!!

Sarah

[sexydragon]

Umm well I envy some of you girls that live as a woman full time, and have a wounderful man to share your life with, but at the same time I guess I would have to consider myself BI, I love being with a woman as much as I enjoy a mans touch. And to me it dont matter what Im wearing, if I and whoever happen to click and Im in a pair of Jeans or all dolled up. Its on, yet I consider myself lucky to have a roomie that more like a older sister in that she dont mind me trapsing around here eather in a short mini skirt or a pair of baggy ole sweat pants.

As far as being submissive or dom, umm again it depends on the mood,, sometime Ive been know to be very submissive at the start, but well before the night is over, well you get the idea :)

But I my dream is to find another CD or TS to live togeather with as roomies and lovers, would be nice to have another closet to raid now and then when its going to be a girl's night out

[Gurly]

Geez, talk about opening a can of worms. When not dressed (which is most of the time) I am attracted to, and prefer GG's as well as ******** (huh?). When dressed I am still NOT attracted to men per se, but would certainly appreciate attention from them but would NOT want any sexual contact with them. Of course, that doesn't explain the ******* thing either. I gave up trying to figure it out.

[jerseycarla]

I've been a cd as long as I can remember, my 3rd wife knew before we were married. The 1st two knew nothing. I think I have always been Bi. I always have somthing fem. on. I don't look for men, but when the chance is there I usally take it.

[simonep]

Hetero male, who likes wearing girls underwear, stockings etc. Have a great wife who when buying for herself says to me in a whisper "what would you like for yourself?" We occiasionally have interesting discussions about which underwear is comfortable, practical or not!!! :happy:

BTW - the openness of these chats has lead to a great improvement in other areas......

Lots of love

Simonep

[kelly-ann]

Well i guess i'm a girl at heart...sometimes a sub,,,sometimes a Dom..depends on the play partner...My GG friends treat me the same dressed or not...My partner would have me dressed 24/7...But its not a perfect world..i love being with the girls or out with the girlfriend...And i love the power i have when Boys try to pick me up :tongueout
..I prefer the touch and smells of a woman..but have been on dates with boys...As long as you are Who you really are,,,it dosnt matter what your sexuality is...

Hugs
Kelly-ann

[michellesue]

Hetero, married and in the closet..........love to wear female closes. Dream is to go out dressed after a makeover and have party as a women.
Michelle

[Sonia_cd]

My name is Sonia and I am a male who likes wearing womens clothes and prefers women only as partners!

Sounds like an introduction to a support group, don't it??? :D

Love,
Sonia

[Vivian Best]

I am a straight and committed! I just happen to adore, worship, want, need clothing of the opposite sex. My wife knows but certainly doesn't accept. But, I'm throughly 100% committed to her. When dressed, I'm only attracted to my wife. I'm not into dom and sub. I leave it to others.

Vivian:rose2: