What one thing about yourself would you change?

[Sharon]

I've given this some thought this past week as I have finally begun to venture out into the world, self-conscious about almost every little thing. Make-up I will eventually master, the figure is coming along, and hair is too easy(at least for me), but the one thing that has proven most difficult for me is my voice, a deep bass. I would wish to have it be a more feminine timbre, so it's not such a struggle to sound "real".
Please no obvious replies like genitalia or breasts! I don't want it to be too simple after all!

[Lily_gg]

But breasts are the one thing I'd change!!! One cup size bigger would be lovely, :rolleyes: but only if someone could just wave a magic wand and make it happen - false ones feel funny apparently, and I wouldn't want to pay money for that; and I don't fancy throwing all sorts of hormones into my body (apart from the Pill, and I'm hoping that's safe enough now) - I wanna have kids one day, and extra hormones might have effects I don't want...

And on a lighter note, I'd make my feet one size smaller, and less wide, so that buying shoes would be easier. But then I'd need to win the lottery...... :D

ps I am allowed to join in with this aren't I? Oh, and good luck with your ventures - you sound like you're doing great :)

[JoannaDees]

I want my hair back! Long and thick and beautiful! That's it!

[kimlove57]

i would love to work out and get my waist line to were i look good in a two pice swimsuit lay out and sun tan

kim

[Wendy me]

one thing to change???????????way easy get "him" to move out and take "his" parts with "him"

[Wendy-Anne]

Perhaps its that little boy deep down inside inside. The one who has the fear and the terror.The frightened toddler who rises up and wrenches control when I least expect it. The one who always thought that if he could be a girl, then everything would be alright.

Wendy-Anne

[ChristineRenee]

So many things here could apply. A flatter tummy and thinner waistline certainly would be high on the list. But I love to eat and I like my beer and both are feminine "figure killers". Sorry....but I can't live on carrot and celery sticks, watercress sandwitches and tofu. I applaud the many gg's, and others, who have the self-discipline to deny themselves when it is necessary so as to achieve their desired goals. I just can't seem to make that kind of trade off at this stage of my life however. A real lack of willpower I'm afraid.

Love,
Christine Renee

[LauraB]

The one thing i would change about myself is much of my past.

As a young boy i used to be very very nasty to another boy who was a bit gay. I am sure that now i was hitting out at him so that others would not be aware that i had very non-male feelings. I am truely ashamed even after so much time of my cowardice and my intolerence. I would love to be able to remove that period of my life.

I have often thought of loooking him up and telling him how ashamed i am still.
My great fear is that he might have been racked by my brutal treatment of him and give me the kicking i once deserved.

Worse still, would be if i knocked at his door and found him to be tall handsome man married to a tall sexy girl with 5 kids. That he would look deep in my eyes and say "Hello i know you didn't you used to be a boy, well, well what a turn out come on in mate and have a beer."



Love
Laura :(

[Georgette]

The one thing that dominates my feelings are that I didn't and never will tell my SO that I cross dress although I have done it long before we were married. I do have regrets about that. not about dressing , but not telling her sooner. :(

[Wendy me]

probely i would have came to terms abought all this me "him" stuff a long time ago think abought it one me happy ,sain,and free one day
one step at a time ,for now

[Stephanie Brooks]

Hi Sharon!

My hands are like paws. I actually have fairly tiny wrists, but these paws are completely unfeminine. For a guy, they're fine. They're bony, the tendons and blood vessels are prominent. I've long fingers that are probably average thickness. While I've little interest in football (US), I can grip one quite well and put a very nice spin on one in a pass. They're not very feminine, however. They're just big paws. I'd want them to be smaller. Accordingly, when dressing to go out, I have to be careful. Jewelry must be big enough to not look lost, and yet small enough to not look as if I'm some beast. :eek:

[Wendy me]

stephine hold a big drink glass or a full 2 arms worth of shopping bags that makes the hands look smaller. or tons of bracletts

[DonnaT]

My broken nose. Then again, my wife says I have no butt, so a little help there would go a long ways.

[tashascott]

aside from the obvious,(would love to get 38C implants) I would opt foe facilal cosmetic surgery to look for fem and I would also have something done about softening my voice as well

[babe4life]

Stephanie,

Same kind of problem ... the shape of the hands is just too much guyness. I have these thin wrists (same as my friend's), but then things go wrong.

The other thing that I would LOVE to be rid of is the ol' adam's apple.

Love,
Vicky

[BecomingBrooke]

Hey girls,

what i woudl change about myself is probally my male parts all of them my penis (hope i can say that ;) ) my chest (to a nice 36B) and my adams apple athought it's not that big removed also i would proballyu make myself shorter in fact if i had to PICK ONE thing i don't think i could do it, i would like to be a smaller girl i gusse that is one thing with many little details!

Love,
Elisha

[Amelie]

Perhaps its that little boy deep down inside inside. The one who has the fear and the terror.The frightened toddler who rises up and wrenches control when I least expect it. The one who always thought that if he could be a girl, then everything would be alright.

Wendy-Anne

This sounds so sad, Wendy-Anne. I hope this little boy, isn't living in fear for too much longer. I wish she can emerge and save you.

What would I change? Nothing I'm perfect.
Amelie

[Chandra Marie]

I would like smaller feet so it would be easer to find cute shoes

[Sharon]

But breasts are the one thing I'd change!!! One cup size bigger would be lovely, :rolleyes: but only if someone could just wave a magic wand and make it happen - false ones feel funny apparently, and I wouldn't want to pay money for that; and I don't fancy throwing all sorts of hormones into my body (apart from the Pill, and I'm hoping that's safe enough now) - I wanna have kids one day, and extra hormones might have effects I don't want...
:D

ps I am allowed to join in with this aren't I? Oh, and good luck with your ventures - you sound like you're doing great :)

LOL! There's always one smart-ass, isn't there? :D

[JennyCD]

Let's see, hands yes, figure oh yes, I would have to say if just one thing it would have to also be my voice. Mine is also quite deep.

[Sharon]

This sounds so sad, Wendy-Anne. I hope this little boy, isn't living in fear for too much longer. I wish she can emerge and save you.

What would I change? Nothing I'm perfect.
Amelie

Amelie:
I hope you realize how fortunate you are to have this confidence and attitude!

[Lily_gg]

LOL! There's always one smart-ass, isn't there? :D
Where?! Who?! I don't see them...... :p

Oh, and Christine - food denial never works (chocolate brownie cravings, mmmmmmmmmm :p And pizza, yum!) - becoming addicted to exercise is the only way! ;)

[StephanieCD]

My God I'd change so much! Gonna have to agree with Donna though - my busted nose. Then, smaller feet, less body hair, wish I had my long hair back, my voice, etc....

And, in guy land - I wish I was just two inches taller. Damn, why can't guy me wear heels!?

[StephanieCD]

I had a real nice pair for a while after I lived in TX for a bit - then I moved to my current location... the boots are a bit frowned upon out here ;)

Damn yankees! lol

[Sharon]

Jenny, I do believe you're getting better looking! :)

[ChristineRenee]

Where?! Who?! I don't see them...... :p

Oh, and Christine - food denial never works (chocolate brownie cravings, mmmmmmmmmm :p And pizza, yum!) - becoming addicted to exercise is the only way! ;)
Chocolate brownies and pizza...oh Lily...those are my favorite health foods! As for exercise...I assume that "pumping aluminum" doesn't count either, right?


Love,
Christine Renee

[samanthajay]

more hair on my head and less on my body :D

[samanthajay]

Chocolate brownies and pizza...oh Lily...those are my favorite health foods! As for exercise...I assume that "pumping aluminum" doesn't count either, right?


Love,
Christine Renee
yeah beer chugging. although i havn't done that latlly and my waist is smaller. beer gut is going bye bye :D

[Abraxas]

Emmmmm...
Besides my voice and breasts (chop 'em off!) I would want... a slightly higher forehead, and a slightly wider jawline. Chin implant should work nicely for the jaw :)

[Alayna]

Drop 5" of height and 3 shoe sizes, but then I've been wishing for that for years since I discovered the hell of finding pants, shoes, and high ceilings - and that's not including girly stuff! Oh well, I could be like my sister's roomate who's legally a midget at 4'10"! All things considered though I'm fairly happy:)

[samanthajay]

amozon woman. :D

[Sharon]

Emmmmm...
Besides my voice and breasts (chop 'em off!) I would want... a slightly higher forehead, and a slightly wider jawline. Chin implant should work nicely for the jaw :)

I'll trade you mine for yours -- all of 'em :) .

[pattysue]

I like to loose about 7 to 8 inches in height. And have the body weight drop down accordingly plus a little.

Pattysue

[Tristen Cox]

JULIE M, you are right on the money! Bones!!

Alayna and Sam :rolleyes: you two...:D LoL

[ieya]

Hmm only one thing shucks i got whole list.

Face : want to look younger and more feminine
weight: would love to lose several stone in weight
legs: would love longer legs

and naturally my maleness. I want to be a female once and for all so i can not be in this frustration no more.


love ieya
xxxxxxxxxxxx

[Abraxas]

Sharon-- sure!

[JennyCD]

WOuld be one heck of a collision! Julie I just love all these little animations you use. Where in the world do you find them?

[JennyCD]

Never mind, I followed the link in the pic. Only works with Internet Explorer which I refuse to use. :(

[LeslieGirl]

HI
Jenny

You sound like me when it comes to internet explorer, that"s what I running. really no choice. The only thing I would
want to change on my body is a little larger on the breasts
size. Everything else is in place.

TGirl

[Sharon]

Sharon-- sure!

Okay! I just hope you're not too disappointed!

[Bonnie-OR]

Facial Features. After too many years in the sun, wind, salt air, I have terrible facial skin. And too many nights with no sleep for too many years, have bags under my eyes. Tried facial creams, even tried the Prep-H that someone here mentioned. That does seem to help a little, believe it or not. The other biggie for me is my hands. Again, too many years of abuse have given me two hunks of callous and scar tissue. The rest of the package I think I can at least live with. Huggs, Bonnie

[Jen_TGCD]

I have dealt with most of the challenges of hiding a man's body in a dress but, still, my biggest problem/challenge is my skull! (Didn't want to say, "head", for obvious reasons!) It's large, even for a guy and looks even more out of scale in female mode. (See why I chose the alternative wording?)

A wig with bangs and full at the sides helps but I'm not there yet. I can make my body fuller/chunkier like Mrs Doubtfire but thats not really very chic or attractive. Maybe a head transplant will be a viable alternative in the future but for now... a consultation with a wig specialist is my only option, at the moment.

Bonnie... I can relate. I have spent my life "worshiping the Sun Goddess" and now I'm paying for it. Taping helps but a face lift is also on my list of things to do this lifetime.

Allison... Yup! Rhinoplasty is also on my list!!! :o

Next is the legs... Being the ruged, out-doors-y type, my legs have taken a beating over the years. I understood too late in life that women are "gentle" for a reason. Well... thank goodness that long skirts are in fashion! Plus... I love my broomstick skirts!!! Southwest Chic ! ! ! :)

[Nikki A.]

Facial features and body everything else I can deal with.

[samanthajay]

JULIE M, you are right on the money! Bones!!

Alayna and Sam :rolleyes: you two...:D LoL
i miss my long hair :(

[samanthajay]

I know what you mean. I've given up beer myself. It's hell on the girlish figure. :)

I wish there was a bar here where I'm spending the weekend. Could go for a nice cold Long Island Iced Tea about now.
yeah i drink a lot more southern confert. :D

[crispy]

when will medicine allow me to transplant my identity into the body of lovely girl of my choice? A body swap. She can have mine - it's in quite good condition. When? ..... never :(

seriously I'd like to do an Alice in Wonderland thing - reduce all my dimensions by 15%. I'd like to be 5' 2" tall, with 35-26-36 figure. those lovely Asian ******** have a cute small bone structure and can pass so much more easily.

[JoannaDees]

seriously I'd like to do an Alice in Wonderland thing - reduce all my dimensions by 15%. I'd like to be 5' 2" tall, with 35-26-36 figure. those lovely Asian ******** have a cute small bone structure and can pass so much more easily.

I'd like bimbo on the beach thing ... 5-8 and 36-24-36 ... blonde. Size 9 shoe. I could go into more detail but it would be out of hand.

[Abraxas]

Such a collision sounds painful!
But hey! I'm willing.
No, I actually do like my body, apart from the things I mentioned (and the obvious bits...)
What I'd REALLY like is to be my own twin brother (I don't have a twin brother, but if I did, I'd want to be him).

Of course, I wouldn't mind being David Bowie.

Oi, can you imagine if Eddie Izzard and I had kids? All the little transvestite babies running round... Jeeeeeeeeeeezy Creezy!
But they'd have a good sense of humour and fantastic eyes!

I can just imagine it...

[SatinSarah]

I would have to lose the hair on my body and face. My body I can live with, but my own real boobs...now that would be soooo great.

[Wendy-Anne]

I guess I must have been on a real downer the other day.
The fear thing is something I've only found out about in recent years, but turns out to be the very thing that poisoned so much of my early life.
Today is another day.
Help me celebrate! There is one thing that is about to change!
My darling wife has promised to give me a makeover and do my face this weekend!
Thats one big toe out of the closet for this girl!
Quick - grap the nail polish.

Love and hugs
Wendy-Anne

[coral_s]

Wendy-Anne

Wow, that is something to look forward to.

Make the most of it.

[Julie]

Wendy-Anne, I'm glad you're feeling better than the other day and very pleased to hear about your impending make-over.

JJ

[Wendy me]

the one thing that i am change ing is my mind i realy can't belive how mutch of wendy is on all the time i still have a rash of "his thoughts and stuped things he dose" but i think wendy is pushing right on in (thats a good thing)

[Julie]

the one thing that i am change ing is my mind i realy can't belive how mutch of wendy is on all the time i still have a rash of "his thoughts and stuped things he dose" but i think wendy is pushing right on in (thats a good thing)

One redeeming feature of Wendy that I like is how chatty she is. :D

JJ

[Jerry]

I'd love to have smaller shoulders so I could wear straps. The only thing I like myself in is jeweled necklines or those wonderful shoulderpads of the 80's. I have to have some sleeve too.

Oh, well....

[Georgette]

I have to update my wanabe's.
I would love to turn the clock back about 30 years and be as open as I am now, but of course 30 years ago we were freaks or the other kind and were frowned upon by all of society. Yes 30 years I would be going by Georgette as a first name in public and every thing else, can't quite explain this , but I hope y-all gat the point.
HUGS.

[Anne Charlotte]

Smaller feet (so I could spend ALL my money on boots) :p , and a waist that is smaller than my chest !! :mad:

[Wendy me]

hair,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,to go back in time and never have cut my hair long flowing hair thick and full of curls .............yes hair...

[Sharon]

I guess I must have been on a real downer the other day.
The fear thing is something I've only found out about in recent years, but turns out to be the very thing that poisoned so much of my early life.
Today is another day.
Help me celebrate! There is one thing that is about to change!
My darling wife has promised to give me a makeover and do my face this weekend!
Thats one big toe out of the closet for this girl!
Quick - grap the nail polish.

Love and hugs
Wendy-Anne

Have fun Wendy Anne! I bet this will be the slowest week of your life though!

[samanthajay]

Such a collision sounds painful!
But hey! I'm willing.
No, I actually do like my body, apart from the things I mentioned (and the obvious bits...)
What I'd REALLY like is to be my own twin brother (I don't have a twin brother, but if I did, I'd want to be him).

Of course, I wouldn't mind being David Bowie.

Oi, can you imagine if Eddie Izzard and I had kids? All the little transvestite babies running round... Jeeeeeeeeeeezy Creezy!
But they'd have a good sense of humour and fantastic eyes!

I can just imagine it...
good lord that sounds great and scary at the same time. :eek: :D

[samanthajay]

hair,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,to go back in time and never have cut my hair long flowing hair thick and full of curls .............yes hair...
i hear ya. :(

[sky0629]

well my 2 cents. little more ass, fix a nose you could land a 747 on. and a little dental work. other than that i'm a poor make-up artist. practice, practice, sky

[racquel]

shorter,thinner.

[Marlene4a]

My answer: Nothin. Nada, Zen, Zip, and Zoodle.

"Olde Roumanian Quote...."Depression is merely anger without enthusiasm".

[Sharon]

No fat lips? Not if it was really safe and effective? C'mon Marlene..., you're beautiful, but there's always something. :)

[Marlene4a]

Just a "flleeing" thought hun.

Love Ya...always will.

[Marlene4a]

All right doll, you caught me.

What I would change is my:

1. 6'4" tall is a bit much for a girl. ( Even though I saw some "hot"chicks this tall and taller....whoaaaaaa!!...so, maybe I would like to be 6'2" to be in the "in crowd, at least here in Seattle. They seem to grow them taller" !! and what legggs!!!.)

2. My feet ( MY Gawwwd) size 13 is just too much. Like I would like to have a size 9 or 10 (stretching it) foot.

OK...YOu dragged it out of me Sharon, but what are friends for....

Love you

[Sharon]

Now that wasn't so hard, was it? Now forget about it, you're perfect! :)

[Marlene4a]

Love you Sharon. You are my Sweetest!!

By the way, I sure like that last outfit I saw you in.
I mean black short skirt, red top, pretty legs, nice pose, Hey!! come on, where are more posts.

You know me.

Me.
Love

OK, Olde roumanian saying " She who laughs last, thinks slowest" lol !! haaaahaa.

[Stormgirl]

My gender but since that really isnt an option at this point(no $) I'd change my train of thought and negative thinking.

[Wendy me]

i was told to come here and ....."WISH FOR A SPELLING CHIP TRANS PLANT"

wendy now clicks her heels 3 times ............................ :p

[crispy]

well, was your wish granted ?? ;)

[Wendy me]

so far no but still hopefull................dose anyone know of a spell check program that i could use while on this forum????????open to idears
tyanks crispy i am trying

[crispy]

so far no but still hopefull................dose anyone know of a spell check program that i could use while on this forum????????open to idears
tyanks crispy i am trying
bless you my dear. we will keep trying to understand your posts, you are great fun and I will not snap at your toes for ten days. promise.


PS never trust a shark, even if she looks as if she is just basking :) :)

[Rhonda Callahan]

If just one thing, I'd have to choose breasts. But then that one thing would lead to another, and soon, I'd look like a tall natural woman ? Maybe ? To Me. To Laura B., had a similar situation in childhood, my male cousin, and I doubt I'll ever have the courage to apologize. To Lily, are you welcome to join in on this subject, why not ? We're not that much different, inside. To Wendy-Anne, we all have those little boys or little girls inside us, some of them are more scared than others, and I will pray that yours will allow you to be happy,soon ! Don't allow any of your life to go by, without adjusting yourself towards the happines that you desire. I wish you peace for your little self, and then you'll have it for your big self.

[Man in tights]

I hate my nose. It's a bloody great roman style nose, and I can't think of any ways to lessen it's appearance. Since I've been actively conscious of this I've noticed that very few girls have such a monster on their faces. This depresses me because the rest of me looks quite good (relative to my expectations) when dressed up. I'd have a nose job but it's such a distinctive thing that no-one could fail to notice that I'd had it done, plus it kinda runs in the family (males only)... so that might piss of the parents as well!

Ooh... my jawline is also kinda irritating (i.e. square in shape), but thank goodness for long hair wigs!

Are there any clever tricks i can do with makeup to hide my enormous hooter?

MIT

[Rachel Ann]

Smaller, more pointed chin
Less prominent Adam's apple
Smaller shoulders
Smaller waist (yes, I am too lazy to exercise!)
A bit shorter (6'0")

Oh yes, and 30 years younger!

[Christiane]

I was 9 when I realized I was a girl. And then I spent so many years denying that she exisited.

What would I change?

All the lost time....
All the lost time.

Love,
Christiane