I Don't know how to dress.

[wannabie]

I don't know if this was in the forum before but my question is how do you dress?

Most people say to just dress what your feeling, but for me that isn't easy.
Today for example I wanted to do something all fem but in male mode, but I didn’t want to attract the wrong kind of attention (you know the stares.:shocked: people looking at you and say "He's gay" or 'totally gay' and suddenly everyone treats you like you have major funk ). I pulled out most of my clothes just matching outfits until I found just the right match that was perfect. It took me an hour and a half to find the right look. A white shirt I got from 'The Avenue' with a tank top underneath and dark jeans.
anyone ever had that problem just finding something?

I rifling through my stuff found a pearl necklace that I haven't worn in ages.
have anyone else ever worn pearls? if you haven't you should.
I meet with some friends (both male and female) in a restaurant and they liked it. With the outfit I pulled it off and I don't think they noticed that I wasn't wearing any male clothes. a lot of complements my way (Yay!:D )

so, anyone ever gone through the same thing? Can’t decide what to wear. If there's like a fashion forum I didn’t find it in here.

[myMichelle]

I can totally relate to everything you have just said. You may think you've lost your mind, but I think you're on the right track. It's always a good day if you recieve a complement or two on whatever you're wearing--and don't worry too much about the amount of time it takes you to put together an outfit because you're not alone. I'm a major shoe "freak" myself, so for me, it's always a question of which shoes to wear. A girl has to look good, and some things just can't be rushed...

[Kate Simmons]

Never know what I'm going to look like until I'm finished. Still get compliments most every time. Go figure. No right or wrong way to do it, I guess. Go with your feelings and you can't go wrong. Works for me as Hunter would say. Ericka

[bredalee25]

Thats the only way i dress. I never wear my fem stuff without trying to look like a girl. I would never go out wearing all fem stuff and be in guy mode. If i'm going out it's all girl or nothing. Now i've gone out with fem stuff on underneath my guy clothes. This one time i was all dressed and needed a few thing from the store so rather than take everything off i just removed my wig and forms grabbed a hooded sweat shirt and a pair of jeans and headed out to the store. It was quite thrilling to know that everything under what people saw was fem.

ttfn

[Bernice]

I think it is a stereotypical female trait to have trouble deciding what to wear. I know I have had to try several things until I found something to fit my mood exactly. Sometimes on a long commute home, anticipating some "alone" time, I ponder the question for quite some time. Sometimes, I know I will only have a few minutes to enjoy myself, so careful planning is essential.

With my big wardrobe, sometimes it takes me days to remember where I put something I really want to wear again. I always worry that something happened to it, but I don't realy think she (SO) would do that to me, although once she gave two dresses (that her mother had giver her, but were too big for her) away to the Salvation Army, and I had been wearing them. Now she asks before doing anything like that!

[wannabie]

I never wear my fem stuff without trying to look like a girl. I would never go out wearing all fem stuff and be in guy mode. If i'm going out it's all girl or nothing.

ttfn

sometimes you just want to go out and bring out your inner self without telling it to the whole world (if you get my point). all fem clothes in male mode does that. so it's Joanna walking down the street, having fun with james's friend. it really does build your confedence in a way having people see the other side of you without having to reveal your secret.