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heathr1
06-12-2006, 02:00 PM
Before you understood CDing, have you ever left a previous partner, or threatened to because of it?

midwest GG
06-12-2006, 02:50 PM
Nope! This has been my first experience with CDing, of any type! I am from a very small town in Minnesota, so CDing is deff. not talked about, or accepted from anyone around here. However, when I found out about my SO, I had a choice to make whether or not this part of his life was worth losing our relationship over, and obviously my answer was no way. I really don't care one way or another if he CD's or not, I love him regardless. He is a great husband, supporter, and father, that's all that matter's to me!!

Kerry Owens
06-12-2006, 03:04 PM
no, this is my first experience with someone who is a crossdresser, and I find that question a bit odd.

rghelen
06-12-2006, 03:12 PM
Having been married to my husband for 15 years and not knowing about his crossdressing, (for 14 years of our marriage)this is the first time i have had to deal with this issue.I admit i was shocked to the core at first. I soon realised that i couldn't live my life without him ( as i love him so much) so i accepted his dressing.I now have a much happier hubby. I also have a new girlfriend to shop with and have made some great friends from researching the internet and finding sites like this.So in answer to your question ,i for one am not going anywhere ...unless Trish comes with me:D

GG Vanya
06-12-2006, 04:02 PM
never even thought about a relationship with a CD before meeting Trudi. I was granted the ability to make an informed decision about whether I wanted this (and her) in my life before we ever started dating steady. I took to it like a duck to water, and have never had reason to regret anything about the life and love we share.

I went from a former husband who was so 'red necked' he had pink ankles (red neck runnin down) to the quintessential "sensitive/caring/intuitive man".:dance:

Anita Mae GG
06-12-2006, 05:59 PM
nope first experience with it

ChrissyGG
06-12-2006, 07:47 PM
For me this is my first experience!

Amanda R
06-12-2006, 11:18 PM
It is my first experince too. When we were dating I had run into some of his stuff and I went crazy. Not to him of course but I did. I thought he was cheating on me and hiding her stuff for her that she has left. But we have been married about a half a year and he couldn't take it anymore he broke down and told me that he wwears womens clothes I was very shocked and speechlees for awhile. then we talked and I am getting use to it. I love him some much that this can not break our love and marriage I love him for him/her and that is all that matters.

Sandra
06-13-2006, 12:42 PM
Nope first experience with someone who CDs and I'm not going any where now not after 19 years :)

heathr1
06-13-2006, 01:47 PM
Thanks for the replies.

I once remember a GG say she would leave if the situation arose.

Bev06 GG
06-14-2006, 12:35 AM
Thanks for the replies.

I once remember a GG say she would leave if the situation arose.
Hi Heather,
Well you would have to ask just how much she was in love with her fella then. Ive never known a relationship actually split because of dressing, there have usually been other underlying problems too. Now if a CD were to be totally consumed by his dressing, to the detriment of a relationship, and his partner took off, I'd say that it was the selfishness that killed the partnership, not the dressing. The dressing would merely be the tool that revealed the personality flaw that was already there.
BEVxxx

nickysgirl
06-14-2006, 01:01 AM
no...to each his own. My boyfriend crossdresses, and I really don't tend to look at him any different because it makes him happy. If it makes him happy, there's no reason I should object to it. I actually have a lot of fun dressing him up and stuff. What I'm trying to say is that if it makes you happy, and your partner really loves you, they will accept you for who you are and what you do, no matter the situation. *Byes*

nickysgirl