Haven't been around much lately

[Jill]

I've meant to post this or something like this for awhile but I just haven't gotten around to it. Awhile back, I lost my job in a bogus case of company politics and for the two weeks that I was out of work, I couldn't seem to be dressed enough. My new job has been very stressful and the desire to dress was gone for awhile, I didn't dress for nearly a month and even now I'm not that excited about it, like I'm just kind of easing back into it. What I've wondered though, is if I should have used this opportunity to give this up and quit crossdressing for good. I have very seriously considered this notion and know that it may be hard but is something that needs to be done. I nearly bagged up my clothes and dropped them off at the thrift store but didn't. Anyway, that's where I've been, that's what I've been up to. I wonder if I didn't get rid of everything and try to stop with this opportunity, another one may never really come alone. Just my thoughts.

[Sarah Rabbit]

You are only going through a bad patch..When everything settles down and you are comfortable with this new opportunity (The Job) you will be back to yourself.. hang in there girl:D :D

Sarah R. :bunny:

[Toni Shelton]

Wel-come back Jill, We all have thes feelings. A little something for you hun.:love:

[Joy Carter]

By all means Jill keep the stuff I'm so sorry that I purged once. And Hun the job situation is a big up set I know but hang in there it will get better. :D

[Sophia Rearen]

Jill, you know it can't be put away. So, you're using logic and the locical brain to beat the emotional brain? Never gonna win.

[sportschick]

Most people say it can't be done. I hear you though. My stuff's been in a storage locker for almost a year and a half, no dressing..I've found this site actually helps me not to feel like dressing, I'd just as soon lose it, but the jury's still out. Keep me posted on your situation.

[Siobhan Marie]

Most people say it can't be done. I hear you though. My stuff's been in a storage locker for almost a year and a half, no dressing..I've found this site actually helps me not to feel like dressing, I'd just as soon lose it, but the jury's still out. Keep me posted on your situation.

Julie, over the years I've bought and purged and the thought of all that money that wasted makes me feel ill. I don't dress that often either but am not purging, I've got some lovely clothes that I will add to. Keep your stuff where it is and don't purge unless you really feel you have to.

:hugs: Anna x

[Julia Cross]

Jill. it's just a slump. You're likely just not in the mood in doing anything that requires much thought or effort. You'll regain your strength and be sooooooo happy you didn't get rid of your things.

Julia

[MsEva]

Hang in there sis, I know where you are coming from. I have the urge..almost daily, but I keep coming back...what does that say about me?:o

[SherriePall]

Jill -- It sounds nice and all, but I have been there. Thought I could quit. Tried. Wanted to. Had to. But I couldn't. Luckily, I didn't have a stash back then. Don't throw anything away. Hide it. Put it away. But don't get rid of it.
Anyway, best of everything and don't be a stranger.

[Donna tv]

Hi Jill, like a lot of you I don't get the chance to dress very often and it has even been quite some time since I have posted anything. I am just so overwhelmed with my business (which is on fire, I know it's better than the alternative so I can't complain) . I have not so much as worn a pair of heels in months and went through the down side of dressing which is just so typical. But I do have 2 long weekend dress ups coming up and I must say between that and buying some new clothes the juices are flowing again there is nothing like the rush of hitting the order button and having your new things come to your P.O. box now just can't wait to wear all my new things hang in there, Donna

[Shelly Preston]

Hi Jill
Welcome back

If you want to give up crossdresing try it, but put the nice clothes away but don't purge You may regret it.

Good luck whatever you decide

[ava_bruna]

Pleased to meet you, being some what new here Im finding out more and more "These gurl's sure know what their talking about and believe me It's true, dont dump your thing's, I did twice and was soo sorry after a while, if the feeling's were inside you to start in the 1st place you can rest asure they still are and if you dump your thing's you'll be kicking your butt just like I did,
I was having trouble with the wife and thought if I give up dressing it might help? WRONG !!! I did the very same thing cause of religion,still didnt work, I was soooooo sorry I dumped mine but now I know if it's in your heart, let it relax a bit then carry on gurl. Good luck hon.

[Clare]

Hey Jill,

Hang in there kiddo. Life's issues will improve and purging doesn't work. Give it a while and you'll be back to 'normal' in no time. Remember we're all here anytime you need us!