have you ever wondered why

[sarah35]

When I was in my teens until I was about 25 or so,I often wondered why
I loved dressing up so much,to this day I still dont really know why,I
finally just accepted that this is who I am and probably who I was meant to be,I love dressing up and have so much fun that I guess it really doesnt matter why but still curious,why? I look forward to your feed back also im
enclosing an old photo let me know what you think.

love sarah

[Joy Carter]

Come on Sarah we wouldn't need this forum now would we if we knew why. :D

[Marla S]

Let me give it a try:

I want to be attractive in a in a feminine way.
A compliment for well formed bizpes means nothing to me, one for my painted toenails makes (would make) the day.
Why ? I don't know. It is just the way it is.

[QuaSiMoto]

I don't know why it is for you, but I think it makes me feel good sometimes. It does make me question my sexuallity, but I don't think I am gay. I love women. It is my tribute. All though, a half assed one. ;)

[nishababe]

Yes I used to wonder why I was like i am ,but now with all the current knowledge at my disposal I now know the following .

1.. I am not alone in how I am.
2.. I love my female inner soul and ways.
3.. I would hate to be a so called normal man !!
4.. We are made the way we are and we are in general wonderfull people ,I know I am hehehe.
5.. You have to learn to love yourself and accept yourself for what you are .

Ok ,so now lets look deeper into this 64 million dollar question ,it seems to be that when we are concieved we are all female ,then as the embryo/baby gets older it is influenced by the hormones in the mothers body as to which sex we will end up as ,thats easy enough is it not ? Sorry .........no its not .
We now know that in nature nothing is black and white ,I saw a wonderfull Documentry last year on channel 4 U.K ( recorded it but cant remember the title right now but will dig it out perhaps today! ) It showed people all round the world ,Indian hirja,Thia ladyboys etc who all have this inner female urge that they were born in the wrong sex body .Sooooooooo what it seems that it is a myth that there is 2 sexes ,male and female .In fact we are split up into hundreds of different shades of sexuality and sexual behaviour ,as the film said '' Rainbows within Rainbows '' ummmmmm I like that !! soooooo our bodys and the sexuality of our brains are all different .When the brains of male dead male to female transexuals were analysed ,it was found that the areas of the brain were the same as a female brain ,so in plain language these people were born with a female brain .So comes the often said saying that '' i am a woman trapped in a mans body '' Of course as well as the brain being female many people are also born as intersex whereby the sexual genitals have not developed clearly into one sex or the other ,hence hermaphrodites which can mean that a person is born with the genitals of both sexes ,neither being fully developed .Moving on from that in some asian countries to be born a man but with the mind and looks/ways of a woman is called the third sex and the belief is that it is a higher reincarnation and something near to perfection and to be celibrated ,well makes sense I suppose !!
So as in all things nature and things beyond our knowledge make us all ,but modern religion and mankind thinks it knows better and imposes its own bigoted intolerent rules as to how we should all confirm in society .As we all well know in all things nature and forces beyond our control are too powerfull for mankind alone to control and understand .

Love from Nisha the ''Babe''xx:love:

[Teresa Amina]

this is who I am

Oddly enough, that really is all there is to it. Beyond that it's a just matter of degree. We're all as kids shoved into a physical and cultural mould which we may or may not fit. Some seem to fit reasonably well and the femmy part just needs to get out on rare occaision, maybe just a touch of something silky will do it. Others have a much harder time, and the fem "side" has a greater urgency of expression. The ultimate misfits make the body match the mind instead of just clothing the "wrong" body. Just remember we're all differently-the-same, walking down a weird road to various destinations. That next side path may be mine or it may be yours; we'll find out when we get there.:hugs:

[cata]

Hi!
while I kind of agree, I feel it is more developmental...its like we have such potential, waiting for the opportunity to explore. so if you carry on intensely, over time maybe your nature will change, femininize if you have the right opportunities. you won't get it in Society, but maybe the supportive relationships will draw you out...so you will go through many changes!...cata