Being Desired

[Rikkicn]

Being Desired

What's it like to be desired and wanted sexually. I think that's what many of us really want to know and feel. In our culture it is typically the male role to be desirous and the women's role to be desired. I know that's not always the case but in my first marriage it surely was.

When I first meet my sweetie and she told me that when she was 18 and saw Tim Curry as the sweet transvestite in Rocky Rocky Horror Picture Show she thought he was hot and wanted to meet men like that. Since that time she has found femme men exciting. We met online and when I told her I crossdressed she was ready to meet me in person.

The first time she saw me in a little nightie she had a look in her eyes that I had never seen. She found me incredible hot and sexy and wanted to jump right into bed, which we did. She took the lead and had her way with me. She initiated everything we did that night, and many nights since. It was amazing and somehow soul fulfilling to be so desired and wanted. It touched my soul and heart in ways I don't understand.

She has told me over and over she mush she loves my body, how pretty and beautiful I am and how sexy I am. It took me along time to actually believe her.

I think being desired and wanted is something we all want. I think may be a part of our feminine nature.

What do you all think?

Rikki

[tekla west]

I think men want to be desired and lusted after too. Seem more human then gender based.

[Marla S]

I think being desired and wanted is something we all want. I think may be a part of our feminine nature.

What do you all think?

Rikki

I think this is one of the major motives, though "to be desired" is only a part of it.

[Janelle Young]

I believe it is human nature for all of us, male or female, to want / need at least four things. To be wanted, loved, needed and desired. I think everyone needs those things. There may be more we all need but these four come to my mind.

[Jennaie]

I agree with you, but I think that it is our feminine nature that brings on this desire, not masculine. I'm sure not all cd's feel this way, but I sure do.

[Julie Avery]

I think you're right.

[Kimberly]

I agree that there is a want to know how it feels to be desired.

For my past relationships -- dominent didn't work. I guess I need to take the submissive role in the relationships I take part in.


xx

[Joy Carter]

Rikki you have brought a tear to my eye and a really jelous glare to the other!:Angry3:

[ava_bruna]

That was just beautiful. thank you. You have the PERFECT thing going for you. im sure we all would agree, some will say it's not for them, but I see beauty in it, best of luck .

[Connieminiskirts]

I am in total agreement on this one! My Suzi is the most kind and loving person I have ever known.
And as far as being desired, well in truth, SHE started it!! I just try to keep up with her!!!.

But it has not really matterd whether endrag or enfemme. She is pretty much the same, But there are times her desires for me seem even higher when I am in a skirt and nylons. She really has a pantyose fetish!! (As long as she not the one wearing them:sad: ) but thats okay. I love her totally and I always will!! She is my Lil One!!

[connie rotten]

Here is another one. If I reply to this I will sure as heck get banned again.
I never have lacked in this department Pm me we can hash out the nitty gritty.:heehee:

[Calliope]

What's it like to be desired and wanted sexually. I think that's what many of us really want to know and feel. In our culture it is typically the male role to be desirous and the women's role to be desired.


Looking back through a CD prism, I see how my 1st marriage approximated a gender switch - even though it was largely an age thing. My wife-to-be (10 years my senior) definitely chased me down, she was even the one to propose. (And, to her eternal credit, she used to exclaim 'I love your body!' in the bedroom.) Since I was very young (19) at the time, it all seemed pretty normal. It remains my inclination to be pursued.

[DeeInGeorgia]

As a teenager, I was very shy around women. I still am today, 35 or so years later. My first serious long term relationship with a woman was at the age of 26. Some of my crossdressing is related to not having a girlfriend for so long as I was growing up. My crossdressing was a substitute for female companionship. I also include lack of touching and physical affection as reasons for crossdressing.

I bring this up, because from a very early age up to today, and I have been married 19 years now, except for the first few years we were married, I never got the feeling that someone really wanted me. When I was in my 20's and dating, mostly taking dates square dancing, I would watch their eyes to see if they really had an interest in me. For the most part, an I can identify with GG because of this, the women would only go out with me because I was a good square dancer and they wanted a strong dance partner to help them get through the dance.

After finding a women who really wanted me at least some, I married her, but as the years and her depression affected her and she no longer goes out of the house to gatherings of people, the physical affection has gone away, the feeling of being wanted and the loneliness when taking the kids anywhere without her has come back. My crossdressing is my only comfort I have for this situation.