How I took it slow coming out to my wife.

[Carroll]

I had told my first two wifes about my CDing, and they were basically NO WAY in HELL. When I met my third wife I told her the first day I met her. Her comment was "Thats interisting...whatever floats your boat." Two years went by and I kept it in the closet, dressing when she was not around. All I had was one dressed that fit me and nothing else. Two years went by with no real change. One day I was riding my bike past the Salvation Army store. It was a Sunday and the place was closed. Somebody had "dumped a large amount of stuff in front of the place so I went to check it out. I notice a ball of hair in the pile and I picked it up. I saw it was a wig in good shape so I quickly stuffed it in a plastic bag and went home. I got home and told my wife what I had found and that I would be in the bed room for a bit. I combed this "rats nest" out and put it on. My wife had forgotten about my urge to Cross dress so I explained it to her again, and told her I wanted to try on one of her dresses with the wig. Her first reaction was a smile, bordering on a laugh. For the next few weeks I got my own dress and was asking her for permission to dress almost every night. I went a bit overboard and she told me I needed to stop or at least slow down. For the next 2 years ever thing was OK, dressing every once and a while when she was home, and almost all the time when she wasn't home and the kids were asleep. That all came to a stop when she had a mental breakdown and tried to commit suicide by taking pills. She started to question herself, us and the cross dressing. It was agreed that I was allowed to cross dress when she was not home. She would take the kids and give me my private time. We talked a lot and she started to ask me a Bunch of questions about my cross dressing. I wrote a three part series about this time. You can see the article I wrote here: Part one:http://www.vickyvogue.com/crossdresspage2.html#dec23
Part two and three are here: http://www.vickyvogue.com/crossdresspage.html
Since then it has progressively getting better, dressing almost every night after the kids go to bed, to dressing in the morning when the kids are up. This brings me to a few nights ago. I was going to go to bed as Carroll. I told my wife that and she said she didn't care at all. Yesterday morning I slept in and my wife came back to to wake me up by saying "Hey, Pretty in Pink, time to get you butt out of bed" Yep, I was wearing my pick Pj's, bra and wig.I know its a bit long to read but I though you all would like to see my story.

BTW, that first wig I had is the one I used in my aviator

Carroll

[Billijo49504]

So you are saying the third time is a charmer. Glad every thing is going well for you, and the wife is understanding. Try to get her to go shopping together. And make sure she gets new thing, not just you. It's really fun.....:hugs: ...BJ

[Carroll]

WE HAVE GONE SHOPPING TOGETHER. sHE IS ALWAYS LOOKING FOR SOME THING WE CAN WEAR..oops cap lock LOL We wear about the same sizes right now so shopping is really easy, except for the bra size. Mine is a bit bigger than hers! I know having bigger boobs than you wife is generally no-no, but for my body frame they just work out better that way

Carroll

[Calliope]

Yesterday morning I slept in and my wife came back to to wake me up by saying "Hey, Pretty in Pink, time to get you butt out of bed" Yep, I was wearing my pick Pj's, bra and wig.


That is so charming. I love happy endings.

[Bernadina]

... She started to question herself, us and the cross dressing. ...

Carroll

I think that is one of the biggies.

As CD'ers we need to treat our wives like princesses, and forever ensure them that they are the one we love, and that our CDing is only our hobby, an expression of our female side and is non-threatening.