Hannah
12-03-2004, 12:50 PM
Hi girls,
Has anyone out there got any positive experiences they can share about how their relationship with their partner has improved after telling them about their "hobby".
Some background as this is my first post.
My formative years were in an all female household and so dressing in womens clothes came naturally. It got tied up with my early sexual explorations and in common with a large number of cd's my age it became a terrible secret and a source of great shame, but irresistable nonetheless.
When I got together with my now wife (about 12 years ago) I told her about my past cd activities and that I was over it as it had been some years since I had indulged. I really thought it was something I had grown out of and I just wanted to be honest with her about the package she was getting. She was a bit unsettled by the whole thing but accepted it as something of my past.
Up until this summer I have repressed my urge to dress. I would always jealously admire women, the feminine form, and all the accoutrements of femininity but somehow got through the time without too much trouble.
Anyway, my SO went away for 2 months to her home country and one day, while shopping for my supper I noticed a pair of silk stocking hold-ups in the supermarket. For some reason I just picked them up and bought them. I got home and put them on and it was like a velvet caress as I rediscovered the pure bliss of sheer hose.
The next day I invested in some elegant suspenders and briefs and a black chemise. The days that followed were spent in anticipation of the exquisite ecstacy of fumbling each afternoon as I dumped the drabs and arrayed myself in this elegant expression of something that I can only describe as the girl in me.
If the truth be told it was not that elegant as I was carrying some extra weight but the desire to look good in a size 12 dress has helped me loose 9kg in 4 months. I call it the cd-plan diet but that is another story).
Anyway - to get to the point of my post I would like to tell my wife what has happened as I don't like hiding things from her. I am trying to look for things about our relationship that that will be enhanced by allowing this girl in me a little wiggle room.
To complicate matters we have a son coming up for 8 years old and whatever happens, his well-being is my primary concern. Wandering around the home as Hannah is not really an option.
I fantasise that we could go shopping for clothes together, fun for me and for her as I would no longer be the typical male "grumpy walking wallet". Looking back I guess I just resented buying clothes for her while I had to pretend I wasn't interested.
We might have some fun together dressing up like 2 girls going to a party, helping each other with zippers and make-up. That would be cool.
Ultimately I would like to be a more "whole" and supportive partner for her. Any suggestions would be welcome.
Hannah (wow - even signing off with my girl name gives me a thrill!)
Has anyone out there got any positive experiences they can share about how their relationship with their partner has improved after telling them about their "hobby".
Some background as this is my first post.
My formative years were in an all female household and so dressing in womens clothes came naturally. It got tied up with my early sexual explorations and in common with a large number of cd's my age it became a terrible secret and a source of great shame, but irresistable nonetheless.
When I got together with my now wife (about 12 years ago) I told her about my past cd activities and that I was over it as it had been some years since I had indulged. I really thought it was something I had grown out of and I just wanted to be honest with her about the package she was getting. She was a bit unsettled by the whole thing but accepted it as something of my past.
Up until this summer I have repressed my urge to dress. I would always jealously admire women, the feminine form, and all the accoutrements of femininity but somehow got through the time without too much trouble.
Anyway, my SO went away for 2 months to her home country and one day, while shopping for my supper I noticed a pair of silk stocking hold-ups in the supermarket. For some reason I just picked them up and bought them. I got home and put them on and it was like a velvet caress as I rediscovered the pure bliss of sheer hose.
The next day I invested in some elegant suspenders and briefs and a black chemise. The days that followed were spent in anticipation of the exquisite ecstacy of fumbling each afternoon as I dumped the drabs and arrayed myself in this elegant expression of something that I can only describe as the girl in me.
If the truth be told it was not that elegant as I was carrying some extra weight but the desire to look good in a size 12 dress has helped me loose 9kg in 4 months. I call it the cd-plan diet but that is another story).
Anyway - to get to the point of my post I would like to tell my wife what has happened as I don't like hiding things from her. I am trying to look for things about our relationship that that will be enhanced by allowing this girl in me a little wiggle room.
To complicate matters we have a son coming up for 8 years old and whatever happens, his well-being is my primary concern. Wandering around the home as Hannah is not really an option.
I fantasise that we could go shopping for clothes together, fun for me and for her as I would no longer be the typical male "grumpy walking wallet". Looking back I guess I just resented buying clothes for her while I had to pretend I wasn't interested.
We might have some fun together dressing up like 2 girls going to a party, helping each other with zippers and make-up. That would be cool.
Ultimately I would like to be a more "whole" and supportive partner for her. Any suggestions would be welcome.
Hannah (wow - even signing off with my girl name gives me a thrill!)