Serious question

[NewbieCD]

I formulated a question to ask my SO to see how cool she was with my CDing (she passed with flying colors) when i came up with the question it was one that hit to close to home and I had to ask myself that question. Ok lets say tommorow you got into a serious accedent and the doctor told you you would never get your memory back would you want your SO or you closest freind who knows about this to tell you that you were a CD even though you could be a happy well adjusted man never knowing this side of your self?

[Barb Valentine]

This is a good question
The problem I have is I'm still in the closet
And nobody but my friends here know
But I think that it's something inside you
and memory or not I think you'd still be a crossdresser

[NewbieCD]

I guess this all goes down to another question is behavior all taught learned from the enviroment you live in or is some of it just what you were born with?

[Connieminiskirts]

NO I think I would rather my wife just remind me that I am her happy locing husband. Tell me the basics about our life together, my sisters, bro's. children grandchildren, and let the rest of it come back slowly if at all.

[ReginaK]

I really don't see how it would matter that much to me. Either person could tell me. But I doubt that would really happen. If crossdressing is really something you're born with the propensity to do, I doubt it's part of your memory. More than likely part of your physiology.

[Kate Simmons]

I think it would be obvious in any case. My body and soul are all about balancing energies. I would eventually make the connection on my own and would become a femme person again. Maybe not Ericka, maybe even an improvment, who knows? It's part of who I am whether I'm "aware" of it or not if you get my drift. Ericka

[Julie Avery]

Good question, nice thinking behind it.

And hard to answer!

I answer the "if you could take a pill that would make you quit CDing", "no". But your question is more difficult. I think maybe I'd not want to be reminded that I used to crossdress.

Doug/Julie

[James/Jennie]

I wouldn't want to remember...it would be better off for my life and my families and friends lives. I can't deny what I am as of now, but if I didn't know...then there would be nothing to deny...I don't know if that made sense...

[KateW]

As I feel I have had a lifelong inclination to crossdress, it'd be interesting to see if I still had the urge after a memory wipe. At the very least I'd be curious to know why I had no body hair, plucked eyebrows, earrings, and longish hair!

[NewbieCD]

As I feel I have had a lifelong inclination to crossdress, it'd be interesting to see if I still had the urge after a memory wipe. At the very least I'd be curious to know why I had no body hair, plucked eyebrows, earrings, and longish hair!

Yeah that would be an interesting question there KateW.

[Jennaie]

I don't know but I do know what my response to the doctor would be, "Well, that explains a lot doc, because I sure as hell don't remember being stuck in this male body". :D