Joanie B
07-19-2006, 11:53 PM
Hi gurls,
Well, I am glad I got my earrings, but I am
afraid I may have forced my sister and I to deal with
some things I didn't expect.....
Long story short....she has been getting a series of
questions about me over a period of months from her
children, who are my nieces, about me......long nails,
pantyhose (with shorts), occasional hints of eye makeup (thought that was clean, sigh). So when I told her about the
earrrings, she seemed concerned about it. She said I
was making her family and my dad (who lives alone, not with them) "uncomfortable"...
She didn't seem surprised, since she knew when we were
both kids that I had been a cross dresser. However, I
guess it is getting harder and harder for her to
excuse or laugh off my appearance....
I also cautiously admitted that "Halloween is not just
once a year for me", but that I don't chase men. She
seemed genuinely concerned about my safety, but I am not sure if she is supportive of my CDing.
I promised to quit using nail polish around them, and
not wear pantyhose (I know, who needs them
anyway?...LOL), but for now the earrings stay for at
least a month.
What brought this up is that my two neices are having
a mutual birthday party coming up in less than two
weeks, so the earrings will still be 24/7 then. (the girls are 11 and 13 on their birthdays coming up.)
Any advice on how to approach her and/or the kids
and/or the husband and/or my Dad?
I do not plan to talk to the kids about CDing, but if not, how far can I go to explain this so they will understand?
Hugs,
Joanie B
Well, I am glad I got my earrings, but I am
afraid I may have forced my sister and I to deal with
some things I didn't expect.....
Long story short....she has been getting a series of
questions about me over a period of months from her
children, who are my nieces, about me......long nails,
pantyhose (with shorts), occasional hints of eye makeup (thought that was clean, sigh). So when I told her about the
earrrings, she seemed concerned about it. She said I
was making her family and my dad (who lives alone, not with them) "uncomfortable"...
She didn't seem surprised, since she knew when we were
both kids that I had been a cross dresser. However, I
guess it is getting harder and harder for her to
excuse or laugh off my appearance....
I also cautiously admitted that "Halloween is not just
once a year for me", but that I don't chase men. She
seemed genuinely concerned about my safety, but I am not sure if she is supportive of my CDing.
I promised to quit using nail polish around them, and
not wear pantyhose (I know, who needs them
anyway?...LOL), but for now the earrings stay for at
least a month.
What brought this up is that my two neices are having
a mutual birthday party coming up in less than two
weeks, so the earrings will still be 24/7 then. (the girls are 11 and 13 on their birthdays coming up.)
Any advice on how to approach her and/or the kids
and/or the husband and/or my Dad?
I do not plan to talk to the kids about CDing, but if not, how far can I go to explain this so they will understand?
Hugs,
Joanie B