What do we do when dressed?

[Megan72]

Sparks kinda got me thinking, dangerous I know. What do we do when we are dressed en-fem? Maybe some of the selfishness that is equated to CDing is because we are so self absorbed by the dressing that we neglect our other household duties. After all it is hard to paint the house in a dress and heels.

When I was in the closet I would fixate on dressing if I knew I had some time alone. During that time I would do nothing but dress and get made up. The neglect that my "chores" suffered was astonding. I felt that I should do nothing but get fixed up. I slowly began to do housework that I needed to get done, but it took me a long while to get to a point where I could dress and get my work done when I was alone. Now that I am out it soo much easier. My relationship is much better and my house looks better.

[typical_guy]

Well, usually I don't have a lot of time alone. My roommate doesn't know but if he asked about my pink toenails I would be more than happy to tell him but I don't really dress around him. I told pretty much all my friends though. I usually get dressed at a friends house if we're going out to a club. I also get dressed in the privacy of my room and watch movies and what not while dressed. I've dressed in front of about half a dozzen friends and I can't wait for halloween. I'm going to go WILD.

[dancer1]

The point is vaild, and whe enfem i dont do anything but dress shop and relax.
I feel guilty now and when i get to heven i will ask forgiveness :heehee: Nadeen

[SherryLynn GG]

Hubby is at work but I thought id post in this thread on his behalf.....

When he is dressed he is not selfish one bit, he normally cooks dinner for me, watches movies with me, whatever we decide to do. He is pretty much the same whether he's dressed or not. So I guess it really depends on the person

[Kate Simmons]

I'm a regular "social butterfly" as Ericka Kelliann. EKR

[annekathleen]

Still very early in the responses, but no one mentioned anything "sexual" when they are dressed.
A) Straight sex with a woman
B) Gay sex with another man
C) Self gratification with yourself

I'll be back later to share my comments:love:

[Tina Dixon]

Well when I get dressed means the house is mine, so out comes the camera and then I head to the PC, besides that not a lot, went for a drive once when I got dressed at home, big whoop right:(

[Karren H]

Well I'm usually on a business trip when I'm out enfemme so I do normal stuff like shopping, dining, driving, movies, watching TV.... And all on an expense account!! :) I've actually worked a couple days enfemme, both times where I had to inspect a property and didn't have to meet anyone.

All my chores and family related things are always done first. Wasn't always that way but I'm more balanced now.

Love Karren

[typical_guy]

Well, I've never had sex while dressed but I plan on trying sex with men and women while dressed. I also have some sex toys for women to use on me so we can take turns. I masturbate when I'm dressed some of the time but not all of the time. I really like just being dressed though - even if it doesn't involve sex of any type. It used to be all about sex then I started doing it more, showing it to people I trusted, and going out dressed and now I just love being able to dress up and go out.

[Christina Nicole]

Go out shopping. Get a manicure or pedicure. Nothing too exciting, but I enjoy it.
Warm regards,
Christina Nicole

[Carroll]

I tend to do housework, no sex stuff, play on the PC and watch TV

[Eleanor]

Still very early in the responses, but no one mentioned anything "sexual" when they are dressed.
A) Straight sex with a woman
B) Gay sex with another man
C) Self gratification with yourself

I'll be back later to share my comments:love:

I`m ABC.

[annekathleen]

Ive performed oral sex on another man while I was wearing sexy tanga boyshorts, a bra with my silicone breast forms and one of the ex-wife's sweaters, The guy was rubbing my back and discovered my bra straps and it really turned him on. He asked and I told him. I got him so turned on he wanted to return the favor and then he discovered my sexy lace tanga panties. He really got into it for his first time.
When I am alone and fully dressed, I will masterbate and play with realistic looking rubber penises.

[Teresa Amina]

Don't "do" a heck of a lot, mostly browse the internet, read real books, listen to music, etc. Fun when the phone rings and I'll have a 20 minute chat with someone who doesn't know about Teresa! The kitties have their demands which I slavishly satisfy but no, no S-- involved, I've gotten past that part of it. The amazing thing is how fast that time goes by. Often I'll take a nice hot bath and shave up in the late afternoon and, Voila! Suddenly the 11 o'clock news is on:eek: Once I fell asleep in the recliner and woke up 2 hours later; almost like that Waking up Female fantasy:daydreaming:

[Calliope]

I slowly began to do housework that I needed to get done, but it took me a long while to get to a point where I could dress and get my work done when I was alone. Now that I am out it soo much easier. My relationship is much better and my house looks better.

I can relate with that completely. Back in the 1980s when I first dressed a lot, I was intoxicated with my appearance and the whole experience was a dual day & night existence. Now I'm all the way out and I find myself really enjoying the kids and taking care of the house enfemm. (Of course, I spend too much time on this computer.) And music sounds so much better enfemm!

[shericd7]

well when i get off work I come home and get dressed fix dinner and go to bed...when I go out on the week ends I get dressed to meet some friends(mainly men) I do enjoy the excitement of getting out...sheri:

[Mellisa S.]

I do the same things that I do when not dressed. Watch the TV(no pun intended), play music, surf the net. Sometimes I will put on my cam and go into one of the chat rooms just to get compliments.

[rickie121x]

I'm retired. I live alone, in my own house. I have a "closet" with tons of boots, shoes, stockings and dresses of all types. Additionally I love form fitting black tops, summer and winter styles and really have a load of them. One area of my closet is filled with black leather and BDSM associated clothing and accessories.

95 percent of all my stuff just gathers dust! What a shame that is, really. I find that I only feel like dressing nicely when I will be in the company of others - kind of like my mother told me - "...dress nicely, company is coming."

So if I going out, for whatever reason - where dressing would be apropos, I can do it very well, just like mom said to do. And the BDSM parties - now that's were I can really shine. For that's where I get to show off my skills, and and need to dress super well when I am "on stage."

Normally, I get up in the morning and pull on a mini shift - ooooh that feels sensual! And a pair of footsox.... I brush my hair and rinse my face, and on to the coffee! An hour or two with my computer, and by then I am feeling pretty sexy - oh how nice it would be to have a female partner... and it is time to masturbate. Well that takes the insistent edges off my awareness, and then I either do my shopping or running, or go to the gym - and those are all drab dressing activities - just run of the mill everyday male boring stuff.

Afternoons, sometimes I pull on a very tight pair of female shorts and a cutoff tee shirt and just do my everyday activities. I have long hair and so mornings when it is cool I am ponytailed, and afternoons I pull it up in a bun of sorts - I never have gotting the hang of doing that very well.

Rickie

[Marla S]

As I live alone right now, I usually do some housework.
If the heels are to high, I work at the computer, read, listen to music or watch TV.

[Roberta Lynn]

Once the housework is done I read or am on the computer. Of couse, since I've found this site the computer time is going to increase. I see there is only 11,889 threads and 201,053 post on this MtF fourm,shouldn't take long to check them out.:D

[Josephine Bonne]

Hi Kellian,
For me relaxing at home is the absolute best time that I spend dressed. It can be nothing more than an evening having a martini and then supper after I have shed male clothes for a simple skirt and top, almost always wear a bra but may not put on makeup. Or a Sat. cleaning the house, have the cutest pink housekeeping dress that looks so good with a pair of opentoed strap brown sandels on (the sound on the floor of the heals and the marks left on a freshly vacumed carpet is really very sexy. After cleaning all day getting cleaned up, fussing with makeup and putting on a pretty outfit for dinner with my wife is pure heaven. The one element that is missing for me is going out en femme, would so love to go shopping or to a show or dinner with the woman that I love, but we still are very uncomfortable with that. One of the very most enjoyable moments for me is also just to curl up into an over stuffed chair while en femme and just sit and read or look out the window; being dressed is the only time that I ever feel like me. Sorry for going on.
Hugs and Kisses,
Josephine

[tekla west]

I like to make Martha Stewert look like some slouch. Martha, the slacker, pick up the pace girl! Challange yourself. So mostly I do domestic things, clean, laundry, lite cooking, and writing. I also love to walk,so of course I like to walk in nice clothes. And dance. I bet that when dressed the domestic/writing is 60%, the walking 30%, and 10% dancing. Perhaps 25%/15% on the walk dance deal.

[Sky]

Still very early in the responses, but no one mentioned anything "sexual" when they are dressed.
A) Straight sex with a woman
B) Gay sex with another man
C) Self gratification with yourself

I'll be back later to share my comments:love:

I'm B. As in "bottom" too. :heehee:

[KathlyLC]

I dress 24/7 and just do what needs to be done. I do A,B and C.....After all I am married and we (wife and I) are also into swinging, which is kind of intriging to lots of folks that we have been with especialy being a CD. However I only do oral or hand jobs on another male nothing else.... anything goes wirth any willing female. Giving a BJ or HJ to a male when dressed had always been a fantasy of mine, and ever since that first one, I always stay on the lookout for any chance of repeating it.....So I guess yu could say anythng that a female would normally do around the house or out and about is what I do to since I am retired and take care of most everythng around the house and its associated needs, as the wife still works, and if a guy needs taking care of, well so be it, I handle that to. No different than a female getting a bit on the side is it? Wife does not have a problem with it.

[sparks]

Sparks kinda got me thinking, dangerous I know. .

I'm telling you it's a dangerous past time!

My fav. thing to do was get dressed and watch scarey movies. Shuddering in my girlie clothes! Big thrill, aye!

I would also start a panty thread here for giggles!:evil:

Other than that? HMM!!!! Oh yeah all my mariah Carey Fantasies are now fullfilled. Stop thinking about it. It's only Karioke.

[sparks]

On the Selfish side of things you are correct everything gets pushed aside for dressing time, for me anyway. All the thigs tha made me me. Art time lost! Reference time lost. Jobs that needed to be done were shoved aside til later which meant I was doing them when everyone was home and I lost time with the wife and kids.
Worse Something I should have accomplished was left undone and I had to go to work so y wife was left with it.

Can't understand why it seems so important to do but I still want to.

[Megan72]

Thatnks to all of you that replied, I really appriciate the feedback from all of you.

[Butterfly Bill]

Whenever I do any kind of errand outside the house I am usually in a dress. Inside the house, at this time of year, I am usually in my birthday suit. I wear trousers if I am doing any kind of job that gets clothes dirty.

[Barb Valentine]

I'm finding that the older I get the self gratification part is getting nonexistent
I like to surf the web (but I come here mostly) watch movies
And that's about it

[Angie G]

Help the wife with housework, sit around, chat with you girls, some times drive home from work(night time), feel sexy.
Angie G.

[DawnRodgers]

Still very early in the responses, but no one mentioned anything "sexual" when they are dressed.
A) Straight sex with a woman
B) Gay sex with another man
C) Self gratification with yourself

I think that you could add D & E - Straight sex with a man and Gay sex with a woman.. It is all a matter of mindset you know. If you feel totally fem when with a man, dressed, feelings, reactions, etc. and whatever happens feels very natural is it still homosexual sex if you make love with a man? Also a lot of that may also be how your partner treats you and reaponds to you. Interpersonal relationships are not always easy to come to grips with.In my case I would lean to C and D.
Dawn

[luvsstockings]

i get dressed and i love chatting to other girls on the webcam i like to read or watch people having sex on film whilst masturbating, it relly turns me on if im wearing lacy panties with a sexy bra or basque and stockings and suspenders, and to finish off some sexy red lipstick

[older not wiser]

Hi Kelliann, I am always in a black bra(with forms), pantyhose and high waist shaper. And yes I have been with a few "friends" with whom I have become intimate with. If GG's can pleasure a man why can't I? There is something very sensual about giving pleasure orally and getting it as well!!! When I am partially or fully dressed I feel like a woman, behave like a woman and want to be viewed as a woman. For me there is nothing more gratifying then to be a woman!!!

Love; BonnieAnne:GE:

PS: I also take care of myself when the need arises(everyday)!!!!!

[pedebra]

I get very few chances to dress during the day, so most of my time enfemme is at night. I do what any other person does: have dinner and clean the kitchen whilr wearing shorts and a tank. I might put on a nightie and watch a little television. If I get the chance, I might put on a skirt and top and do a little window shopping.

[mellisa]

My favorite thing to do when dressed is be in my home office. I just love talking on the phone, sending e-mails, billing clients and distributors. Ebay is fun too! I get to dress up our mannequin and take pictures of things we sell. My professional look is most rewarding to me . Since 99.9% of my dressing is done with my wife, I like to look good for her too.

[mellisa's wife]

Yes Mellisa... you do look good in your office attire. lol

We get alot of our office work done all dressed up... me too sometimes. Especially, like this a.m. when I had an appointment out and am "all dolled up".

This all makes WORK....... kinda fun!!

:hugs: It's nice to have such an adorable co-worker!!!:love:

[mskilmer]

When I dress, it's usually to go out. I do a ton of housework ... mostly in drab. I love getting dressed and going out to a bar or a restaurant, either by myself or with my wife. I have stayed home and bottled beer while en femme ... anybody else done that? I know ... I really know how to have a good time! LOL I have giver oral to men while dressed and it's fantastic.

[terrigurl]

First of all, I can't dress at home; my wife doesn't support or approve.
I go to a salon to get my makeup and nails done. Then, I usually have some photos taken. (I guess I'm an attention *****.) After that, I often go to a store -- Avenue, most often -- to shop around a little, maybe try something on, and then back to the salon, to change back into my more male attire.
Not very exciting, but it works for me.

Terri

[Cherry Lynn]

I can't dress 24/7 but dress as often as possible and love housework. I am ABC and as we swing my wife does not have a problem with me and another man being together. Some of the swingers we know are very intrigued by my dressing and like to play with me whether they are male or female.

[Audrey34]

When I get dressed I like to do housework. Wearing heels and walking back and forth in my apartment gives me a particular thrill (and I don't bother anyone below me, my floors all have carpeting). I also like to work on the computer and sometimes I draw while dressed. I once worked on some drawings for several hours and when I looked up I nearly forgot I was wearing a blouse and skirt! You do get used to wearing that stuff!
-Audrey

[vbcdgrl]

My CDing doesn't interfere with my "chores" as you call them. I like to do inside tasks while dressed(as appropriate for housework). When I do outside tasks, I'll wear shorts over my cotton panties and a tank top. If I'm gonna be working alone, I'll wear flip-flops, exposing my painted toes. I'll be doing this tomorrow and Wed. , as I have to replace a termite eaten facia board.
I actually love this kind of thing, it's fun!

Vikki