Friends...more gg's or guys?

[Renee D]

I was wondering if anybody feels the same as I do when It comes to friends....I find it very hard to have male friends. I would like to have more guy friends but it never seems to work out that way. I feel I just don't fit in with them and I find it hard to converse with them.

I do fit in to many girl conversations......maybe it's my femme side coming out. Many girls have said they like partying with me or hanging out.

Does anyone else feel this way?

Thanks

[myMichelle]

I'm right there with ya, sister! I don't really have a lot of good friends, and all of my best friends are all women. (Although it's been difficult, I think that my wife has come to terms over the years with the fact that so many of my friends are female .)

[NighttimeGirl]

when in man mode (spit spit) I fit in quite well if I make the effort Id much rather be around women though, prefer talking about heels and beauty than cars and football and when I think of it whenever i am in the company of gils they will be very open and talk about there guys which are usually my male friends and they trust me not to say anything, well i think so, we must give off a certain message when in the company of girls, hope so :hugs:

[Jenna1561]

Renee,

I totally agree with you. My best friend is my wife. But outside of her I have few friends and only one guy that I would call a friend, lots of aquaintences, but only 1 friend.

I am most definitely more at ease in the company of women and join in conversations much more frequently with women than men.


Jenna

[Calliope]

I do prefer the company of women.

[Connieminiskirts]

Well okay, like so many others, My wife is truly my bestestest friend, next in line is my stepdaughter, and really thats about it. I know thousands of people, am on friendly terms with most. but friends are very few and far far between. Think this really comes from my being a truckdriver and on the road most of the last 28yrs.

But its okay. I love my Best Friend Wife!!

[Eugenie]

I have not counted but I seem to have as many GG friends as male friends. I enjoy the friendly company of both sexes.

However I have only been confortable enough to speak about my X-Dressing to GG friends or to x-dressing sisters. I never felt that way with any of my male friends, even though I have some very long date ones.

:hugs:
Eugenie

[Wenda]

I have not counted but I seem to have as many GG friends as male friends. I enjoy the friendly company of both sexes.

However I have only been confortable enough to speak about my X-Dressing to GG friends or to x-dressing sisters. I never felt that way with any of my male friends, even though I have some very long date ones.

:hugs:
Eugenie Similar for me. I have lots of friends, but I don't seek out close friends or buddies. My GF has accepted that, even in my most Sean Connery mode, the women I know give me hugs, kisses, etc, but it is not a sexual thing (rats!!). It's not exactly like I am one of the girls, either. I guess I am the guy that notices your new hair cut, asks where you got those shoes, and can fill a spot on the girls trivia team on Tuesday nights at the pub. Works for me. :D

[typical_guy]

I'm the same as the rest of you. I can get along with guys no problem. I can joke around and laugh with the guys but I'm not a big sports fan and I'm not into cars or any other "masculine" things. Whenever guys start doing crude things like burping and farting I do not like it but I keep that to myself. I used to know a lesbian woman that acted like guys, she would burp as loudly as she could whenever she had to burp. For some reason it disgusted me even more coming from her. Anyway, I definately get along better with women and have a much easier time being friends with them.

[Barb Valentine]

I would say I have equal amount of male friends & female friends
It's like Corssdressing the best of both worlds
:hugs:
Barb

[Adrienne Heels]

More women friends, I think.

[Megan72]

Ditto!!

[Carroll]

:yt:

[Kieron Andrew]

all my offline friends seem to be MTFs or GGs, i find it very hard in person to relate to guys as in friendships, but i do try!

[dancer1]

More women than men, my MD is a women , my thyerpyst is female, my onclagyst is the only male but he the very best, the vote is in 2 to1 female.:heehee: :heehee: :hugs: Nadeen

[shericd7]

I may the exception to ya'll I have more male friends and few women friends...The one's I think of as close friends do know of my dressing and a couple of their wifes...sheri

[noname]

It's so much easier to talk to women, and they generally seem more chatty. Every time I'm at some big get together or bbq I always hang out with the women and gab. I dunno what it is about the guys but the conversation is usually pretty slow and it seems to me that rather than yak it up and have fun, they want analyse the world and offer there 2 cents on how to fix it. ZZZzzz... ZZZZzzz... No thanks.

[Dee 1062]

Hey my best friend is my dog, which is a female dog, does that answer your question?

[Charleen]

Hi There, Interesting. Got me to thinking and it's split between GGs and guys, but the funny thing is that all the guys are gay or Bi. I came out to 2 good friends that I see most every day, and they are a couple who have been together for 18 years. They understood as i had hoped they would. As to the GGs, as I allowed myself to appear more femme even in drab, they got more friendly, hugging, pecking cheeks, and such. Haven't told any of them yet, but I get the feeling I don't have to. Love and xxxx, Lily

[Stormgirl]

More guy friends,don't really get along with females at all.

[avawho]

I had not really even given this much thought until you raised this thread, but I have always had a mix of male and female friends... however I'm way more closer and way more open with my GG friends... I've actually even come out to a number of the GG ones, but am light years from thinking of doing so to any male aquaintenances I have...

Cheers
Ava

[AmandaM]

Almost all girls.

[kymmieLorain]

friends what are they. I bearly have any friends. I know sad.

Kymmie

[Joy Carter]

Had a couple of close friends but two died and one left my company because of my gender variance. That only leaves one my wife who I depend on for support. I have numerous acquaintances though just none too close.

[Deidra Cowen]

My close friends right now are other Trannies. I have an old set of guy friends but they steadily drift away as I rarely hang out with them anymore. They will call for a football game, camping...stuff like that. I always makeup excuses on why not to go cause I want to go clubbing with my Tgirl friends these days. :tongueout

So I have moved from mostly having guy friends to trannies making up my group of close friends. I really don't have any close GG friends. I know a few GGs out on the tranny scene but am not that close to them other than just being friendly and chatting a bit.

[Kristen Kelly]

It’s always been female, even growing up more girls on the block to play with than guys. Over the years it was always hard for wife or girlfriends to understand.(no not both at the same time)
Now my best friend is my GF, always has been but even more now. I do get out with a few of the girls from here and have many online friends.

[Bev06 GG]

I have not counted but I seem to have as many GG friends as male friends. I enjoy the friendly company of both sexes.

However I have only been confortable enough to speak about my X-Dressing to GG friends or to x-dressing sisters. I never felt that way with any of my male friends, even though I have some very long date ones.

:hugs:
Eugenie
Interesting point Eugenie. Have any of you ever thought that despite what you might think GGs are more accepting and less discriminatory than Guys when it comes to Cross Dressing. I know that this can sometimes be a very different story when it comes to your partners, Im talking here as accepting friends. We are quite loyal little buddies aren't we.
Take care
BEVxxxx