She Knows!!!

[Corillis]

Not to panic all, my SO now knows. Unfortunately it happened in an interesting way that may have lead her to believe that it all started with her, (at age 20 instead of at age 13 when it really started).

See, I was away at school when we were talking and she likes to ask me what I'm wearing so that she can visualize me and feel closer to me. I told her that I was wearing my pajama pants and that underneath were some awfully comfortable new panties that I had just gotten and she said, "Yeah I'm so sure..." Then I replied, "Alright, now don't be surprised when you come up to see me and I'm wearing them." (I have had a habit of spiting her for quite awhile)

Well, she got there one evening and I said, "Guess what I'm wearing..." She looked at me and said, "No way!" and immediately wanted to look to see if I was lying or not. She laughed at me and called me a huge dork.

It's now been a few weeks since and I've been happily panty-clad each day even when I see her. I actually just got back from vacation with her where I took two thongs along with my collection (that she knows of) panties. She's been so great and does not mind a bit about it either; she actually gets a small kick out of it and thinks its pretty funny. Every now and again she'll make a crack at me in front of my friends if I mention that they are a bit on the feminine side and say that I am one to talk. But she loves the fact that I enjoy it so much (though she probably prefers otherwise) she just really likes seeing me happy.

Well, we got back and she was looking through my bag for one of my shirts to wear, and she found one of my bras. She kind of looked at it funny and
Her first question was something like, "Whose is this?" and she seemed kind of angry. I answered honestly saying that it was mine and she looked at it and then at me and made me swear that it was mine. I couldn't believe my ears! She was happier knowing that it was mine as opposed to some other girl's.

Lately, I've been getting the feeling that she isn't letting herself know that I am a cross dresser even though she's witnessed my nail-polished (long) fingernails and toenails and other CD'ing habits. And I swear she's noticed my makeup. I don't hide it from her, but then again I don't come right out and say "I'm doing such and such..."

You girls think I should sit down and talk to her? I've opened the door for any questions that she may have (which was a suggestion I got from this forum, and thank you girls so much, I wouldn't have been able to it without you all!) Any more suggestions please post! (hehe sorry so long!)

[pinkshelly]

Sounds like in a few short "whatever" you'll be wearing a skirt and she'll be lovin it. Take it slow though.
Huggs, Shelly.

[Calliope]

You girls think I should sit down and talk to her?

You've made a lot of progress in short order and things look good. I don't see what you have to lose by waiting a bit; let her start the talk on her own timetable.

[Joy Carter]

You've made a lot of progress in short order and things look good. I don't see what you have to lose by waiting a bit; let her start the talk on her own timetable.


I agree but don't wait too long if she doesn't bring it up it's time to tell all at a gental pace.

[rosiegurl]

I wouldn't wait too long in telling her if I were you, might head off a lot of other arguments when she finds your things and thinks you migh be cheating on her, would just drop it in kinda casually when she finds something *grins*

like... ohh, I thought you knew.. chuckles.... shows you weren't trying to hide it from her, and that it ain't a huge life altering deal.

[older not wiser]

Hi Hon, As the other girls have said take it slow!!!! She may be in denial about all this but one thing is for certain, this will come a head sooner or later. Let her ask the questions, let her digest your answers and once she indicates she has had enough temporarily STOP!!! To much info at one time can be damaging. Just let things happen. Good Luck!!!

Love; BonnieAnne :GE:

[sue ellan]

just go slow. might ask her if she has any ?'s. just don't wait too long before you bring it up again.
sue ellan

[Mistress_Thorny]

I would let her take the lead in this. Too much information could scare her. But believe me the questions are forming in her mind and she will start to ask.

maybe by leaving a few other clues about slowly.. let her digest them and ask when she is ready.

she will

Good luck!

[Byllie]

I would let her take the lead in this. Too much information could scare her. But believe me the questions are forming in her mind and she will start to ask.

I thoroughly agree; it's in her ballpark. Be patient and the questions will rise up naturally.

A trickle of water is soft to the touch but, given time, can drill a hole through a stone.

[Corillis]

Thanks a bunch girls! After reading through all of your replies I got rather giddy and extremely excited about where my life could now be potentially going. MUAHS!!! To all!!