Nice Legs.

[suanne]

Hi everyone. Something has been on my mind for awhile. This has happened before and I just kind of keep it in the back of my mind. Ok. Here it is. I am still in the closet and I don't want to share this part of me with anybody. I know I can't pass and that's ok. My wife caught me dressed years and years ago and it was pure hell or earth. But every once in awhile she will say to me. "I wish I had your legs" or "You have pretty legs" or some other nice comment that I could have some pretty cding comments for her but I never say anything I just let her go on. That ever happen to any of you? Do you think she knows I still cd? Do you think she is just wanting to see my reaction to her compliments? I guess deep inside of me I would like to fess up but it has gone on for so long I feel it is to late for that. Just thought I would like to share that with somebody who is in my corner.


Suanne

[Angie G]

I think she may very well know. or she just wants your beautiful legs.:heehee:
Angie G.

[Sophie_A]

I think there will always be thought in her mind that you are still cd'ing, but maybe its time to try and come out the closet, be honest and open, but not in her face. Failing that try humour, something like thanks I grew them myself.

[Phoebe Reece]

Sometimes compliments are just what they are. Don't read too much into it. I have seen a number of men that have better looking legs than their partners. She may be saying something subtle about what she feels about the way she looks more so than what she feels about you. Don't assume this has anything to do with approval (or disapproval) of crossdressing.

[Phyliss]

Not looking for approval or disapproval, but if that comment happens again, I would say something like, " Thanks, I'll bet they'd look even better in dress." with a hearthy laugh.
I, myself am trying to "come out" to my wife, and anytime I have the chance to make a similar comment I take it. I usually get a nasty look, but I keep trying. Maybe someday I'll have enough nerve to fully say what's on my mind.

[Karren H]

Well sounds like she's probeing to see if your still dressing. And as for being too late to fess up it probably never too late but you've already had a taste of what would be instore. Right? Unless she's changed her attitudes towards CDing. And by now its not really the crossdressing that becomes the issue as much as the loss of trust, from hiding what you've been doing all this time. And regaining that trust is a daunting task! Been there and still working on that one!

So as far as I'm concerned, and I always get flack for saying this, but fessing up is over rated unless you know ahead of time the outcome will be a positive one!!

Love Karren

[Charleen]

:iagree: Whole heartedly with Karren. I have been complimented on my legs my entire life. By alot of people including my wife, mom, and strangers. Did that mean they suspected me of CDing? Don't think so. I stayed hid from my wife. I knew how she would react, and it wasn't going to be good. Why should have I inflicted pain on the best thing to happen in my life? She's passed now, and Lily's here to stay. If I can go through the day without hurting anyone, including myself, the day has been a success. Love and xxxx, Lily

[Joy Carter]

I can tell you that GG never forget ! Mine never dose but then she only remembers when it's convenient. LOL

[Melissa A.]

It's a double edged sword. You don't want to hurt, but by crossdressing in private, you ARE being dishonest, and more importantly, not being true to yourself. My ex-wife hated it. Made it plain that she didnt want me doing it. But was also pissed off about the "deciet". This puts a crossdresser in a crappy position. It's tough, I know. But the fact is that hiding who you are from the most important person in your life is not good for you. It does affect other areas of your life. It's funny, her and I talked a while back(our marraige ended for reasons other than crossdressing, mostly, and we get along fine now) and she said she had done some research after we split up, and said that if everything else had been ok, she probably would have accepted some kind of compromose on the cding, eventually. I was, to say the least very impressed, considering her previous reactions to catching me. So ya never know. It ain't easy and can involve alot of pain and scary moments, but people can come around.

Hugs,

Melissa:happy:

[Karren H]

I can tell you that GG never forget ! Mine never dose but then she only remembers when it's convenient. LOL

Don't you just love that? She always remembers when she was right or that she told me about something I forgot about but she never remembers when I was right on something! Hehehe

hmmmmmm Maybe I haven't been right on something....yet. :D

Love Karren