GG Thrill?

[Laura Kane]

As a M2F dresser I find women's clothing to be thilling, wonderfully sensual and provocative -- feelings my male clothing never evoke. However, most women I've met don't seem to get it. Their comments are usually dismay, "there just close."

The questions is don't GG's get a thrill out of dressing up?

[Sandra]

Nope, as some women have said "they are only clothes". I like to look nice when I am dressed up going out for the night etc, but for me there is no thrill at all.

[NighttimeGirl]

my g/f is the same, she is far from clothes orientated, she always looks good of course goes without syaing but she doesnt get a buzz out of it like me, probably like a girl asking me if I get a buzz out of wearing a male suit.

the answer to that would have to be definatley not

:love:

[Lawren]

Why should it be a thrill to a GG? It is something they can do every day and it is accepted as normal behavior. As a man, I do not get any thrill out of wearing men's attire no matter how fancy it may be. When you do something every day it becomes routine no matter how much of a thrill it was to begin with. At least that is the way it is for me. Even when it comes to crossdressing. If I do it often enough it becomes routine and mundane. Fortunately I can still get a "rise" out of it simply because it differs from what is considered to be "normal" male behavior. (I just gotta be different from all the other guys.:D )

[Stephanie Miller]

I've heard it too. "No, clothes don't do anything for me"
I really have to second guess the Gg's. What are they getting out of clothes then. Why do the "anchor" stores have 200,000 square feet of floor space dedicated to womens clothes and one rack for men? (Because all the crossdressers are buying the clothes? :GD: )
I always hear how men have two or three pairs of shoes, but the garage has been expanded to handle the womens collection. ( Now, that IS the case in our house - but the womens shoes are MINE! :heehee: )
Why all the fashion magazines? The Jewelry stores? Victoria Secrets? Fredricks of Hollywood? and on and on... Again, for the crossdressers?
Come on Gg's, fess up - it's OK to enjoy who you were blessed to be. I know I'm jealous.

[Stephenie S]

Well I can tell you for a certain fact, my wife LOVES to get dressed up. Now I don't know that she would describe it as a "thrill" or a "rush", but perhaps because her normal daily attire is jeans and tee shirts, when we get dressed to go out, she really enjoys her pantyhose, dresses and heels, a bit of makeup and jewelry. And I know just how she feels, hee, hee. (shut UP, Stephenie).

So, not to contradict the GGs on this site who have stated to the contrary, I know at least one GG who really enjoys getting "all dolled up".

Lovies,
Stephenie

[Dana Carlton]

My wife loves the clothes she wears. She has a collection of over 50 matching bras and panties. Never wearing the same one in the same month. A short skirt makes her feel sexy. She'll wear a low cut sweater with a push-up bra to accentuate her curves. She'll want to go out just for an excuse to wear her little black dress. She doesn't dress trashy, but her clothes really bring out the woman in her (and me too since we wear the same size!!). She has commented to me that she could never be a guy, cause guys clothes are boring, with not many choices.

[kathy gg]

I enjoy getting dressed up for a night out. I also enjoy make up and getting my hair done {professionally}, and dont' even get me started on spa treatments.

When I look nice {or sexy even} I might feel more confident or even brazen.....but a "thrill". I dont' know. I woudl not use that word.

[HaleyPink2000]

Maybe stepping on toes here!

I find that my Wife only expresses interest in clothing with the grandkids around. When She's shopping for them. Since She's come to the realization that I’m a cross dresser. There is the occasional time when She does tend to graze clothing isles. Never buying because She thinks She’s fat. I don’t look at her as over weight. But She passes up many opportunities to buy clothing when we are out. I’d buy her things, and she knows that. But it’s her call. She says “ I’m on a diet and it would be a waist to buy things right now”. Have to tell you, this diet thing has been 20 years in length. It’s time to find some new clothes. Shopping in her Mother’s closet a couple times a year is not cool. Oh, and I hate that She wears what I think of as “To Old For Her Clothing”. Oh and what’s up with Women thinking since they are past 30 they have to keep their hair short?:D

There just clothing. Hmmm? My Wife has come to think of it a little differently since She’s figured out that my cross dressing is not going to change. To me, yes I love dressing, it’s fun, sensual, and I love the variety of feelings I get from it. But as for my wife, Hmm??? She could give a darn unless it was another woman making a comment to her about her attire. :rolleyes: She could care less what I thought it seems. Oh, I’m not the female in this house hold and so I don’t know Sxxx! Sorry!:tongueout :heehee:
lololololololololol

[Ellisia_Lynch]

Well I don't know about anybody else, but I also get a kick out of getting dressed up as a guy. I rarely get to wear a suit as I work in film, so when I do, I feel great, confident, even sexy - I can't imagine wearing a great fitting tux and not feeling like James Bond!!

I admit it's much more intense when I am dressing up as a woman, but I do like putting in some effort and looking handsome as a male or pretty as a female.

Any GG (or GM) that doesn't enjoy that is really missing out...

[Melinda G]

Yeah, right! That's why chicks spend so much time shopping, and standing in front of the mirror.

[KewTnCurvy GG]

No, I don't get a thrill from wearing women's clothing. Not now, not ever. Can I feel good, sexy, comfortable, etc. YEA! But a thrill, NO!
Kew

[Lawren]

Oh and what’s up with Women thinking since they are past 30 they have to keep their hair short?:D


I have been wondering about that for at least three decades. Yes, I know many of the common reasons; i.e. comfort, ease of care, convenience, etc., but IMHO I think that it makes a woman look older and I have always had the impression that women want to look younger.

The flip side of that coin is that I prefer to wear my hair long and I know that, to many people, a man should keep his hair short.

Oh well. Just spouting off a bit. No offense intended.

[Di]

Ummmmm no thrill......but love shopping...love clothes...love makeup..my daughters say i'm foo foo....but can't say I get a thrill.

As far as the long hair thing goes...I cut mine after my daughters bugged me to....was down to the middle of my back...was I ever stressed out after cutting it......i'm growing it back....and using hair extentions sometimes...but I don't get the short hair after thirty either...everyone has a styl;e of their own...as for me..never cutting it again...except for shaping ect......never ever ever again:p

[renee k]

I guess for me, I love the choices women have when it comes to clothes as well. I also like all the things that go along with dressing en femme, the hair and makeup. Trips to the spa for manicures, pedicures, facials, love all the pampering that goes with it. For a guy a trip to barber shop entails reading the paper and putting up with all the BS that's put out by other guys, YUCK!!
I'll take a nice tailored skirt suit and heels over. A mans suit, shirt and tie, any day of the week.

Huggs, Renee

[SherriePall]

I think the keyword here is "thrill." Just as I don't get a "thrill" out of wearing my guy clothing, GG's obviously don't get any out of wearing their femme clothing. They may think they look good when dressed up, but for "feeling" good or excited or thrilled, no. Let's face it, many of us wouldn't be wearing panties, pantyhose, bras, and skirts now if we weren't at some point in time excited about wearing those items. Our thrill may now have become our comfort, our feeling natural, but, for most of us, it was once a thrill for whatever reason (forbidden, etc.) I hope I don't kill this thread.

[CDsWifey GG]

Personally, I do occasionally enjoy dressing up, I like the feel of nice fabrics, like to feel pretty and feminine. I rarely consider it a thrill, and sometimes go long periods of time without paying any attention to what I am wearing at all (at least I did before my guy became a fashion junkie :heehee: ) I think the difference is in the intensity. Obviously GG women enjoy dressing/primping otherwise, as stated before, it wouldn't be such a huge industry..but for us it is everyday life, nothing special, and to someone who only occasionally had the opportunity to sneak around and dress when no one was looking during their formative years, to someone who connects that dressing to their feelings of femininity, emotional security, or even sexuality, during that period of growth, it is bound to create a much stronger sense of thrill.

[tekla west]

I don't think it is a 'thrill" in they way you feel it, however since 70% of all mall space is dedicated to female fashion, they sure are feeling something.

[Laura Kane]

I guess the word thirll was a bit much, at least the majority of you seem to think so. Perhaps your definition of thrill is different than mine.

What do you call that special feeling you get when you know you're looking good, proud of who you are and the way that LBD looks on you? The way you feel when you feel the need to put on a little lipstick because you don't want him to see you without it, at least not now? How do you discribe that feeling of having some one for whom you want to look pretty? the way you feel when you've slipped into that dress now two sizes smaller than the ones you wore last summer? the way you feel is a new pair of heels and stocking when he offers you his arm and tells you how pretty you are? That's thrilling to me.

[johnna]

Well I don't know about anybody else, but I also get a kick out of getting dressed up as a guy. I rarely get to wear a suit as I work in film, so when I do, I feel great, confident, even sexy - I can't imagine wearing a great fitting tux and not to feeling like James Bond!!

I admit it's much more intense when I am dressing up as a woman, but I do like putting in some effort and looking handsome as a male or pretty as a female.

Any GG (or GM) that doesn't enjoy that is really missing out...


Ditto! There is something about being presentable whether dressed as a guy or a girl... however, girls just have sooooo many more lovely options!

[NewbieCD]

I am not a GG maybe i do nto have the right to say stuff on this board but here it goes is dressing a thrill no i think looking attrqactive is a thrill over all weather male or female and in the words of Eddie Izzard when i look in the mirror and say i wouldnt shag me then the clothes are not working. I do not see my SO geting a thrill out of clothes but there is definatly a twinkel in the eye that can count as excitement when she thinks she looks good. So maybe that is what you are feeeling.

[CaptLex]

probably like a girl asking me if I get a buzz out of wearing a male suit. the answer to that would have to be definatley not
That's it exactly. I've never heard a guy say he's excited to wear men's clothes. Maybe it's the "forbidden fruit" aspect of dressing that thrills. :happy:

[tekla west]

again, its not excited or thrilled, but still. when I put on my suit and am looking good there is a good feeing when I look in the mirror. Likewise, when I pull on my tightass black jeans, my NIN crew shirt, the Doc Martins, set the studs in my earlobes and pull that leather biker jacket around me, I feel bad ass. I love it that at 50 years old with a PhD I can still make people cross the street rather than have to pass me because I look all scarry to them. Cracks me up.

[NighttimeGirl]

yeah first impressions go a long way tekla :heehee: I found that all the time as Kieran



I wouldnt cross the road from you

:love:

[Julie Avery]

This is not rocket science. Dressing like a woman is not a turn-on for human beings who were born female.

[kittypw GG]

I have worn mens suit jackets before, never got a thrill out of that either.



That's it exactly. I've never heard a guy say he's excited to wear men's clothes. Maybe it's the "forbidden fruit" aspect of dressing that thrills. :happy:

[Billijo49504]

My wife has just about every closet and a bedroom with clothes about 2 feet deep for most of the room. She doesn't get excited, she just loves to shop. And I love to spoil her. Oh, she has most of 4 clothes bars. A part of one is mine for my gurl clothes...BJ

[trannie T]

Many of us dress in women's clothing for the fetish factor. There is also the thrill in doing something that is forbidden. If someone does not have a fetish for an item or it is not a forbidden fruit it is not exciting. For example there are those who are attracted to rubber boots. For most of us the only interest we have in rubber boots is to keep our feet dry, for one with a fetish for rubber boots though they are an iten of excitement. A woman wears women's clothes because that is what women are expected to wear. A man wears women's clothing for entirely different reasons.