Your First Time?

[letacd]

Hi, It's Leta Again.
I Find New Friends And I Have Some Questions For You Girls.
When Was Your First Time With A Man?
And How You Start Crossdressing?
Kisses!!!!
Leta Xxx

[Sandra H]

Hi Leta.

I am glad that you feel you have found some new friends on this forum.

I am straight and so I like many girls here do not dress because we are gay but because it feels right for us. So I have not been with a man for sex and cannot imagine I ever will. When I am in bed in my nightdress I will admit to having thoughts of what it would be like to have a nice man make love to me as a real woman. But fantasising about it is as far as it would ever go.

As for when I started dressing as a woman. The answer to this is in two parts. I first started to wear panties as a small boy of about 6 or 8 they were my mothers. As I grew so did my need to wear different types of clothing. But it would be around 28 when I first dressed fully with underwear, tights, skirt and top.

Now I wear panties and tights all day, everyday and a nightdress and panties every night, I also dress fully as and when I feel like it which is about twice a week.

[Robertacd]

I started crossdressing when I was 10 or 11. It was when I started to notice that the girls were changing, wearing bras, and stuff. I wondered why I wasn't changing or wearing any of that stuff. I felt like I should be too so I tried it and it just felt right.

I am going on 40 now and have never been with a man.

[LisaT]

Hi - I too have never been with a man but have wondered what it might be like and some time suppose I will try it.. who knows maybe it will be with someone I meet here.
Now, the first time I was conscious of wearing womens clothes was as a young boy, maybe 5, when my mom made me wear a girls sweater which totally humiliated me as she made me go to the playground in it. It was yellow and flimsy. I remember finding it in the drawer some days later, putting it on and then for some reason running it under the sink tap with the water on. I still remember this clearly and all the feelings involved.
Then some years later, perhaps starting in the 7th grade, I remember having many fantasies of being dressed up by some of the older girls attending my school and being made to wear panties, bras' and stockings. During this time I'm sure I would take the occasional undies of my mom's but.. it was not until my sophmore year in high school that I actually bought my first pair of stockings. It was very exciting and ever since I have thrilled to wonderful and exciting touch of womens lingerie and clothing.

[Vallari]

Ive dressed since sometime during middle of elem school. I havnt been with a man yet but am looking! ;)

[Jerry]

Never been with a guy.

Started playing dress up with the girls next door. That was back before the dress up boxes with all the princess stuff the kids have today. Just regular dresses and jumpers with mary-janes.

First purchase was black and white saddle shoes as a Sophomore in college from Kenney's near Little Rock. Back then the shoes were in the back and someone had to get them for you. Naturally, they were for my sister, but when we got to the register to pay the AH clerk announces to the whole store, "Hey, how much for the girls saddle shoes." I crawled out of there and drove to a park and put them on. Wow, what a rush. That was 1978!

[Nikki A.]

Yassou. Never with a man, not me. Like most others here started as a child but got more into it in my 20's and I guess the more I try the more I want to push the limits.

[LaurenAnne]

I've never been with a man sexually, and have never really had any desire to.

As for starting crossdressing, I began at an early age [5, 6?] wearing my mother's skirts & dresses.

[Laura Kane]

I started dressing when I was 11 and had my first guy when I was 23

[Wendy me]

[QUOTE=JennyCD]I've never willingly been with a man.

jenny that dosen't sound good sorry to here that :eek:
as for me i probly dabed in it around 5 or 6 years old just something soft like a slik scarf :p and the only man i have ever been with is "him" :( wow i have hade sex with a man :eek: well sorta we bouth share this boady as for "him"???????????no guys he's not into that

[Jeanette H]

First dressing was in my sister's clothes - first of all her knee high boots when I was 9. It was a few years later, at 14, that I tried on one of her dresses. In between I remember seeing a picture of a band called Punchin' Judy, they had a girl singer and in the picture she was wearing gold knee high boots, a long skirt slit to the thigh, a tight V-neck sweater and a lot of makeup. Looking at her I had a sudden urge to wear her whole outfit and to be made up and pretending to be a girl, and it was the first time I ever felt that.

I've only once had an experience with a man, when I was 23 (I'm 45 now). It wasn't a success.

[SherryAnn]

morning all, a few years ago I went through a self imposed head trip about my cd'ing. I thought maybe I was gay & wasn't sure how to deal with it. Then after reading alot of fourms I found that about 90% of cd'rs arent gay or have (like me) never been with another man. As some have said here I think about it some when I'm dressed all up in lace, ruffles, silk but thats just the girly part of me coming out I think. I just spent all day Sunday with an old girl friend of mine & we spent all day in bed (she knows I dress but doesn't ask me to dress for her & thats ok) & it was great. This gay thing keeps popping up & I guess justified as we as men like to dress up like girls & who can explain it. Its to deep for me to figure out. Sometimes in a slip just sitting around I wonder what it would be like to have someones elses hands roaming over me instead of my own but in my mind I cant see if the hand has hair on it or not

[eleventhdr]

Who would want to be with a man. Unless he has discovered that being cd or as female as possible. Only cders really know and of course GG's Know. Being with other cder's and or gg's is the only way to go unless you become one yourself.

[Sara Kat]

First started dressing when I was 11. First time with a man was last year. I don't think it'll be my last either. :D

[letacd]

I Mean For Those Who Like To Have Sex With Men. For Example,me.
I Am Really Sorry Again.

[Brianne]

I started with my mothers closthes probably 7 or 8 years old. In my early teens my cousin who was 2 years older started showing me porn which led to mutual masturbation. Once I was wearing my mothers stockings and he told me I had legs just like a girl and then we dry humped each other. Later in my twenties I picked up a older feminine gay guy, I fondled him but only let him do oral on me.

Now that I've been married for 20+ years only fantasize about men when clompletely dressed but would never be with a man again.

Love,
Brianne

[Danny]

I put my old toy box away and started spending my play time in my sister's lingerie drawer when I was 12. Used her things until I started assembling my own wardrobe when I was 18.

I guess you could say I was first with a man when I was 17 and a mutual jo session with my best friend became much steamier than had previously been the case. For now, I am generally str8, except that I am a lesbian crossdresser on those rare occasions when I can hook up with another crossdresser.

[paulaN]

I started dress around 10 or so. With my mother's clothes. I was always fasinated (sp) watching my mother getting dressed up to go out. she would purfume me and let me zip up the back of her dress.
As for beeing with another man I would love to try it. Another cd would be even better though.

[Sara Kat]

Who would want to be with a man.
It's actually quite fun. ;) :D

[Sweet Susan]

First time cd was age 11. First time with a man was age 12. He was in his 40s or 50s.

[Sweet Susan]

First time cd was age 11. First time with a man was age 12. He was in his 40s or 50s. And yes, it was molestation.

[flicka]

First time for dress-up? Very, very young.
First time with a man? Very, very - shall we say, mature? And still with him! (TDDUP)


p.s. See my original post

[maryjanecapri]

first time to cross dress - 5 years old

i'm a straight male who just likes to look a lil' femme. i've no desire to be with men. but thanks for askin'. :D

[SilkenPrincess]

My first time crossdressing was about 8 years old. But it didn't really become a habit of any kind until I was about 13 or 14. I began thinking of it around 5 or 6 though. Never been with a man, and wouldn't unless I was post-op.
Love,
SilkenPrincess

[Donna Louise]

Hi all

Dressing seriously around 10-11. Before was just play even though it felt right.

Man, well a couple of months ago. Hopefully again soon. The first time was with a dud/jerk. He just used me for sex, not a single email after. I think I have found the right guy this time. OMG can he kiss!

Hugs
Donna Louise

[Beach Chick]

Hi

My first time? I was hitchiking at the beach when I was 15. A guy picked me up, and I hit on him. Don't know why, but it just seemed right.

That night he made me a woman.

I'm new here, so I don't know whether to be graphic or not. So I'll just leave it at that. But let me ask you more experienced posters...is very, very graphic ok? Because I love to get real specific.I love to talk reallly really dirty. But only if my readers want it. If not, I can be an absolute church lady.

Anyway, I've had dozens of lovers since. But I'll never forget him.

Beach Chick

[Donna Louise]

Beachchick

I have not been posting here long but I have never seen a graphic posts.

Believe me if the ladies (and there are some girly girls here too) do not like what you post you will hear about it from them.

Donna Louise

[Beach Chick]

Well Gee, I was hoping someone might say thanks for asking. Is everybody here a hardass?

[Jen_TGCD]

Believe me if the ladies (and there are some girly girls here too) do not like what you post you will hear about it from them.

Donna Louise
Laughing... you have that right, Donna!!! LOL>>>> :p

BeachChick... just be respectful and keep the "good taste" at a decent level. No Church Ladies here, that I know of... except for maybe... Erica... but she's cool ! ! ! :rolleyes:

Glad you joined us and have a good time!

[Tristen Cox]

Church lady? Mawh?

How in the hell did that happen...

mmmmmmm could it be SATAN?!!

[Beach Chick]

OK

Thanks for the answers...wow you guys answer fast! Doesn't take a week like some web sites.

I'll be a perfect lady. At least in print. Ha ha ha.

Anyway I thought it was funny that most of you haven't done the deed with men. Baby, it's the best!

But since I have a raging gay libido, if anyone here wants to get really down and dirty in a cyber chat, write to me and I'll make you so crazy you never forget this ****ty little beach chick.

Or if you'd prefer I'll just be a 'nutty' beach chick. Don't wanna offend!

Beach Chick

[candiconners]

First time dressing was over 25 years ago. Curiosity had grown and grown, along with the desire. Away on a summer of business trips and after that first make-up purchase, there was no holding back. First man was at 25. So caring and kind for the first time. It is a memory I hold dear.

[ballet]

I grew up at home with two sisters,julie a year younger and susan 18 months older.I always wanted to be just like them,my younger sister was always trying to be like my older sister dressing up like her and using her makeup and clothes.The only thing was, I wanted to be like her as well.I was skinny like my younger sister,and I remember at the age of about 11,I was left by myself and spent some time dressing up in her clothes.Her dress and panties fitted so perfect, and felt so good I knew that I wanted to be a girl.

[SatinSarah]

Hi,

Never been with a man and never will. Like most girls here I'm hetro with a girl hiding inside?! I started dressing at abuot 7/8 with my friend from school. I just longed to wear her party dress. Continued since to varying degrees and success. Still waiting to go out though as sarah.... soon.

[Beach Chick]

Erica thanks for the phone number last night.

How long did we talk? Three hours? Four?

I dreamed about you afterwards, is that crazy?

You drive my wild, you little minx.

Mmmmmmmm


BC

[MistyCD]

Sorry to disappoint you, but I like many on this site are Straight and only dress up....

[Vivian Best]

I'm straight! Have never been with a man nor have I had any desire to be with one. I started dressing when I was younger than 10 and that was over 55 years ago.

Vivian

[wilma]

I have never been with a man but as a boy I evperimented with a boy friend. We sought each other as young love does but I Kept asking if it was right. Now as an adult I wish I just followed my hart. I am alone now but the next encounter I have with love wont matter which sex it is with, I will follow my hart.

[Lisa Sue]

Hi Leta.

I am glad that you feel you have found some new friends on this forum.

I am straight and so I like many girls here do not dress because we are gay but because it feels right for us. So I have not been with a man for sex and cannot imagine I ever will. When I am in bed in my nightdress I will admit to having thoughts of what it would be like to have a nice man make love to me as a real woman. But fantasising about it is as far as it would ever go.



I couldn't have said it better myself! My thoughts exactly. I will say that I have dressed in front of guys, and have had a couple of experiences (nothing too too major). It is not always what it's cracked up to be. Talk about gender confusion! Besides, you don't need to have sex with a guy to feel like a woman. I could go on and on, because I have such a wide array of feelings about the subject, but maybe another time.

xoxos,

Lisa

[TeenageCrossdresser]

I personally haven't been with a man yet, I dunno if I ever will. As for when I started... I'd say when I was around 6-8 when I started trying on my mom's panties and bras... :)