First outing went okay

[Katiegirl]

Well I did it, Katie drove to the transgendor meeting in the New Forest.

This evening I thought to hell with it, I couldn't be bothered with changing there so Katie drove nerviously at first but gain confidence and by the time I arrived the nerves had gone I had a great time, there were 40 to 50 people including GG's, but they made me very welcomed and it was so relaxing just being the real me.

I have read many posting saying that you never forget the first time you go out and I now know its true, with the mixture of fear and excitement your emotions go through.

I have been invited to a meal next week with another group which I hope to go too

Thanks for your advice and encouragement

[randie]

thats awesome katie, sounds like a lot of fun :) Im jealous :D

[DonnaT]

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Way to go Katie.

[Nikki A.]

Right on! Glad you had a good time

[Alayna]

Way to go!:):):)

[Tristen Cox]

Well I did it, Katie drove to the transgendor meeting in the New Forest.

This evening I thought to hell with it, I couldn't be bothered with changing there so Katie drove nerviously at first but gain confidence and by the time I arrived the nerves had gone I had a great time, there were 40 to 50 people including GG's, but they made me very welcomed and it was so relaxing just being the real me.

I have read many posting saying that you never forget the first time you go out and I now know its true, with the mixture of fear and excitement your emotions go through.

I have been invited to a meal next week with another group which I hope to go too

Thanks for your advice and encouragement

Katie great to hear that you are getting out and feeling good. Good luck next week, and tell us how it goes. You go girl!

*hugs*
Tristen

[Sharon]

Wonderful Katie!! Another girl with "balls" -- I'm so happy for you.
Sharon

[windycissy]

I find this fascinating, because I have never gotten up the nerve to go to a meeting of other crossdressers. What was it like? Was there a set program, or just a gabfest, or what? Was it a local chapter of a national group like Tri-Ess? How did you get invited? Sorry to be so nosy, but maybe I've been missing out on something I would enjoy. Thanks in advance, Windy

[Paula A]

I find this fascinating, because I have never gotten up the nerve to go to a meeting of other crossdressers. What was it like? Was there a set program, or just a gabfest, or what? Was it a local chapter of a national group like Tri-Ess? How did you get invited? Sorry to be so nosy, but maybe I've been missing out on something I would enjoy. Thanks in advance, Windy

Yes Me too, what was it like?

what courage!

BTW; way to go!

[Sweet Susan]

Nothing quite as refreshing and exhilerating as being in a room full of crossdressers and transgendered people! Way to go!

[Katiegirl]

What was it like you ask, let me set the scene, I live on the south coast of England and not far away is an area called the New Forest and this is where the the Hotel is situated. The Hotel is an old building and has a basement which has been made into a bar.

The club itself has been going for over 20 years and has built up a good relations with the hotelier and the police. This club is designed for the transgender community and their families to meet.

As I parked I saw several "girls" walking up the the hotel, so after putting on my high heels and checking the hair and make up was okay (a girl must) I walked up to the hotel the way the "girls" went and saw a group having a smoke (cigerettes). When I asked them where the club meet, one showed me the stairs to the Bar. I went down very carefully (not use to high heels and stairs). The bar itself had a low ceiling with old wooden beams, and chairs scattered round the room, inside were about 20 people with a few gg's.

After signing in as Katie I went to bar to get a beer, while there I got talking to one of the girls who asked if I was new, after chatting a little bit she invited me back to where 3 others were sitting. At first I was questioned on my cd back ground just to make sure I was a cd and not someone on the pickup. After a short time the conversation went on to tell me the does and don'ts of the club, I took that as a sign I had been accepted, I was also introduced to several other people. During the evening we talked about make-up, wigs, cloths families and various other things

The bar rapidly filled up rapidly until there around fifty or so people (hard to tell). There was a total range of cd/ts there who wore cloths that ranged from the outlandish to the very stilish and the not so pretty to the very good looking.

During the evening there was also a girl singer who was very good, and that rounded off the evening.

It is a long time since I felt so relaxed and my inner self came to out in the open. During the evening a couple of the girls invited me to a christmas dinner being held not to far away this wednesday. so Katie will out again.

I was told by several people that I could pass a women at a distance or in shadow, which was a boost to the ego. I know I could not pass close too.

That evening I wore a black flowing shirt, top, jacket, tights and 3" heels.

I will be back next month.

It was hard to get back into draps today to go to work.


:)