panty-boy
08-04-2006, 12:22 PM
I think my wife knows about my desires but we have not had an open, frank discussion about it. She does not like any kind of confrontation and is afraid to talk about things that make her uncomfortable, like sex, bodily functions etc. Here are the things she knows about the situation:
1. 10 years ago when we were in college my wife dressed me and a friend and we went to a rave party.
2. One year for halloween, I dressed as a superhero in a red bodysuit, girls striped boy shorts and frilly anklet socks. That night I slept with the socks on.
3. My wife and I sold panties on eBay and there was a period of time I wore panties because I told her "They are more comfortable"
4. She went to check her email and the stupid browser pre-filled "[email protected]" She asked me "Who is panty boy?" To which I responded that it was probably one of the guests at the party we hosted a few nights before.
5. She has mentioned more than once that sometimes I act more like a girl than she does.
6. She thinks it would be sexy if I got my ears pierced.
7. She is accepting of the fact that all my jeans are womens because the low-rise ones really do fit better.
8. She found pictures of me on our computer, playing with a toy and wearing frilly socks. Very upset, she confronted me about the pictures, I told her they were just for me, not published. She wanted to know why I was wearing the socks and I told her I liked wearing them for fun. She was upset for a few months, didn't want to touch me, talk about it, etc. It basically passed and life is "back to normal".
Now I feel as if she knows just about everything. Should I bring it up again, open the wound and be more explicit: "Honey, I am a crossdresser" Or is it safe to think she knows I like wearing girls clothes, she doesn't like it, and I shouldn't do anything in front of her and consider it something we both live with, without being truly accepting? Seems to me like its an open secret, I know she knows, but she doesn't want to know about it or have anything to do with it.
Your advice would be most helpful...
1. 10 years ago when we were in college my wife dressed me and a friend and we went to a rave party.
2. One year for halloween, I dressed as a superhero in a red bodysuit, girls striped boy shorts and frilly anklet socks. That night I slept with the socks on.
3. My wife and I sold panties on eBay and there was a period of time I wore panties because I told her "They are more comfortable"
4. She went to check her email and the stupid browser pre-filled "[email protected]" She asked me "Who is panty boy?" To which I responded that it was probably one of the guests at the party we hosted a few nights before.
5. She has mentioned more than once that sometimes I act more like a girl than she does.
6. She thinks it would be sexy if I got my ears pierced.
7. She is accepting of the fact that all my jeans are womens because the low-rise ones really do fit better.
8. She found pictures of me on our computer, playing with a toy and wearing frilly socks. Very upset, she confronted me about the pictures, I told her they were just for me, not published. She wanted to know why I was wearing the socks and I told her I liked wearing them for fun. She was upset for a few months, didn't want to touch me, talk about it, etc. It basically passed and life is "back to normal".
Now I feel as if she knows just about everything. Should I bring it up again, open the wound and be more explicit: "Honey, I am a crossdresser" Or is it safe to think she knows I like wearing girls clothes, she doesn't like it, and I shouldn't do anything in front of her and consider it something we both live with, without being truly accepting? Seems to me like its an open secret, I know she knows, but she doesn't want to know about it or have anything to do with it.
Your advice would be most helpful...