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Volca
08-11-2006, 01:38 AM
I finally told my family about my crossdressing. Been visiting my grandpa and his partner and ended up telling them about it because I knew that since they are gay, they won't care. I didn't expect them to take me shopping for the first time, that was fun. Anyway, I decided I can't just tell them, so I told my sister over msn messenger, and she was actually enthusiastic saying we could have a girls day out and go shopping together. I finally just now proceeded to email my parents about it. Being that I just sent the email a few minutes ago, I dont know what their reaction will be yet. I know they will at least be accepting, if not supportive. In any case, I'm glad to have gotten this off my chest while I'm still young (18). I know if I waited much longer, I would have burst. I'm not to the point of outdressing in public yet, though I do wear my panties, bras, and the occassional hosiery and garter belt under my male clothes all the time. Just trying to take one little baby step at a time.

tekla west
08-11-2006, 01:55 AM
Your life will be the better for it. Lying is like a cancer that eats you up from inside. It alienates those close to you, prevents you from letting others get close, and in the end hurts all. They will get used to it. Your their kid after all, nothing changes that. And you are young. It only gets better from here on out.

Congratulations, your free, and that will never be taken from you.

Sally24
08-11-2006, 05:33 AM
Good for you! One of the hardest parts of CDing is when we wait for decades to tell anyone, or admit to ourselves. Keeping "the secret" is one of the major downsides of the CD. You've just eliminated that! Enjoy yourself and find out what makes you happy.

Sally

Jasmine Ellis
08-11-2006, 07:01 AM
congratuletions, and I do hope you have a wonderful years to come

Volca
08-11-2006, 02:31 PM
thanks everyone ^^

Sharoncd
08-11-2006, 03:05 PM
Congradulation I know your life will start changing very quickly. Going out will be very soon. One of my regreats in life was not doing anything about my CD when I was young. But in 1972 when I was 18 things would have been a whole lot harder than now.

Good luck.

Sharoncd

Tina Dixon
08-11-2006, 03:08 PM
Your Grampa is gay? I think your family will be able to handle your dressing.

Volca
08-11-2006, 03:26 PM
well, like i said in my starting post, i email my parents. they replied, and their supportive ^^. man thats a load off my chest. oh, and my aunt is a les too. seems to be a wierd one in every generation of my family lol

Janelle Young
08-11-2006, 06:41 PM
Good for you on coming out to the people you love. This gives us all hope that we can do the same thing.

KateW
08-11-2006, 06:45 PM
New members have all the luck! :-)

Calliope
08-12-2006, 01:49 AM
Good for you! One of the hardest parts of CDing is when we wait for decades to tell anyone, or admit to ourselves. Keeping "the secret" is one of the major downsides of the CD. You've just eliminated that! Enjoy yourself and find out what makes you happy.

Sally

Let's not forget the best part here. Volca, coming out now (at the tender age of 18), can really enjoy CDing when her skin is smooth and her figure is heavenly!


What fun!

bgirl
08-12-2006, 07:43 AM
Good for you! I wish I could have come to terms with this a long time ago. At 18 I was far too much in denial to face the truth of it. I put it off for......lets just say a long long time. Glad I'm out now and happy for you as well.

Volca
08-12-2006, 01:52 PM
thanks again girls...uh oh...seems my dad is ok with it but my mom is having a really hard time accepting it...i'll keep everyone updated, this could be bad, but it may turn around

Volca
08-13-2006, 05:24 PM
well...she always hoped that i would grow out of it since i used to crossdress as a child. she's pretty disturbed that i'm carrying it into adulthood and needs some time. she does NOT want to see me wearing clothes so i gotta stick to waiting till their asleep ><

TeriAnn
08-13-2006, 05:36 PM
I told my wife over a year ago and it felt wonderful and best of all she is very supportive. Hope all goes well with your loved ones.:2c: