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Melanie R
08-11-2006, 11:30 AM
Today on The Insider two couples are featured publicizing the upcoming August 15 WE television show on Secret Lives of Women - Married to Crossdressers. My wife and I are featured together with another couple from the Midwest. Yes, I hated their reference to my compulsion as stated below. I certainly do not feel any guilt about who I am. Yes, we are very apprehensive about how our lives will change after next week but know that the largest segment of the transgender community, crossdressers, have been neglected in the media. When we are featured it is usually sensational BS such as Jerry Springer with few if any facts about our community. We would appreciate your comments both positive and negative after the broadcast next Tuesday.

Thanks.

Melanie

August 11, 2006 - from The Insider web site

Inside the World of Cross Dressers

All across America, straight men are concealing a shocking secret: They enjoy dressing as women! Now, a new Women's Entertainment TV show reveals two women in monogamous relationships with men who are cross dressers.

"I told her, 'I'm not everything I appear to be,'" JOE PREVOST tells WE! On "Secret Lives of Women: Married to Cross Dressers" (Tuesday, Aug. 15 at 10 p.m.). Soon after, he introduced his fiancée, CARRIEANNE, to his female alterego, "Tori Lynn" -- with the help of cosmetics, stockings and a wig.

"I looked at him and I went, 'Is that what you got me all worked up about?'" Carrieanne says. "I chose to go through this. I love Joe so much and I love Tori, and I want to be there for him or her."

The men confess they have feelings of self-loathing and shame about their compulsions. Grandfatherly MEL says he has been wearing women's clothes since he was 5. As a child, Mel says he was attracted to his mom's nylons. A little bit later on, he tried on her high-heeled shoes and dresses.

"Each time I did that, I would throw off those clothes and feel guilty and bad and think, 'Boys should not be doing this.' But a few days later the attraction would hit me again."

He wrestled with how to tell his wife, PEGGY, about his feelings. Finally, he poured it all into a heartwrenching letter.

"I think that reading the letter helped me, and he made another point perfectly clear: 'I love you,' and that degree of trust and faith was a wonderful thing."

The two have been married for 25 years. For more on cross-dressing, watch "Secret Lives of Women" at 10 p.m., Aug. 15, on WE TV.

Karren H
08-11-2006, 11:58 AM
Thanks Mel! I guess your the "grandparents from TX"? Lol. And from WE's website I see it is being brodcast four times

8/15 - 10pm
8/16 - 1am
8/19 - 12am
8/22 - 11pm

I already have my dvd recorder set to record and have requests from a couple friends for copys!!

Love Karren

Kandi
08-11-2006, 12:00 PM
great heads up tip. I will definatly try to catch it after big brother

suzy
08-11-2006, 12:04 PM
Thanks Melanie,

Should be an exciting and informative show....I'm gonna watch it....:hugs:

ColleenCD
08-11-2006, 12:07 PM
Melanie R,

Thank you and Peggy for being such wonderful representatives for who we really are, not the Jerry Springer crowd embedded in the intelectually lazy. I had my wife read Peggy's book which helped her understand more about me. We will see it and report.

Colleen

Ashlee
08-11-2006, 01:25 PM
although times were posted by karen hutton. i didn't find it being broadcast at least as far as my tivo is concerned. could it be only in one part of the u.s.? i will of course keep my eyes peeled for it. i've usually seen shows weeks in advance showing up on tivo searches.....

Jasmine Ellis
08-11-2006, 02:13 PM
any idea when its on in the UK?

Karren H
08-11-2006, 02:22 PM
although times were posted by karen hutton. i didn't find it being broadcast at least as far as my tivo is concerned. could it be only in one part of the u.s.? i will of course keep my eyes peeled for it. i've usually seen shows weeks in advance showing up on tivo searches.....

http://www.we.tv/

Search on cross dressers (2 words)

Love Karren

wildjasmine
08-11-2006, 02:27 PM
On the website it says:

"Find out how this couple keeps Joe's obsession from friends and family."

Well for a start dont do a television programme oops to late.

Ellie
08-11-2006, 02:33 PM
Thanks for letting us know in advance, I've setup my DVR for both the Insider and the show it self on WE.

Sharoncd
08-11-2006, 02:45 PM
Thanks for the heads up I will be setting up the recorder for this. Since you have the insite I was looking at this as a opening to for my wife to know that I'm a crossdresser and that I need to crossdress and it not as bad as it may seam to a GG. What do you think?

Sharoncd

Volca
08-11-2006, 02:52 PM
Aww...I dont get WE on my basic cable...any way I can order a copy like how the discovery channel does all their shows?

lizbeth GG
08-11-2006, 03:01 PM
(Hi, I'm new)

Argh! I don't get WE on my crappy apartment cable. The only time I get to watch WE is at my fiance's house, and we're usually watching "Bridezillas" in preparation for our upcoming wedding.

I went into more details in the introduction section, but he has NO IDEA that I have known for 6+ months (long before our engagement) that he likes to wear women's shoes and possibly women's clothing. There is no way I can tivo this one without him freaking out. :(

Melanie R
08-11-2006, 03:30 PM
We have just watched The Insider and they did sensationalize the promo on the WE show on crossdressing. Thank goodness the other couple were featured and not us. Many more people will see The Insider than the WE show. At the end the clip showed Peggy and Melanie for 2 seconds.

Hugs,

Melanie

Janelle Young
08-11-2006, 06:37 PM
Thanks for the reminder. It would be good to tell us again just before the show airs. In case anyone forgot when it will be shown. I am so looking forward to seeing this. One of our own a national star. This is so great.

psdibe
08-11-2006, 07:52 PM
Does any one know of another station that will be carring this dhow. Our cable provider does not heave the WE.
Thanks for the help.
PD

Michelle2008
08-12-2006, 08:33 PM
Melanie & Peggy,

I am really looking forward to watching the program. The CD/TG community is so lucky to have brave and such selfless people such as you and Peggy. I can speak from experience that my life has not been the same since I met and got to know you two. You showed me it was "ok" to let Michelle out and helped me find the courage to do just that. I can't thank you two enough! Good luck on how this affects your life.....take care!

Michelle

Di
08-12-2006, 09:08 PM
Looking forward to watching....thanks for the heads up.:hugs:

Carlacd
08-15-2006, 10:07 PM
A excellant show. Well worth the watch.:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Sandygal
08-15-2006, 10:14 PM
Hi Mel...Just watched the show. Very well done. I hope you and the other couple can keep us posted on what happens after the show. ...Thank you..Sandy

Huntress
08-15-2006, 10:22 PM
Melanie and Peggy,
You were fabulous. They certainly gave no charity, but you got the word out loud and proud. Succinctly, and with class. Huge kudos to you both, and Karreanne, and Toni. All of your bravery knows no bounds. Thank you.

Dee 1062
08-15-2006, 10:26 PM
Cool Beans:)

Charleen
08-15-2006, 10:41 PM
Bravo! Bravo! Bravo! Wait- That's another network. A heart felt thanks to you Melanie and your lovely wife Peggie. The courage to go to the University! I hope you are right in that the insight you give will be passed on and on! Question, I know that was filmed a while ago, have you had any repercussions and/or expect any now that the show has aired? Anyway, congratulations to you both on a superb job. As a CD, I'm not only proud of you, but also in awe that you did this! Defineately Love and xxxx, Lily

Charleen
08-15-2006, 10:44 PM
Yeah, me again. Does anyone know about Tori and Carri? are they members here or anything? Love and xxxx, Lily

jennifer easton
08-15-2006, 10:51 PM
Melanie,your show was like seeing my life on the little box,it hit so close to my home, thank you for your courage!!, please keep us posted. xoxoxo Jennifer