CaptLex
08-14-2006, 02:17 PM
I don't want to hijack Lex's thread about coming out under the influence (COUI?) :idontknow: , so here's my report of the reaction I got at work today when the big announcement was made.
It was actually made in two parts (not my decision): Friday afternoon Administration held a meeting for department managers who were informed and asked to then pass on the information to their respective departments (my idea) but the general staff was not told (not my idea). I wanted to put an announcement in the daily staff bulletin, but Admin nixed that idea and I was told I should circulate an e-mail instead. So, what follows is (a slightly edited version of) the e-mail I sent this morning (in blue) and some of the responses I've received so far (in red):
Good morning! I hope you all had a good weekend. And I hope you all had your morning caffeine boost, as you may need it for the following announcement. If not, you can go get some . . . I'll wait. Ready? Okay, here goes:
As some of you already know, I have begun a gender transition from female to male ( you may want to take another sip of that coffee now). The purpose of this e-mail is to catch the rest of you up, and to let all know that going forward I'll be using a different version of my name (but not changing it legally) and I'm requesting that everyone refer to me as Lex (yes, as in Lex Luthor).
Thanks for your indulgence. Please call me with any questions (I think),
Lex ;)
I'M PROUD OF YOU. GOOD FOR YOU LEX! YOU GO LEX. :)
I'm proud of you. I heard the news and didn't know whether it was okay to talk to you about it. All the best. I'll talk to you later.
I like it, Lex!
Although I don't know you very well, (I don't imagine the process is easy, and I appreciate the fyi) I wish you the best--professionally and personally.
Hey Lex ~~ How brave of you.... I applaud you! It takes a very special person (male or female) to finally know what you want in life and which direction you want your life to take. Know that I wish you the very best and extraordinary days ahead.
I wish the best of luck with your decision. May this time of change go smooth for you.
Hi Lex: Welcome to the first day of your new life. I am so proud of you & I wish you all the luck in what I am sure will be a difficult transition time. Take care.
Dear Lex, I wish you all the best, for you certainly deserve it. You will always be a friend to me.
congrats to you for handling this w/humor - i'm guessing you are & have travelled a difficult path - good for you for your bravery & determination
This took guts, Lex!!! Good for you! Did you get any responses, or are some people choking on their coffee?
I have to say this is the most shocking news I've ever received on a Monday morning! You get the prize for that!! But all kidding aside, I sincerely hope that it all turns out well for you. And I'm very happy that you are able to do it because I'm sure it's the culmination of a life long desire. I imagine that the process might be difficult, but I'll pray that you have an easy time, physically and mentally. You can consider me one of your friends and have my full support!!!
Dear Lex, Many thanks for your note. I admire your courage and wish you the very best.
I wish you the best of luck in what ever you do.
As you can see, people have been really terrific. In addition to e-mail responses, my phone was ringing off the hook all morning and I got a few personal visits to my desk from others - all with the same warm, accepting and supportive sentiments. Needless to say, I feel that a huge weight has been lifted. :dance:
It was actually made in two parts (not my decision): Friday afternoon Administration held a meeting for department managers who were informed and asked to then pass on the information to their respective departments (my idea) but the general staff was not told (not my idea). I wanted to put an announcement in the daily staff bulletin, but Admin nixed that idea and I was told I should circulate an e-mail instead. So, what follows is (a slightly edited version of) the e-mail I sent this morning (in blue) and some of the responses I've received so far (in red):
Good morning! I hope you all had a good weekend. And I hope you all had your morning caffeine boost, as you may need it for the following announcement. If not, you can go get some . . . I'll wait. Ready? Okay, here goes:
As some of you already know, I have begun a gender transition from female to male ( you may want to take another sip of that coffee now). The purpose of this e-mail is to catch the rest of you up, and to let all know that going forward I'll be using a different version of my name (but not changing it legally) and I'm requesting that everyone refer to me as Lex (yes, as in Lex Luthor).
Thanks for your indulgence. Please call me with any questions (I think),
Lex ;)
I'M PROUD OF YOU. GOOD FOR YOU LEX! YOU GO LEX. :)
I'm proud of you. I heard the news and didn't know whether it was okay to talk to you about it. All the best. I'll talk to you later.
I like it, Lex!
Although I don't know you very well, (I don't imagine the process is easy, and I appreciate the fyi) I wish you the best--professionally and personally.
Hey Lex ~~ How brave of you.... I applaud you! It takes a very special person (male or female) to finally know what you want in life and which direction you want your life to take. Know that I wish you the very best and extraordinary days ahead.
I wish the best of luck with your decision. May this time of change go smooth for you.
Hi Lex: Welcome to the first day of your new life. I am so proud of you & I wish you all the luck in what I am sure will be a difficult transition time. Take care.
Dear Lex, I wish you all the best, for you certainly deserve it. You will always be a friend to me.
congrats to you for handling this w/humor - i'm guessing you are & have travelled a difficult path - good for you for your bravery & determination
This took guts, Lex!!! Good for you! Did you get any responses, or are some people choking on their coffee?
I have to say this is the most shocking news I've ever received on a Monday morning! You get the prize for that!! But all kidding aside, I sincerely hope that it all turns out well for you. And I'm very happy that you are able to do it because I'm sure it's the culmination of a life long desire. I imagine that the process might be difficult, but I'll pray that you have an easy time, physically and mentally. You can consider me one of your friends and have my full support!!!
Dear Lex, Many thanks for your note. I admire your courage and wish you the very best.
I wish you the best of luck in what ever you do.
As you can see, people have been really terrific. In addition to e-mail responses, my phone was ringing off the hook all morning and I got a few personal visits to my desk from others - all with the same warm, accepting and supportive sentiments. Needless to say, I feel that a huge weight has been lifted. :dance: