so easy with woman

[Lotte L]

Hi girls,

Yesterday I played a round of golf with two of my friends, both are married and have nothing common with CD-ing. Walking in the middle they started a conversation about me being so feminine. He is so easy with woman, talking about fashion and feminine things. A bit of mascara, lipstick and a pair of fake breasts and he can pass as a woman. They do'nt know about my cd-ing, I suggested to come next time as a woman called Lotte. They wouldnt be surprised if I did they say. The rest of the day they called me Lotte, but didnt alow me to use the lady T-box because I hit the bal far enough and as straight as a woman. I'm so close to tell them. What would you do?

Love,
Lotte

[Kate Simmons]

Nah, Keep them guessing I say, Lotte. Ericka

[Carroll]

come dressed the next time. They said you could right? After they tell you how great you look and how you pass, then tell them it is not the first time you have dressed....go with the flow from there

[Kimberly]

Come out. That's what I'd do.

Then play a round of golf with them as Lotte!

[Phyliss]

I'd say the next time you play together, show up in drab and see if anybody remembers the conversation about your suggestion of showing up "dressed". If one of them mentions it say your wig is out for cleaning but you will be dressed the next time.
Rather than shock them too fast just see if they are really interested in you playing golf fully dressed.

Slow and easy does it.

[Shelly Preston]

Phyliss is right

Slow and easy you dont want to shock them it may become a running theme
they you can always say I will show up as a woman just to shut them up

But you may look to good and the secrets out

be careful

[Robin Leigh]

Yesterday I played a round of golf with two of my friends, both are married and have nothing common with CD-ing. Walking in the middle they started a conversation about me being so feminine. He is so easy with woman, talking about fashion and feminine things. A bit of mascara, lipstick and a pair of fake breasts and he can pass as a woman. They do'nt know about my cd-ing, I suggested to come next time as a woman called Lotte. They wouldnt be surprised if I did they say.

You may have been playing golf, Lotte, but I think your friends were on a fishing expedition...

I'd suggest proceed with caution. It's extremely likely that they suspect something TG about you, and are trying to get confirmation.

Even if you know them well & expect them to react like mature adults, it can be hard to predict how men will react to this sort of revelation. Have you known them a long time? Do you know many personal details about each other?

Robin

[danadoll]

Hi Lotte,

What are you waiting for ! Go out there an show them what your made of !

You GO GIRL !!!

Love
danadoll

[Marcia Sue]

I think you might want to take it slow. If one of the guys is a closer friend feel him out about what was said before showing up at the golf course and a possible bad time at the tee. Good luck

[randi32869]

It may be fun but what about the others on the course and in the clubhouse?

If it were near Halloween or something - you have a reason/excuse. I suggest that you proceed lightly - maybe pull out a bra or lipstick to put on mid-way through and see how the joke progresses.

You could even make it a bet that if you showed up en-femme that you get to play from the ladies tees. That way the bet could be course-wide and you would not look too out-of-place without a reasonable explanation.

These are probably close friends but you could still be the object of a prank that you can not walk away from easily.

Good luck and keep us updated.

[Nigella]

Sound advice from all at the moment, just remember, once the cat is out of the bag, you cant get it back in.

Proceed with caution :)

[Rachel Morley]

Gosh, I would so love to play a round of golf dressed as a woman (tennis too) :happy:

Anyway, you asked what would we do? This is s tricky one. I tend to agree with Phyliss, show up in drab next time and see if anyone remembers what was said last time...I'm sure they will. Also, I thought what randi32869 said was helpful...reach into your bag or pocket to get out a tee or divot repairer and pull out a lipstick "by accident" :eek: I also agree with what randi said about others on the course, your women friends might be ok playing with you dressed if it were just the three of you on the course but what happens when you have to interact with others, like say because of slow play you got to a tee and had to wait for the group in front to finish tee-ing off, and they started talking with you?

Anyway, it's your call but I would definately persue it....but do it carefully.

[Jasmine Ellis]

go for it and have fun

[randi32869]

I have let my fastasy mind wander and if this comes to be - you should wear a tennis skirt or mini with 18 pairs of panties - starting with a sheer g-string (gaff) and progressing through g-strings - thongs - string bikinis - low rise bikinis and briefs of various colors. Then after each hole - casually remove a pair. Soon they will be looking forward to your ball placements (so to speak) and by the end of the 18th hole they will be buying you drinks. Ooops - make that 19 pairs (but that is up to you)!

[trish lee]

I was just wondering who carries 3" heels with spikes:heehee:

[Annesah]

Go for it hon! I'm sure you will all have a "golf ball"!

[AmandaM]

Tell them to buy you that new expensive putter you've been eyeing and you'll do it. LOL

[angelfire]

I'd personally suggesting to wait it out, and then go as a woman for halloween. Then you have an excuse, cause anything goes for halloween.

[Rachel Morley]

Go for it hon! I'm sure you will all have a "golf ball"!

Yes, get into the "swing" of it, and having fun will be a "fore" gone conclusion! :heehee:

[swiss_susan]

I have to say whatever you decide you still don't get to hit from the ladies tee

:tongueout

Susan

[jjjjohanne]

If you played it right, you could arrange a shopping trip and makeover where they help feminize you before your next trip. Just say, I want to go as a woman to the next golfing. Would you help me?

That sounds rather fantacy oriented... It likely wouldn't work. But I couldn't not say it!!

[carolinewalker_2000]

Hi Lotte,

I am with the other girls who counsell caution; good friends they may be, but things could change if their suspicions were confirmed. Go in drab next time; wait and see if either of them mention your previous conversation and, if they do, agree to dress as a woman next time - as a dare - so long as they escort you into the Club House at the end of the round and take any flack on your behalf.

Good luck; could be fun!!


Caroline