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JoAnnDallas
08-21-2006, 09:08 AM
This past weekend was my wife's birthday and I decided to take her to Oklahoma gambling. The Casino's are just across the border from Texas. LOL. Anyway she decided to invite my older sister to go with us. My older sister has been consumed with Mother's problems, so she needed a day of R&R. Anyway, we pick her up and goto IHOP for breakfest. We are seated at a table, the watress comes up and says, "Morning ladies, can I have your drink order". I am dressed in drab, since neither my wife or my sister knows of my fem side. I did have a Hanes T-Shirt on and panties, but thats it. Well, all thru breakfest the watress kept saying "ladies". I went into the men's restroom, and right before I came out, I took a look at myself. The more I looked at myself in the mirror the more confused I got as to why the watress thought I was a female. After we got into the SUV and started out for OKlahoma, my wife look at me and said "Well, guess your one of the girls now." Then my sister remarked that " She did keep saying "ladies" didn't she." I responsed by say "Guess I am". Both my wife and sister then laughed. Rest of the morning was no problem. We got to the casino and I won off the slot machines. Wife lost all of hers and so did my sister, so since I was the big winner, I had to pay for lunch. We stoped at the "Cracker Barrel", which was jsut across the border into Texas. We are seated and our watress comes up to get our order and again it happened. She called us "LADIES". After she left to put our order in, my wife looks at me up and down and then just shakes her head. My sister just sat there with a puzzled look on her face. All thru lunch the watress again kept saying "LADIES". By now I am smiling inside and my wife and sister are really puzzled.

I remember a post that refered to something about putting out fem vibes from your mannerisims, the way you act, move, posture, and ect. Also I usually shave real close and use Olay products on my face to keep the winkles at bay and to Moisturize my face. So the only thing I can come up with, is both wratress's must have Unconsciously picked up on my fem side and said "Ladies" with out thinking about it. I guess I am too close to my wife and sister for them to pickup on the vibes.

Jasmine Ellis
08-21-2006, 09:18 AM
how wonderful you didn't go as a female but you come out thinking you are. I bet that put a smile on your face I know it would mine. thank you for sharing this with us.

SherriePall
08-21-2006, 09:43 AM
JoAnn -- What a great time it sounds like you had. I remember that post about sending out femme vibes. For it to happen to you twice in such a short time, you must be presenting yourself in some femme way without even realizing it. thanks for sharing the story.

Talon DeRojo
08-22-2006, 10:58 AM
JoAnn - Very interesting! Thanks for sharing this will us. I don't know what to make of it.
Talon:happy:

Jenna1561
08-22-2006, 11:07 AM
JoAnn, I understand how you must have felt. I too love being addressed as a woman, particularly when I am in drab. My wife however, to whom I only recently came out, doesn't enjoy it and is usually a little embarrassed.


Jenna