Come on then GGs how did your fella tell you and what was your reaction

[Bev06 GG]

Ok Girls,
I know that I could ask this question over in the GG forum, but I figured it might just be interesting and maybe helpful to some of our Cd friends on here to read what we have to say on this subject.
How did your fella tell you that he wanted/liked to dress, or did you catch him at it? and what did, or didn't you appreciate about the way he told you.
I've also just read the thread about dressing and whether or not its a turn on for CDs, so lets turn that on its head and ask, do any of the GGs find their fellas dressing a turn on? ( I dare you to answer)
Oh and before I sign off, I dont want any replies from CDs telling me that theyre not fellas. This is my thread and in my fantasy you can be what I want you to be. tee hee
BEVxxxx

[Donna Ellis GG]

I knew my husband was cross dressing for some time before he told me but i would not say any think about it as i felt it was down to him to come clean.
we were growing apart hardly speaking to each other, then one evening i was in a mood and very fed up so i started a argument with him.
that was when he told me he was cross dressing. i told him that i had known for sometime.
my reaction to it was that i did not mind him dressing what i did not like is that he did not tell me and wanted to know every think about cross dressing and i wanted to know all about her see photos the lot.
no i don't feel turned on when he becomes her.

[GG Vanya]

My story has been told before, but I'll repeat it for the newcomers:

Trudi and I met thru the BDSM community. We frequented the same online chat room, but had never spoken one on one~ i.e. IMs. "He" was always quiet, didn't say much, but when he did, it was profound and often hilarious. At that time "he" presented as dom, and I as sub. (This later evolved to us both being switches as Trudi became more and more of "us".)

We met quite by accident at a local BDSM club. I remember disctincly: I was walking through the sitting area, and he stood up~looked me square in the eyes. I remember thinking (quite haughty I was) "just who does this guy think *he* is, and walked around him. :D

We discovered later that we'd met (we were wearing name tags giving our *real* names and didn't connect it with online ID's) and decided we were interested in meeting again.

Finally we began conversing via IMs and telephone. Some of those phone calls lasted literally all night and he kept saying he had something he needed to tell me about himself. My imagination ran wild! When he finally worked up the courage to tell me, my reaction was odd (to me) even today. I'd never even entertained the idea of a relationship with a CD but I exhaled with relief and simply said: OK, and?

We met again, one on one, about a week after that. He'd been best man in a friend's wedding earlier that day and I asked him to wear the tux for me when we met. (I'm a mush for a man in a tux!) We met at a mutual friend's house (our safe call) and the rest is history! :love: This was in 1998, and we've not been apart, literally, for more than a dozen nights. When it's right, by golly, it's *right*.

Within 2 months we were co-habitating and I was arse over teakettle in love.
We'd decided that I would meet Trudi *only* when he was ready for it. It was probably 4-5 months into the relationship and finally it was time for her debut. I'd been given the choice of watching the "moult" (as it was referred to on Secret Lives of Women) :p or wait and let her step out fully dressed. I chose the latter, and to this day I still choose to see the butterfly after she's left the cacoon.

For once in my life (are ya sitting down? :D ) Vanya was speechless! I just sank to my feet, wrapped my arms around her legs and cried, thinking "she's absolutely beautiful and she's MINE!"

Do I get turned on seeing the man I love dressed in feminine attire? Absotively! It's not just a visual thing for me. Trudi is quiet, demure and submissive. "He" is ummmm not those things? LOL I love and need both sides of the person I married, but the gentle mannerisms of Trudi are a total turn on for me as well.

Now, eight years later, I know full well just who he thought he was that night when he looked me straight in the eye! :<3: :<3: :<3:

[Nike]

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[Bev06 GG]

I forgot to share my story with you all. We had only been together for a couple of months when one night in bed, my partner admired my satin underwear. He said it felt really nice and that he thought women were very lucky to wear it. I told him to try it on so he did. The next morning when I woke up, he was still wearing it. He told me that it felt really nice and that he'd always envied women because theyre clothes were so much nicer. As the weeks went on he did it more and more until finally I asked him if he was a Transvestite. He said he didn't know but he was beginning to want to dress in womens clothes. So began our little adventure. To start with it was my stuff he borrowed but as time went on I decided that if we were going to do it we were going to do it properly so We went out and bought a wardrobe just for Jay.
I think the thing I appreciated more than anything else was the fact that he told me that if he was going to do it, he wanted me to be involved and join in. He has included me all the way, infact when Im not around ive encouraged him to have a day dressing but he very rarely does because he says its more fun when Im around. For a guy to share something so personal and make himself so potentially vulnerable takes some guts and for that I felt very privilidged to share this part of his life with him, and very flattered that he chose to trust me with it.
Do I find it a turn on? Well its difficult to say really because I'd fancy him in a Bin Bag, so I guess Im not a very good yard stick with which to measure. I just know he looks gorgeous when fully made up.
Take care
BEVxxxx

[tammie]

Bev: Thanks so much for this thread, I quite enjoyed it and I am envious of U and Vanya so much. I am a 55yo lifelong CD and have doneit solo forever. My GGSO knows I do it but doesn't want to see or know. I wear panties 24/7, but I concede the lace, satin or pink on her account. Your men R so lucky.

[Bev06 GG]

Bev: Thanks so much for this thread, I quite enjoyed it and I am envious of U and Vanya so much. I am a 55yo lifelong CD and have doneit solo forever. My GGSO knows I do it but doesn't want to see or know. I wear panties 24/7, but I concede the lace, satin or pink on her account. Your men R so lucky.

Hi Tammie,
My pleasure. As for our men being so lucky, well I think we are too. We have something quite unique to share in our relationship and no one could every say its boring could they.
Take care
BEVxxxxxx

[CDsWifey GG]

Ok Girls,
I know that I could ask this question over in the GG forum, but I figured it might just be interesting and maybe helpful to some of our Cd friends on here to read what we have to say on this subject.
How did your fella tell you that he wanted/liked to dress, or did you catch him at it? and what did, or didn't you appreciate about the way he told you.
I've also just read the thread about dressing and whether or not its a turn on for CDs, so lets turn that on its head and ask, do any of the GGs find their fellas dressing a turn on? ( I dare you to answer)
Oh and before I sign off, I dont want any replies from CDs telling me that theyre not fellas. This is my thread and in my fantasy you can be what I want you to be. tee hee
BEVxxxx
Mine got more and more stressed the closer it got to our wedding and just flipped out and blurted it all out 3wks before the big day. He was scared, and confused, and totally sincere, and told me if I had to leave him he would totally understand b/c he thought he was a freak and tho he'd never really dressed much besides a small occasional experiment in secret, he knew it wasnt gonna go away and was getting stronger. Neither of us knew anything about the CD world at all. He said he couldn't allow me to marry him without knowing what kind of a person he really was. I cried because of his hurt and got scared b/c he was scared and nodded and smiled and told him it was all okay and we would be fine for the first couple days while on the inside I was totally freaking out and wanting to scream, cry, throw things, I had no idea how to feel. Then finally I got off by myself and surfed the net and soul-searched and came to the conclusion that I wanted to share in this with him and help him to embrace the feminine side of himself I'd always known and loved. I wrote up how I felt and took it to him. We talked all night and it has gotten better and better since. As for whether I am attracted.....at first I was freaked trying to be intimate with him dressed, not because of the girl/girl thing but b/c it was just so damn different after all the years of being together without it, but then after a few nights out with Brandy and hanging out with her, I got more and more comfortable and now, frankly, I think Brandy's waaaay hot ! This past few weeks life has gotten in the way of the dressing, and I think I am more disappointed than my hubby is :o . Not that hes not just as exciting as the man Ive always been with, but sometimes I just miss her :D Dunno if that sounds weird or not, but its where I am with it right now.

[sparks]

I know I'm not suppose to answer this thread but I just had to say thank you for sharing these very intimate details of your lives.
You Gals are fastastic. IT wouldn't matter if you were accepting or not these stories are beautiful and it's a blessing to here your sides of the tale.

Thank you so much.

[Bev06 GG]

I know I'm not suppose to answer this thread but I just had to say thank you for sharing these very intimate details of your lives.
You Gals are fastastic. IT wouldn't matter if you were accepting or not these stories are beautiful and it's a blessing to here your sides of the tale.

Thank you so much.

Hi Sparks,
This thread is open to anyone who wants to share sweet legs. I know that you can't actually answer the thread itself, but your views and opinions are just as valid as anyone else's and very appreciated.
Take care
BEVxxxx

[stephanie B]

Hi, My So (we had been seeing each other for about 2 months but were not yet living together), accidentally left his credit card statement out on the dining table. Having read it, he tut - tutted to himself and said "just look at that" ... I couldn't resist the temptation... so I did as I had been invited. I was really shocked. Almost every purchase was from local women's clothes shops or internet shopping companies.

At first, I thought he was seeing someone else.. and being very generous to my competitor as well. but he came back into the room and saw me looking - "extravagant aren't I?" he said. I asked who the shopping was for - expecting the worst. He then explained that he liked to wear womens clothes and that he did wear lingerie most days at some time or other. I was absolutely bowled over - I had dated a CD a few years ago and, I guess, if I am honest, been looking for another man who had "female feelings" ever since.

From that day he (she) has really opened up to me, we go on shopping trips together and I help whenever I can. and lately, we have been going out for "walks" together which she finds very exciting.

Maybe it's because I'm ever so slightly bi but find that my SO is far more attractive to me when she is dressed than when in "guy mode" - I don't know if thats a good thing or not, its just how I feel. All I know is that It is working for us now.

Hope our story is of some interest,

Love,

Stephanie

[Ellaine]

Wow! Look at this... A tiny piece of the planet where the non-accepting partner is the odd one!

You accepting GG's are just so precious,:love: it makes wonderful reading.
I'm filling up!
Please don't let this thread sink into obscurity, ever.






(Gosh...Only 5 post from my millenium!!)

[kittypw GG]

My story is similar to Bev's. I always found it kinda sexy to get my boyfriends to wear my panties. I think that my hubby hinted something similar to Bev's hubby or I probablly just put them on him I'm not really sure. That started an evolution of my husband to Dannielle. I picked her name and most of her clothes. I found out later that he owned an unattractive skirt and nothing to go along with it before or maybe during our dating. I enjoy going to pick out lingerie for Dannielle and planning such naughty surprises. Dannielle just beams and smiles from ear to ear when I show interest in her. My hubby also doesn't do much when I'm not involved, He also says it is not as much fun.

As time went on I got saturated with the whole crossdressing thing (I won't go into detail, I have posted about it before) and didn't participate much for a couple of years. Currently we are approching the crossdressing in a more mature way. We are trying to respect eachothers wishes and be better partners to eachother. When my hubby is being a lousy partner then Dannielle is the very last thing on my list and mostly doesn't make the list at all.

I find Dannielle very sexy and attractive. I have no problem sharing the bedroom with her but I don't allow her to take over. I dont think that my hubby wants that either. So check out her avatar, the picture is a result of a very sexy evening the other night. Dannielle is the name she is wearing a green shimery blouse and posing for me.:D I did her natural hair. She has got great hair, nice and curly.

Help me get Dannielle out of her shell. Encourage her to post she is so shy and just lurks and reads posts.

[Sandra]

We was joking one night and he asked if he could try a basque on that I wore for our wedding, I said go ahead thinking it was a joke but when she came down stairs and sat next to me and said " I like to do this all the time" I knew it wasn't. She was honest about it ok she didn't say anything before we got married we had been married about 5 months, I thought it was less but she has assured me it was 5 months, but the hints were there, like going shopping and always looking at the womens underwear section and the makeup sections.

Do I find her dressing a turn on?

In the very early stages no I was disgusted by it, but as time went on and after a lot of tears, upsets, hell of a lot of talking and give and take I began to see her differently and what I saw I liked, and now yes for me it is a turn on,she is "hot" and her being in bed with me is not a problem, it's good job my sex drive is low, cos with her being CDing 24/7 we would both be knackered :heehee: