Caught by my neighbor.

[lahr]

Earlier today I was making coffee. I heard the back door open and my female neighbor comes roaring into the kitchen screaming that her younger brother who was in Iraq is now back in the states and coming home for good. I sat down at the table hopeing that she didnt notice. I was wearing daisy dukes, p hose and red patent heels. Tacky and not hard to miss huh? Then she leaned over and really checked out my legs and heels under the table. Then she sez Maam you got some splainin too dooo. Next she put her arms around me and laughed untill she cried, my top is still wet. Then came the questions. Why do I do it? So does Linda (my wife) know? How long have I been doing this ect. Liz has been a good neighbor and a great friend for seven years now. I love Liz and so does my wife. Liz is a lipstick lesbian school teacher and always dresses to the 9s. Her and I usually raz each other about something in a fun way. She knows about my fetish for female feet in hose and she loves giving me the the business in a harrasing way but I always critque her on her taste in her lesbian lovers It felt good to be in drag and have coffee togther but when she started the jokes about a girls night out, Borrowing each clothes ect I really got into it. Wow! It was exciting and I now feel closer to her than ever before. Does this make sense?

[CassieW]

Well does the wife know? if she does maybe the three of you could have a girls night and share some secrets. Let us know how it goes.
Huggs,
Cassie

[Raychel]

I hope the wife does know, cause if she doesn't Maam you got some big splainin too dooo, before the neighbor tells her.

[Lil Miss Bekkah]

That's great...glad to hear of an actual "caught" story that went well. Hope y'all have lots of fun!

[GG Vanya]

I'm just thankful I don't have a neighbor who comes crashing in without even knocking! Hey that's what they make *locks* for!

Never mind the fact, I'd get caught in my moomoo, hair lookin like the cats slept in it (the original bed head look!) and would most likely be dialing 911 with my 38 in my hand by the time she got to the kitchen table.

It's an accepted fact in this neck of the woods, we *are* all armed, and we know one's home is their sanctuary.

[Joy Carter]

It sounds like a friendship has just been inhanced, I'd go with it pending what the wife thought.

[Kate Simmons]

If my neighbor came barging in like that without knocking, I WOULD kill them. You've never seen me in the morning. NOT a pretty sight. Especially if my hair (wig) is in curlers (okay so I'm weird). Ain't nobody gonna live to describe that sight. Never mind my being dressed as Ericka. Amazing what three cups of coffee, a shower and fresh makeup can do for you in the morning. Lucky for them, my neighbors never do that (yet anyway). Ericka Kay

[AmberTG]

Just a friendly suggestion, be careful where you let your relationship with your neighbor go, I know how tempting it can be to get involved with someone who is so understanding of your issues. Of course, the fact that she likes the company of girls will be a good buffer for you. I've seen marrages destroyed, including mine, by an understanding and sympathetic third party that a spouse ended up getting involved with.
Om the other side of that, I bet that was quite the rush for you! Getting cought is always one of my fears, my son has a key to my house, as does my father-in-law. I'm thinking I should change the locks.
Amber

[Angie G]

Hi Lahr it must be nice to have a neighbor so cool :hugs:
Angie G.

[Annesah]

Lahr; Yes it makes complete sence. Depends on the nieghborhood and the neighbors of course but I too am so fortunate to have neighbors who are very close and personal for me. Almost like family. Your friend "breaking down your door" to express and share with you her joy and relief at having her brother return from a combat zone was nothing short of proof of the trusts and bonds that can develope within a community. Your heart is open. No need to lock your door on a sunny morning.:hugs:

[Karren H]

Daisy Duke?? Is that you house with the General Lee parked out front?? Hehehe

Love Karren

[Eugenie]

Just a friendly suggestion, be careful where you let your relationship with your neighbor go, I know how tempting it can be to get involved with someone who is so understanding of your issues.

Hi Lahr,

Amber's post is saying exactly what came to my mind immediately after reading your starting post in this thread.

I am in a rather similar situation: I wasn't discovered but I came out to a GG friend who is also a friend of my wife. My wife was very unhappy when she learned I did that coming out, but got over it.

The relation I have with that friend is wonderful, she is so understanding, we have long discussions, we went shopping for women clothes for me and she visited me several times when I was dressed, while my wife was away.

There is no love affair between us, but I sense that something intense is developing. It feels nice but it is also scary. My wife knows that we see each other when she is away. I always tell her when I invite our friend for diner. I even told my wife that I felt attracted to our friend, which my wife doesn't mind, she was more worried that it might bother our friend...

I've already said that my wife would much prefer to see me having an affair than having me x-dress as I do. Hence, the subject of X-dressing is taboo between my wife and I. That's why I don't tell her about the part concerning that subject when I spent time with our friend. I presume she knows x-dressing is part of our discussion subjects (she is very smart).

Now, even without planning anything more intimate, this is not a comfortable situation and yet, I can't come to the decision to stop seeing her.

Any how, It wouldn't be easy to stop... We invite her often to our place, and she invites us too. She's a really good friend of both of us.

So it makes for complex relations...

I'm split between the pleasure I have to be with her and the ambiguity of the situation.

I don't know if my story will help you...

:hugs:

Eugenie

[Sejd]

You have too many secrets going my friend. This is going to hit you in the "You know what" eventually. My suggestion - get out of your intimate relationship with your so called "Friend"
good luck
Sejd

[ChristineRenee]

You have too many secrets going my friend. This is going to hit you in the "You know what" eventually. My suggestion - get out of your intimate relationship with your so called "Friend"
good luck
SejdGood post and advice Sejd!:thumbsup:

[lahr]

And Yup! My wife knows about my CDing and has no problem with me in heels and hose around the house but me wearing breast forms make up and looking like a real woman. Well> It aint gonna happen in our home. When my wife came home I told her about Liz barging in and telling me about her brother coming home and catching me in Daisy dukes and heels. My wife was estatic. Not about me being caught but Gregg coming home is good news. She called Liz and invited her over for drinks We had a great time together and Liz never mentioned any thing about my femme thing but i could see the winks and eye contact between her and my wife. Life is good... Sometimes you get the elevator...Sometimes you get the shaft. Dam! Its great to be a CDr we have the best of both worlds...Lahr.

[Charleen]

Only thing I can say, other than admiting I'm jealous, is if you are going to be surprised, that's the way. Enjoy. Love and xxxx, Lily

[RachelDenise]

Lahr, are there any houses for sale in your neighborhood? I want to move to a better place!:happy:

[Erica007]

:hello: Lahr; Great neighbor you have there, at least you don't have to worry about getting caught by one neighbor anymore. :love:

[Barbara R.]

I bet you will have many more fun visits like that in the future now that she knows

[raquel]

as a closet CD ,I went out for a drive about 10 days ago,while my wife
was away,this was late at night and I felt great.
I parked out in the country and went for a walk in the moonlight,it
felt really good, but when I returned home ,about 1 am , I was sure
that one of my neighbours saw me getting out of the car fully dressed!
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Regards
Raquel