I came out

[delanas]

Today I decided to come out to my parents about my crossdressing I wrote it like this:
Mom,dad I have a secret to tell you and I need to come out about this,I cannot hold this anymore.I like wearing women's clothes and I am crossdresser.It started last month,I do this part time and you hopefully accept this.
My parents accept my crossdressing and told me this:We still love you no matter what happens in your life.I am very happy,I am going to dress as my femme side tommorrow and they want to see my femme side.I told them to call me Delana when I am dressed as my femme side.I am very happy of the reaction my parents knowing they are loving and caring

[Noel Chimes]

It's great that your parents have accepted you for you. I wish everyone could be as openminded and accepting as them.:hugs:

[KarenSusan]

I'm very happy for you, Delana.

[Emeralddragon]

Congratulations on being so straightforward and even more congrts for the cool reaction. YIPPEEEEE!! Happy times.

[Joy Carter]

Big hug for you and your folks :hugs:

[Teresa Amina]

What great parents!:love:

[Nancie64]

And to think some out there can't get their wife to understand. Good for you..

[Dragster]

Delana,
Call me suspicious if you like, but only yesterday at 5:30pm (Forum time) you say you started crossdressing a month ago with the help of your GG roomate. An hour later, you told us that you "crossdress 2 or 3 times a week, part time", and have decided to come out to your parents. A few minutes later you wrote that you "started wearing pantyhose from time to time a month ago", then it was bras and panties after that". Only 5 hours later (and that's less than 2 hours ago), you have already written to your parents to tell them you like to wear women's clothes (is that still only pantyhose, bra and panties? Because that's all you've mentioned so far), found that they were supportive, and got back on here to tell us all about it, and that you're going to dress as your femme side tomorrow, and they want to see that.

I'm sorry, but that speed of progress is a million times faster than your average CD achieves. I don't believe it, but if you're genuine, prove me wrong, and I'll accept it. If not, please don't waste your time and ours. We're here to support genuine CDs.
Tony

[Melissa A.]

Yeah, sounds a little far-fetched. I don't wanna be mean, but we have had some here who have entertained us with stories like this that just didn't add up. (Don't wanna name names, but remember the girl who told her parents, only to happily find out her father was a cd? That one caused an uproar). If I wrote a note to anyone close to me explaining that I was a cd, it would be alot longer and complicated than a couple of lines.

If you are telling the truth, I apologise. But if you are not, you are risking the long-term hostility of some very special and normally very supportive and understanding people, who don't appreciate being played with, having often experienced much pain and complication in their lives due to something they never asked for but now embrace, or are trying to. I hope you understand the sceptisism.

Hugs,

Melissa:happy:

[delanas]

I am a crossdresser and I was going to tell my parents right away right after I started last month,did not.I was nervous for that reason.My parents did see my femme side last night and my mom loves my femme side.My mom said these words:Delana,you look beautiful and we hugged.I know I did the right thing coming out out.I am telling the truth.I am so relieved now my parents accept my crossdressing

[Ashley Helen]

Delanas, if true congratulations but, like Dragster, I find the time-line very hard to believe. Less than 6 hours from 'I'm going to tell them this week' to you writing them a note and them responding. Another 10 hours (overnight) and they have seen you dressed and you have time to come on-line to tell us about it.

Helen

[Dragster]

Delanas,
I really do want to believe you, if you're genuine! So tell us your whole story.
How old are you? Where are you from? Your profile doesn't include anything about you! When was the first time you felt the need to dress. What prompted you to put on pantyhose? How did it feel? How is your roomate involved? You haven't mentioned her support since your first post! How did you progress? Where are you up to now! You've only mentioned panties and bras so far. What were you wearing when you showed your femme side to your mom? What items and style do you like to wear? How do you feel now when you wear them etc etc? We've all told our whole story here, it's a safe and supportive environment, and whatever your tastes, you'll find others just like you. So to help us accept you, and to help you to come to terms with yourself, tell us all. We don't care how long it is. Until you do, I'm remaining sceptical. Sorry,
Tony

[susanjane]

You are a very lucky girl having parents as good as that.

Have a wonderful feminine life.

Susanjane.
xxx

[delanas]

My parents are loving and caring people in my life.I wanted to dress last month after falling in love with feminine things and I was doing this in my aprtment alone.

[Holly]

So then, there is no GG room mate Rhonda? +?

[Skyie]

Hi,

Must be wonderful for you, grats.

Cheers,
Skyie

[Ronda_B]

Congratulations on telling your parents, if it's true also.

I only have a problem with guys that start crossdressing later in life when most true CDers it's a lifelong process, lasting 40,50,60 years.

My thoughts are this and it's only a thought mind you, but starting later in life... either you are doing it to impress a GG or or your girlfriend found your panties in the glove box. Like the joke about the golfer that was in the locker room and the other saw that he was wearing a red bra and said to him "when did you start wearing that thing?" and he said when my wife found it in my car.
:2c:
Alice

[Sejd]

Good for you. You recognized the importance of your parrents approval and you went for it. Great Job. And you have wonderful parrents.
Way to go girl.
Sejd

[swiss_susan]

Sorry I just don't buy it, but on the way off chance its true, good for you.

Susan

[delanas]

My roommate Rhonda caught me one day and reacted very well.She thought the bras,panties and pantyhose were hers I told her they were not after showing the reciepts of the purchases.I told her that I wanted to discover my femme side.

[Holly]

A GG that mistakes someone else's lingerie for her own? Now I do believe I have heard everything. :strugglin

[Sejd]

How did your coming out to your parents go Delana?
Sejd

[Lindsay Marie]

A GG that mistakes someone else's lingerie for her own? Now I do believe I have heard everything. :strugglin


Gotta go with you there sister. GG's know if it's their's or not, there's no confusion there. How long had you been dressing before your roommate caught you? Having the strength to go out and buy lingerie this soon, you've done in a month what it takes most years to do. Hell I've been at this for 13 years and just made my first public purchase yesterday. You were somewhat believeable until now. Delena if you are the real deal then let's see a pic or two sister, even if it's just a body shot or a pair of legs in shoes, then we'll know. Don't try to steal someone else's pics though we'll know that too. It's time to see some form of evidence. Give us some background info or a first time story or something, hell tell us at least how old you are. You've had your fun and now you're messing around with girls who have gone through some very tough times dealing with who they are and getting those around them to accept who they are, including myself. You will be accepted if you are for real I can tell you that, nobody is here to pass judgement. But you better show some form of evidence soon or you won't have any friends here. Enough of this I have a new pair of flats to break in.

[KateLongman27]

Sorry but my cynical side is coming out as from post number 14, you state that you do it in your apartment alone.

Yet a contridiction is that your roommate caught you!?

Doesn't make sense! Also a women actually mistakes someone elses lingerie for her own. I don't think so, unless the lingerie was an exact replica or same type of lingerie she has then there could be no mistake.

However if all this is wrong and you're actually in a state of shock at coming out then congratulations.

However I do have a cynical side.

[Dragster]

We haven't seen a post from Delanas for 2 days, and no response to our questions. Looks like we were right, this one's bogus!
Tony

[tekla west]

Wow, for a bunch of people who are NOT out, you sure are hard on anyone trying to get out. I believe its a whole lot easier to come out to your parents than your GF, which is much easier than doing so to your wife - which gets harder the longer she has been your wife.

First, come on, mom's know. Parents tend to love on a more unconditional level also, so given that all she said was that its OK with her mom, I will buy that. As to confusion, it might be doubtful, but no less than other things I read from time to time in here. And there is a difference in age, the difference between coming into themselves with the world, and those further along in the journey who are trying to come to terms with the fact that they spend a lot of time trying not to be who they are. Given a choice I would much rather support the first, in being who you are early and not hiding it. In trying to be real with people and not just fake life to them.

So I would hope that it is true, because her life will be all the better for it. No doubt about that.

[delanas]

I am back,my parents still accept my crossdressing and I have been so busy.My gg roommate Rhonda and I share the apartment.

[Angie G]

Hi Delanas welcome to the family enjoy your stay with us :hugs:
Angie

[Lisa Golightly]

My parents were disappointed when I told them.... Well, I like to think I fulfilled my role as model child... phase one loveable prodigy, stage two the impossible to understand wildchild, stage three the disappointing wastrel. :)

[Denee]

Congratulations Delanas,

What you did took a lot of courage. You should be very proud of yourself!

:love: Denee

Today I decided to come out to my parents about my crossdressing I wrote it like this:
Mom,dad I have a secret to tell you and I need to come out about this,I cannot hold this anymore.I like wearing women's clothes and I am crossdresser.It started last month,I do this part time and you hopefully accept this.
My parents accept my crossdressing and told me this:We still love you no matter what happens in your life.I am very happy,I am going to dress as my femme side tommorrow and they want to see my femme side.I told them to call me Delana when I am dressed as my femme side.I am very happy of the reaction my parents knowing they are loving and caring

[immike]

If my family ever found out I was a crossdresser,they would disown me.
TG Guy