Caitlintgsd
09-13-2006, 03:07 PM
I had my first appointment with my gender therapist today. Well, not THE first but the first in two years. It went well. She agrees that it's time to discussed transgenderism and ts'ism with the kids. My spouse previously had not been wanting to do that. Now my wife is more open minded about it but wants to discuss the situation with the children's counselor. They have appointments this coming Saturday so we're going to discuss it with her then.
So inquired about my recent job loss (2 weeks ago). We discussed that for a while and the various aspects of why I probably didn't fit in there. And we discussed my new job. She told me to go slow and not make waves. Although the owner of the company did state that he was ok with my being trans, I feel like I don't want to create an issue with transitioning and being a new employee at once.
So for now, transitiong is a yes and I'm going to continue. Probably have to hold off with the transitioning thing at work. First we need to discuss this with the kids. They already know I go out dressed but I'm not aware if they know anything other than that.
So inquired about my recent job loss (2 weeks ago). We discussed that for a while and the various aspects of why I probably didn't fit in there. And we discussed my new job. She told me to go slow and not make waves. Although the owner of the company did state that he was ok with my being trans, I feel like I don't want to create an issue with transitioning and being a new employee at once.
So for now, transitiong is a yes and I'm going to continue. Probably have to hold off with the transitioning thing at work. First we need to discuss this with the kids. They already know I go out dressed but I'm not aware if they know anything other than that.