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Tina Dixon
09-13-2006, 08:29 PM
You know some times I think I think to much does that make sense?

OK here's what I mean I love to dress, and I try to look my best witch I don't think is passable but since I stay home it don't matter.

Now my SO has discovered my dressing but doesn't ever bring it up so I still hide it from her to this day.

Now what I'm trying to get at here is what if I didn't have a SO? How far would I go with this wanting to look like a woman?

I mean think about it, would it take over? besides buying clothing would I go and have all my hair removed from my body? maybe look in to hormones to get real breasts and be more feminine? join clubs and groups and travel to TG get together that I read here?

I could see it possibly happening with out her keeping me in check.

Right now I'm happy getting dressed a few hours a week, but what if? Any one else ever feel this way?

JenniferMint
09-13-2006, 09:10 PM
I'd say if your SO isn't particularly attached to your facial hair/body hair, get it removed if you like. Even cisgendered men do it.

samantha#1
09-13-2006, 09:14 PM
Tina, if I did not have a loving and understanding partner I firmly believe that I would have throughly explored all options to fulfil a full transformation, I have thought long and hard about this and although I believe I was born with the wrong body I am very happy and secure with current arrangements and the support I receive.
Hugs to all
Samantha

Roberta Lynn
09-13-2006, 09:27 PM
I'm one of the fortunate few that have a accepting and supportive wife.
I dress fully and am comfortable where I'm at with CDing.

I wouldn't mind talking to some other CDers face to face, (Me In drab, Roberta doesn't go out of the house), or if I had the courage to attend a TG
get together. My wife wouldn't mind, in fact asked me about support groups just last week.

To answer your question, I don't think I would change, but I can't comprehend being without her.:love:

Calliope
09-13-2006, 09:29 PM
Now my SO has discovered my dressing but doesn't ever bring it up so I still hide it from her to this day.

Now what I'm trying to get at here is what if I didn't have a SO? How far would I go with this wanting to look like a woman?



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Glenda58
09-13-2006, 09:53 PM
Tina I also had the same feelings what would I do if I was living alone. My wife knew that I like to cd and didn't approve. When my wife passed I was upset and alone I dress in her cloths and went out. Then I felt gulity and purged everything. That was 8 years ago. Now my GF has moved out and I'm alone again.I have removed all body hair. Had my ears pierced. Got 4 wigs. Bought thousand of dollars of cloths. And trying to get larger breast with HRT. I also have been out shopping and to the movies. I dress when I want. And do guy things when I want. So if you are not with your SO you will dress more.

Kristen Kelly
09-13-2006, 09:53 PM
My GF is understanding she has been out with the girls, has accepted my shaving, even is ok with me having my ears pierced. She does keep me in check for I would be like a kid in a candy store without her around.

pattysues
09-13-2006, 10:56 PM
For my self my wife keeps me from going much futher, just by being here. Funny thing the other day we stop to eat at Sonic and had the windows down. I said put the windows up as I didn't want others to hear. And we talked about this site, after which we started to roll the windows back down. And she said "I thought you were going to say you wanted to get a sex change."

Tina Dixon
09-14-2006, 06:16 AM
My GF is understanding she has been out with the girls, has accepted my shaving, even is ok with me having my ears pierced. She does keep me in check for I would be like a kid in a candy store without her around.
I think this explains it the best.