******* at last/nasty She Male word

[Dawntv]

finally took the step and shaved my chest completly and my stomach also got all dressed up last night and after i took my dress off i was standing in the full length mirror in thigh highs hi heels full bra 38D and my wig with full make up and earings and my gg friend said my god you have turned into a beautifull *******!!!! i am so thrilled

[JoAnnDallas]

I am happy for you and happy you have a understanding GG friend.

[Billijo49504]

Cool Dawn, I'm glad things are going well for you. But if you really want to try something that will blow your mind, try this. When you're all dolled up, have your lady take some pictures of you. Then wait a dew days, then look at the pictures. It can be a real eye opener. Sometime I'll run across some pictures from a few years ago. I wonder who it is, then realize it's me.
Have fun with it, but remember to keep your lady formost in your life....BJ

[gennee]

That's wonderful, Dawn. It gets better the more you dress.

Gennee

:doll:

[uknowhoo]

Ah, the joys of being a girl!!! Congrats Dawn, I'm glad you've gotten to enjoy such an experience, the first of many I'm sure. xoxo Tammi

[Julogden]

finally took the step and shaved my chest completly and my stomach also got all dressed up last night and after i took my dress off i was standing in the full length mirror in thigh highs hi heels full bra 38D and my wig with full make up and earings and my gg friend said my god you have turned into a beautifull *******!!!! i am so thrilled
Hi Dawn,

Congratulations! Sounds like you're hooked!:happy:

You might mention to your friend that the term "she-male" is a term usually used in the porn industry to refer to transsexuals who work in porn, so she might want to use some other word for you.

Carol
:hugs:

[Kahlan51]

You look fantastic and glad to hear you feel the same. Burst into song
"Just like a Woman" It's always great to dressup and be accepted.
Hope to hear the next step in your wonderful transition Love Kahlan

[Deborah]

Cringing at the word "*******" ughhhh.

[Ashley in Virginia]

Cringing at the word "*******" ughhhh.

Glad I am not the only one. Actually I am not cringing, I am laughing. ******* is such a PORNO word.

[Caitlintgsd]

Glad I am not the only one. Actually I am not cringing, I am laughing. ******* is such a PORNO word.

:iagree:

[Mistybtm]

Nothing wrong with porno :tongueout

[Sandra]

Nothing wrong with porno :tongueout

True :heehee:

But I think ******* isn't a nice word, but each to his/her own :)

[Kieron Andrew]

True :heehee:

But I think ******* isn't a nice word, but each to his/her own :)
im with u on this i think it shows us in a bad light

[Ashley in Virginia]

Next we will hear about chicks with dicks. (which has to be my fav porno word, BTW :P )

[Mistybtm]

Next we will hear about chicks with dicks. (which has to be my fav porno word, BTW :P )

Mine as well I am with you all the way :heehee:

[Charleen]

Ain't nothing wrong with porn if that's what blows up your skirt, but the term she-male is not a term I would use to describe myself, or any other CDer as it is highly connected to porn. Me? I'm just your average guy wearing girls clothes other wise known as a cross dresser. Love and xxxx, Lily

[carol_pacd]

Congrats Dawn...I am sure it would be the desire of many here, to be in your heels!!..........



finally took the step and shaved my chest completly and my stomach also got all dressed up last night and after i took my dress off i was standing in the full length mirror in thigh highs hi heels full bra 38D and my wig with full make up and earings and my gg friend said my god you have turned into a beautifull *******!!!! i am so thrilled

[RachelDenise]

Way to go Dawn! I'm so happy that you are loving your life! Obviously some here worry about terminology. Stick with us, we still support you!

[Kate Simmons]

Wow, that sounds nice Hon. I'm so happy for you. Ericka Kay

[sandra-leigh]

Ain't nothing wrong with porn if that's what blows up your skirt, but the term she-male is not a term I would use to describe myself, or any other CDer as it is highly connected to porn.

I would certainly never use "she-male" for myself either.

It might be a slight regional semantic difference, but my understanding of the term is that it does not specifically have to do with porn; though there is, to my understanding, a strong connection to the sex trade. The most direct connotation that I am aware of, is of males who make themselves look very like women even to close inspection, by surgery if necessary (with breast implants seemingly common), primarily for sexual interactions with men; with some of their partners fully aware ahead of time, and others caught by surprise. "she-male" does not imply "transgender", in that "she-male" would not involve SRS, and does not imply that the person feels feminine at all, and they might only live as female as easier than explaining the appearance (or as part of their sexual spiders' web) . HRT is probably not involved either, as HRT often leads to impotence and for "she-males", male potency can be very important.

A summary, probably inaccurate, would be that it's closer to "permanent drag" -- more like an act or performance, with gay sex as a strong component.


A fair number of people here have said, approximately, that they feel like they are lesbians caught in the wrong body -- that is, that they are decidedly attracted to women and would like to be a woman themselves. Even those here who have said that when dressed they feel attracted to men, or wonder if they are gay or bisexual, are expressing something fairly different than "she-male" -- which would be closer to becoming female specifically in order to attract men sexually.

[Dawntv]

Girls I did not mean to offend anyone by using those words i was so thrilled to have taken my body and mind to the brink of being feminine that i was just awestruck by what she and i saw looking back at us in the mirror. Picture me at 6'1" in 4" hi heels with thigh high stockings and a freshly shaved everything, a new tan line from my thongs, full blown makeup and long blonde wig i was a women with a large "problem" so i am truly sorry if this offended anyone but it was a very spritual and sexual moment thanks have a great and very sexy day. Dawntv

[sara-michele]

My wife asked me wot i was doing when i started to shave in the girlie places and luckily i got away with it by telling her that i had a bad irritation of the skin and the doc told me too. wow i was so pleased with myself, and tricia even helped me.

[Kaitlyn Michele]

good for you dawn!!!

very happy for you!!

have fun

shaving the chest makes a huge difference!!!!

:happy:

[GINA-CD]

Sounds like a great experience for you.

Regarding She-males and chicks with dicks... that tells me which chatrooms you visit girls....

[simonep]

Dawn,

Well done, good luck and enjoy yourself.

Love Simone

[Robin Leigh]

Girls I did not mean to offend anyone by using those words
I don't think anyone was offended Dawn, but some of us just felt a little embarrassed for you & your wonderful friend, that's all. :hugs:


I was so thrilled to have taken my body and mind to the brink of being feminine that i was just awestruck by what she and i saw looking back at us in the mirror.

The thrill of looking like a tall woman with heels, stockings, makeup & long blond hair??? I don't know what you're talking about. :D

Robin