Is it just me

[Terry]

HI'

This may not be the right forum for this question , I,am trying to understand some of my newer feeling ,or my older feeling just coming back , I can now dress almost at any time, but it seem to take something or someone to turn it on, Like to know If anyone else has gone or is going thru something like this. Also please forgive me if I seem to be asking the wrong questions ,At this point in my life it would be nice to have everything just fall into place ,and without trying to always hide my feeling , I, been alone for over 7 years after the lost of my wife { THE BIG C } . But the main thing is ,I have many good freinds who have no idea of my other side ,but this hard on me as I like to be open to all but, that can be as we all must know that real good freinds hard to find . So that why I,am here looking to find a littel understanding from others like myself,

Note '' My wording maybe some what hard for some to understand but for me this my way to find my direction and reasoning for being here.I have love in my heart that need to come out.....

MY LOVE TO ALL

Terry xxxxxx

[Nikki Dee]

Hi. Terry...It's sometimes a difficult road we all travel love... very often with so many conflicting emotions,expectations and desires...Have you thought of finding...and joining..a local support group..?..It does help such a lot being able to be in the company of like minded people.. I have been involved with such a group for some years now and it is wonderful to have..and give.. that support.
Love Nikki. x

[Kaitlyn Michele]

Terry

its not just you...i think we are all looking for connections, for "true" feelings that we can share...

the struggle is that when you like to crossdress, it feels like its a "part of you" as opposed to just something you do...

on these forums we all are like you in that one particular way...we have differences but deep down we are very similar...its great to just type something out and get responses from people who care and people who understand...ie "connections"....

just hang in and keep posting and you'll get alot of feedback and feel much less alone..i know i did


michele

[Stephanie Kay]

Hi, Terry,

Good to hear from you. I know what you mean. I have been looking for a good friend or two to share my feelings about this wild and wonderful desire I have to dress and act like a woman. (BTW, I'm 59 yo, married to a supportive wife who doesn't want to participate with Stephanie). It's not particularly easy because there are as many reasons that men crossdress as there are men!! And they have a lot of different feelings about it. As Nikki Dee suggested, try to find a support group and start making contact. Also, pay attention here at this forum and you may find a friend or two who share your feelings and thoughts, needs, and desires. First of all, love yourself. You are worth it!! You have a really nice look! Very appropriate and dignified!! I think you are very pretty. Good luck, honey. Take care and be well and be brave!

[Karren H]

Terry, mine isn't related to other people at all... More of an internal thing and more related to the lenght of tie since my last dressing event.. Since I can't dress every day.... Would be nice to but I think if I was able to then my patterns would definitallly change.

Love Karren

[pinkshelly]

'bout the only trigger I need is, is it my day off and is the daughter going to be here. After that the skys the limit.
Huggs, Shelly.

[JoAnnDallas]

Welcome to the forum......I know you will find some answers here and make many friends along the way. I am still in the closet as far as my wife and family. I do get a chance to dress a little a couple or so times a week, but only for about an hour. It is enough for me. Feel free to rant, post question no matter how dumb they sound or if the subject was brought up only last week. BTW nice avatar.

JoAnn

[Terry]

Thank You Very Must I ,am Starting To See How The System Works


Love

Terry

[Tina]

Terry, no it is not you. We all have different feelings about this and its ups
and downs. I would hope you can find contentment in who you are especially
at this time of your life. There are no set rules to follow so just try to do
whatever makes you happy. After all, you don't have to answer to anyone
except yourself.

Hope this helps.

Tina