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Sienna Skye
10-12-2006, 05:19 PM
Hello, My wife of over 20 years discovered my crossdressing desires shortly after we were married (yes, I regret not telling her before we were married)
when she found some things I had left out by mistake. We got through those tough times, but she has never been accepting of my dressing. We
haven't talked about it since that time. I think she believes that I don't dress anymore, but I do whenever I get the chance. This is usually when I have a business trip (a few times a year), or when she is out of town with the kids (teenagers) visiting her family


Lately I have been wanting to dress much more often. I would really like to hear from anyone who has any suggestions on how I should proceed in bringing up my crossdressing after all these years. Looking back, I wish I would've handled this different from the start.

I feel now, as it was back then, her biggest concern would be a friend, neighbor, or family member finding out. I am concerned about that too.

Any thoughts or advise would be greatly appreciated! Thanks, Sienna

DonnaT
10-12-2006, 05:32 PM
http://crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?p=576838#post576838

EricaCD
10-12-2006, 06:16 PM
I had to come "back" out:

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=25623

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=25990

Dragster
10-13-2006, 07:48 PM
Sienna, I'm in a similar position with my wife, and she really doesn't want to know. She says she's disgusted by the thought of me wanting to wear any women's clothing, but can't/won't explain what she find's disgusting about it. It doesn't make for easy discussion, but we are still talking, and it's always me who brings the subject up! Surprise, surprise! She doesn't even want to ask any questions! If the boot was on the other foot, I'd want to know everything, and I'd be asking millions of questions. But then, deep down, I'm still predominently male.

So I can't help you, except to say "Good Luck", and keep trying.
Tony