Fantasy Male?

[MelanieBunny]

Hi everyone, somethings been preying on my mind for some time and I thought I'd get some "feedback" if you would be so kind, as to what's bothering me and whether anyone else has the same thoughts.
I'm not gay and have no interest in men but when I'm dressed and feeling ultra femme, my mind wanders as to (in a fantasy world) what sort of man would I be attracted to. Now here's the funny thing. I imagine a man who is very tall and muscular, has a shaven head and numerous tattoos, a bit "rough" you might say. The sort of man I have no regard for when in male mode. Does anyone find that slightly strange? I would appreciate any comments or opinion, maybe it's just me who thinks like that, who knows?

Melanie.

[Karren H]

Yeah....that's strange....well to me it is becausse when dressed I still am deeply attracted to females......well dressed females....ok maybe not as well dressed as I am, but....... hehe

Love Karren

[Carroll]

Like Karren, I am all about women, However what you are feeling is fairly common among quite a few cross dressers. It does not mean you are gay, just totally immersed in the role of a women. I am sure that others that have those feelings will be posting here. Believe me, you are not alone in your feelings

Carroll

[Kate Simmons]

I don't think it's strange Hon. I just want to say this. Despite your image of a "fantasy guy", guys are guys:rolleyes: . They are not going to change any time soon, be they straight, Bi or gay. If you don't know what I mean, ask any woman. Kind of a "necessary evil" really. The nice part about guys like us is that we have a whole other perspective on things that "normal" guys don't have. I wouldn't trade that for being a "normal" guy for damn sure.:happy: Ericka/Rich

[Angela Burke]

I don't think it's strange at all.
Your indulging in fantasy.
There are no rules.
That's what fantasy is all about.

[Nikki Dee]

Thought that was quite normal...it is for me.!!!
Nikki. x

[Penny]

Hey it's ok to fantasize. Fantasies only become a problem when one cannot
distinquish them from reality. Otherwise, they a healty escape from life with all of it's commitments and preasures. I have fantasies about winning the lottory but realize that buying loto tickets in large numbers can't be good for my economics.

[Sky]

I imagine a man who is very tall and muscular, has a shaven head and numerous tattoos, a bit "rough" you might say. The sort of man I have no regard for when in male mode. Does anyone find that slightly strange? I would appreciate any comments or opinion, maybe it's just me who thinks like that, who knows?

I'm sure there are more with a taste like yours... but not me, thanks. Give me tall (that I agree with), classy, lean, educated men. Truckers are not my type.

[alysonatl]

Though hetero, I've often imagined what it must be like to be the "girl" on a date. From the primping and dressing, to being picked up by my guy, to our date and how I would act on it. I would like my guy to be well dressed, in a tuxedo or uniform, To be tall and muscular, and have a bit of distinguished gray at the temples. And to be a gentleman and open doors, etc. In other words a mature, exy gentleman who knows how to treat a woman like the lady she is and feels proud to be her guy.

[Jillian310]

Oh Yeh! I really like being with guys when en femme, don't care much for male compnionship when en drab. The best part is when they pick up the check at restaurants and bars! lol

[crossing-the-rain]

Melanie, You are not alone, never had any feeling on man until recently ,I dream of a big tall man who's holding me and walk along the beach and we are kissing under the tree.Now,every time when I dress up ,that man show up again and I feel like I need a man who loves me very much.This feeling never in my mind until last two months.
Rain

[christineR]

If I'm not dressed I have absolutely no intrest in being with or seeing any man in a sexual content. However once I was out dressed that seemed like a natural progression of the whole feeling of getting dressed.Having a man kissing me and feeling me and especially sex if I was pretty sure he still thought I was female was the height of erotica, that I had fooled someone made me feel like a real whole woman, What else could I do to enhance my image.

[Sexy_Jennifer]

I agree with Nylon Gurl further up the page... I don't ever fantasize about being with men, but I do increasingly find myself wondering what it would be like to have a 'translesbian' experience with another crossdresser. Maybe one day!

Jenni
xx

[AprilMae]

Never fanatasized about any type of man per se, but have thought about what it might be like to experince things from a women's point of view. Also, the thought of being with another cd, especially in a dom/sub situation, has crossed my mind from time to time.

[tall_brianna]

Technically you are not homosexual until there is a sexual experience. I've see the term bi-curious tossed around. I wouldn't worry about the labels, just let yourself go.

And yeah, the more I give in to the dark side, the more attracted to males I become - although, quite frankly, like many GGs have told me, the vast majority of men are just gross.

-b

[tall sam]

It is amazing how different we all are although we all have something in common!! As for me, I have no interrest in other men when not dressed, but when all dressed up I would love to experience what it is like to be "picked up". I fantasize about it and have more recently considered how and where I can go man-hunting (a weekend in Paris??). Unfortunately being taller than most men I would probably have to use an escort and pay for the service as there is little hope I am going to fool someone into thinking I was a real woman.

[Sweet Jane]

I've never had an interest in men...dressed or not, it is women that I fantasise about. In fact it's one particular woman that I fantasise about. Still we are all different, and I'm sure you are no more, or less, odd than me...keep fantasising..

[Joanna Renee']

There is nothing strange at all. When I'm around when not dressed nothing. But since i'm slowly coming out when I dress up I look at men in a different way and wonder what would i do. I would want a man in good shape who knows how to treat a lady and I wonder what it would be like to be her. Being held and caressed and what else may happen. So let your feelings be your guide.Love Joanna Renee':hugs:

[kerrianna]

I'm not gay and have no interest in men but when I'm dressed and feeling ultra femme, my mind wanders as to (in a fantasy world) what sort of man would I be attracted to. Now here's the funny thing. I imagine a man who is very tall and muscular, has a shaven head and numerous tattoos, a bit "rough" you might say. The sort of man I have no regard for when in male mode. Does anyone find that slightly strange? I would appreciate any comments or opinion, maybe it's just me who thinks like that, who knows?

Melanie.

No, I do this too. I think it's because my only attraction to males IS to feel more like a girl, and I tend to find macho men make me feel more feminine. I guess it's cuz they represent a greater distance from my own male side.
I also think it makes me feel more like a '****', which is one of the attractions for me.

And a macho guy is a lot harder to imagine wearing p*nties under his clothes :heehee: After all, we know lots of guys out there are doing this, so if you pick a guy that looks like he'd rather fall on his sword than, gasp!, turn into a girl, then YOU can be the girl!:p

[Scotty]

And yeah, the more I give in to the dark side, the more attracted to males I become - although, quite frankly, like many GGs have told me, the vast majority of men are just gross.

-b

Give me a patrick swayze type body - and Bi-curious is a good term.

While I've never BEEN with a man, I could see it happening if I met a guy that was attractive, courteous, all that stuff that GG's want. Sure would not be a one night thing and would not be an immediate thing either...

Hey most of THEM are married too. Funny how that works.....

And yep, I'm still attracted to GG's as much or more. But a catholic girl with straight values would be out of the question!!

[x_girl]

I think it's fairly common to have thoughts along those lines. Maybe it is not really the men you are attracted to, but the thought of how feminine you would feel if a guy desired to you.

[GG Vanya]

warning! sarcasm ahead! :D

With all the vanity that oozes from so many posts here, I figured most of you'd be your *own* fantasy male????? :tongueout After all, some of you say you are your own fantasy girlfriend, no? :devil:

[ReginaK]

warning! sarcasm ahead! :D

With all the vanity that oozes from so many posts here, I figured most of you'd be your *own* fantasy male????? :tongueout After all, some of you say you are your own fantasy girlfriend, no? :devil:


I was about to say my fantasy man lives in the mirror and I know him very well. :tongueout

[Jillian310]

I disagree with Tall Brianna's conclusion that unless/until an 'act' is completed, one is not a homosexual, or presumably, a bisexual. I believe that if it is in your mind, you are! I have contact with a youth group who have 'come out' as homosexuals, gay and lesbian, and very few have engaged in and/or completed an 'act'.

[Kate Simmons]

warning! sarcasm ahead! :D

With all the vanity that oozes from so many posts here, I figured most of you'd be your *own* fantasy male????? :tongueout After all, some of you say you are your own fantasy girlfriend, no? :devil:Good point Vanya. I enjoy your sarcasm anyway. I think the "vanity" bit is somewhat over rated though. We all "talk" a good fight here but how is it really up close and personal? When it comes right down to it, we are who we are, like it or not, no amount of "hype" or obsessing about what we look like (or want to look like) will change that. I, personally, don't worry about it and try to enjoy being myself.:happy: Ericka/Rich

[CaptLex]

Here's my fantasy male . . . and he's in touch with his feminine side . . .

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(Johnny Depp in Ed Wood)

[Nike]

My fantasy man is a Wo-man.

For a feminine intimate encounter, I believe in the NASCAR approach.... "Snap On Tools"! :devil:

I adore femininity, plain and simple. A woman, my Bride specifically, breathes life into my fantasies and they have become my reality. I experience my life completely, in masculine and in feminine modes and it is good.

Hell, when enfemme I've never thought how a man would fit into the picture, but I have thought a time or two.... "I'd do me" :heehee:

[SherriePall]

GGVanya -- How did you know? I'm the only one perfect enough to be with me.

[janie2261]

I don't think your feelings or fantasies are strange. I certainly have them, but not for the guy with the shaved head and tatoos. But that's your thing, and that's just fine.

Don't you think it is an unnecessary burden to evaluate yourself in terms of all these labels? The list goes on and on...hetero, gay, bi, curious, strange, normal, abnormal, whatever...

Just enjoy your dressing experience without trying to measure how normal or abnormal you are -- even among other CDs. Maybe some day we will live in a world where everyone can just act naturally, without be labeled.

The problem with pigeon-holes is that they don't allow for shades of gray -- and there many, many shades of gray in gender identify and sexual orientation. That's life. Don't worry about it.

[Scotty]

My fantasy man is a Wo-man.

For a feminine intimate encounter, I believe in the NASCAR approach.... "Snap On Tools"! :devil:


:D :D :D

I too adore femininity above and beyond - no doubt!!


But if I *WERE* to be with a guy, never happened, it would be someone with a patrick swayze body, but the problem is I see a mans face and I have no interest......

The Snap on, love it!!

[suzy]

Can't say what's normal or weird......only what I'm about... to each his/her own...

I have no desire, dressed or not, to be with a man....not even in a fantasy... I am drawn to GG's and that's me....:2c:

[GG Vanya]

My fantasy man is a Wo-man.

For a feminine intimate encounter, I believe in the NASCAR approach.... "Snap On Tools"! :devil:

I adore femininity, plain and simple. A woman, my Bride specifically, breathes life into my fantasies and they have become my reality. I experience my life completely, in masculine and in feminine modes and it is good.

Hell, when enfemme I've never thought how a man would fit into the picture, but I have thought a time or two.... "I'd do me" :heehee:


*This* is my beloved, in whom I am well pleased. :love: :<3:

Oogoodles darlin...oogoodles!

[Tina Dixon]

Me dress to the max with Vanya and chocolate syrup:D

[kerrianna]

With all the vanity that oozes from so many posts here, I figured most of you'd be your *own* fantasy male????? :tongueout After all, some of you say you are your own fantasy girlfriend, no? :devil:

Not really. I'd prefer the strong silent type and I just can't shut up! :chatterbox:

I thought once about Kerrianna sitting in my lap and me caressing me and then it just got too weird....:bonk: :silly:

[Brianne_bc]

Yeah....that's strange....well to me it is becausse when dressed I still am deeply attracted to females......well dressed females....ok maybe not as well dressed as I am, but....... hehe

Love Karren


Here here Karren... for well dressed females.... Ran into a female friend today down town, who knows about Bree and man if i could take her shoping and feminize her... Some times I wonder.. do they (ggs) not know what they are missing?

[Billijo49504]

Hi, I'm special. I'm only intereted in one lady. The same one that has put up with me for almost 22 yrs. I admit I'm a real pain in the a$$, so she must be a special lady, to put up with me...BJ

[suzy]

:eek: Nope,.....never had the desire.... I worship women too much, I think!!

[JulieCDorlando]

hello,
The question being of who my fantasy man would be...... I have often dreamed that my guy would be a FTM, maybe around my age or a bit older, hopefully close to the same height as I am, one who is educated, with a great sense of humor, one who is sensitive, caring, romantic, one who doesn't mind being the man for most if not all the time, as the circumstances permit. Yeah, thats my mystery dream guy right there.:hugs:

[Angela E.]

Hi,heres my:2c: I often fantasize about being with a man,but I really have no desire to turn it into a reality.I wouldn`t worry myself about it too much.It`s just a fantasy unless you want to make it more. Just let go and enjoy it.:hugs: Angela E.