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Just Plain Kay
10-27-2006, 07:35 AM
I'm transgendered but find that a maintenance dosage of estrogen keeps me from needing to step out of the male persona. I haven't even crossdressed in about six years. I'm 65 and married.

My wife, who's very supportive, has brought up the possiblity of us attending the 2007 Esprit Gala. She's always thought I really want to be farther into the female role than I am, but I feel no pressure to change my life as long as the hormone has it under control.

What I've read about Esprit leads me to believe that it's an intensely emotional experience. I know I would love the time I spent there, but I'm afraid that once the genie's out of the bottle it wouldn't go back in. If my gender dysphoria's not disrupting my life, why tempt fate?

I'd appreciate some perspective from anyone who's attended one of the Esprit Galas.

marie rose
10-27-2006, 09:46 AM
Kay, I'm about the same age as you and I don't think I would tempt fate. About 2 years ago my "geni" got out of the bottle and even though I have tried and tried I can't get her back in. AT this stage of my life I don't want to start down the road of SRS but sometimes I think I don't have any other option.

I say, if your geni is dormant let her keep sleeping.

cindianna_jones
10-27-2006, 05:49 PM
If you are okay with keeping the genie in... they by all means, don't let her out! She's not a very nice genie... she grants no wishes and she makes you pay for everything!

Cindi