ubokvt
10-30-2006, 09:16 AM
My SO is not very computer literate so I'm shareing some of her thought and hoping for some coments
1. I just went for my first make over, by having her get one at the same time She commented that doing it togather changed the whole experience for her. She felt included in what was a fun playful experience rather than something just about my dressing. I doing and participating in mine she better understood me and what I was feeling. Inclusion made it a positive and understandable experience rather than me just comeing home and telling her about it.
2. We also talked about my dressing and she shared something I'd like some comments on. In the begining, my dressing was hard on her because in some way she saw me, and hence my dress as an extension of who she was. Because we had be in a long term relationship she had quite naturaly come to see me and who I was as an extersion of who she was. (only thought men and companies saw wives this way) When she could see us as sepperate, that my dressing was mine and she had no ownership or resposiblity for it, it became much easier for her to work with it.
1. I just went for my first make over, by having her get one at the same time She commented that doing it togather changed the whole experience for her. She felt included in what was a fun playful experience rather than something just about my dressing. I doing and participating in mine she better understood me and what I was feeling. Inclusion made it a positive and understandable experience rather than me just comeing home and telling her about it.
2. We also talked about my dressing and she shared something I'd like some comments on. In the begining, my dressing was hard on her because in some way she saw me, and hence my dress as an extension of who she was. Because we had be in a long term relationship she had quite naturaly come to see me and who I was as an extersion of who she was. (only thought men and companies saw wives this way) When she could see us as sepperate, that my dressing was mine and she had no ownership or resposiblity for it, it became much easier for her to work with it.