Paula UK
01-07-2005, 05:22 PM
it was fantastic. a copy of an email i rec'd from her the day after i told her EVERYTHING, is below, shed never met Paula at this point ........ what a lucky girl i am to have such an understanding partner. :D
"Hello You
I thought I would write to you rather than Phil, cos this is girlie stuff, and lets be honest men dont "do" shopping like we girls do and can !!
I had a really good shopping trip today and took the opportunity to see what things were available. I about passed out in New Look, they have only gone and produced the kind of shoe in colours that I was wearing in the 80's. It's not good when you get to an age where you can say "I did that colour the first time round" Anyway, you wouldn't believe what I actually got for myself from there in the sale; some short, moderately heeled, very pointed toed ****ty red ankle boots in PVC. I had a vision of me in latex you see, so I had to have them. I got them in an 8 so you can borrow them if you want to.
I then went into Next, well, I walked straight back out and the same with Evans - yuk ! To be honest both shops knew how to make a girl feel bad, Next cos everything looked so skimpy and Evans cos everything looked so huge !! You could have won a shot putting contest in the bra's, I know women are that big, but Evans dont go out their way to make women look feminine, and people wonder why bigger girls can look butch - they dont have a choice !
Anyway, my best spends were in M&S for Lacy Stockings, though I didn't know your size so I just got large, cos you are taller than me and they measure stockings in height. I then found a bra and brief set in ****ty, tarty red in New Look. I had to get a 38c or b (can't remember), BUT, (and this is the best bit and why you need me to take you shopping- cos I know !!!), the bra itself is padded and formed, so rather than it collapsing and making you feel awful, it will actually stick out and look bloody gorgeous specially if you borrow one of my see-through tops to wear, and the knickers are tight lace cami-knickers, if they dont fit there are no bigger sizes, but the only thing that could be tight is the bra and you can get bra extenders, I have had them in the past that clip on and make the bra that little bit bigger with more room to breath (lol). I couldn't find you a matching suspender belt, many places dont do them now, but I did get you one in BHS which is black lace, and with the red stuff will look fantastic, and of course being black you can just about wear it with anything dark coloured too. Then I went to Boots and got you some bath products so when you get up here next week you can relax and be pampered. I got myself some more of the Lavender slippy slidy stuff from M&S and also a new flavour in Peony which smells gorjus. I found a few silly christmas things too for people whilst in BHS, and I also got myself a lovely rose coloured satin knickers and cami-top - the same colour almost as the darker colour on Sians website. All in all I had a really fun time, and hunted out loads of things to show you that I am sure you will like. M&S are crap for underwear, I had a good scout round and to be honest I wouldn't pay for any of it. New Look was great, but they only had sizes that were a max of 12/14 in knickers, so you may have to stretch em a bit, but they should be ok. Once they have been washed they will give quite a bit. But M&S did have some lovely costume jewellery. I found a lovely sparkly choker, clip earings and bracelet which came to about £35 all in, the reason I looked at chokers was to hide your Adams Apple - TA DAH, I think of these things, then it will make you feel better inside when you look in the mirror !!!!
Anyway, that's it for now. I know Phil doesn't like suprises, but I wasn't sure whether you did, so rather than not tell you, at least now you know. Can't wait to meet you and learn all about you and your persona and what you like. Going to be great fun all this as I have tons to show you when you want to go shopping. I am actually looking forward to pampering you too, well both of you when you get up here and having a really lovely first evening together. it mustn't be a half hearted thing it must be special. If Paula is coming out she should do it in style.!
Let me know what you think
Hugs and kisses me xxx"
sorry its so long but ive wanted to share it with other people for a long time, i find it quite touching!!
paula xx
"Hello You
I thought I would write to you rather than Phil, cos this is girlie stuff, and lets be honest men dont "do" shopping like we girls do and can !!
I had a really good shopping trip today and took the opportunity to see what things were available. I about passed out in New Look, they have only gone and produced the kind of shoe in colours that I was wearing in the 80's. It's not good when you get to an age where you can say "I did that colour the first time round" Anyway, you wouldn't believe what I actually got for myself from there in the sale; some short, moderately heeled, very pointed toed ****ty red ankle boots in PVC. I had a vision of me in latex you see, so I had to have them. I got them in an 8 so you can borrow them if you want to.
I then went into Next, well, I walked straight back out and the same with Evans - yuk ! To be honest both shops knew how to make a girl feel bad, Next cos everything looked so skimpy and Evans cos everything looked so huge !! You could have won a shot putting contest in the bra's, I know women are that big, but Evans dont go out their way to make women look feminine, and people wonder why bigger girls can look butch - they dont have a choice !
Anyway, my best spends were in M&S for Lacy Stockings, though I didn't know your size so I just got large, cos you are taller than me and they measure stockings in height. I then found a bra and brief set in ****ty, tarty red in New Look. I had to get a 38c or b (can't remember), BUT, (and this is the best bit and why you need me to take you shopping- cos I know !!!), the bra itself is padded and formed, so rather than it collapsing and making you feel awful, it will actually stick out and look bloody gorgeous specially if you borrow one of my see-through tops to wear, and the knickers are tight lace cami-knickers, if they dont fit there are no bigger sizes, but the only thing that could be tight is the bra and you can get bra extenders, I have had them in the past that clip on and make the bra that little bit bigger with more room to breath (lol). I couldn't find you a matching suspender belt, many places dont do them now, but I did get you one in BHS which is black lace, and with the red stuff will look fantastic, and of course being black you can just about wear it with anything dark coloured too. Then I went to Boots and got you some bath products so when you get up here next week you can relax and be pampered. I got myself some more of the Lavender slippy slidy stuff from M&S and also a new flavour in Peony which smells gorjus. I found a few silly christmas things too for people whilst in BHS, and I also got myself a lovely rose coloured satin knickers and cami-top - the same colour almost as the darker colour on Sians website. All in all I had a really fun time, and hunted out loads of things to show you that I am sure you will like. M&S are crap for underwear, I had a good scout round and to be honest I wouldn't pay for any of it. New Look was great, but they only had sizes that were a max of 12/14 in knickers, so you may have to stretch em a bit, but they should be ok. Once they have been washed they will give quite a bit. But M&S did have some lovely costume jewellery. I found a lovely sparkly choker, clip earings and bracelet which came to about £35 all in, the reason I looked at chokers was to hide your Adams Apple - TA DAH, I think of these things, then it will make you feel better inside when you look in the mirror !!!!
Anyway, that's it for now. I know Phil doesn't like suprises, but I wasn't sure whether you did, so rather than not tell you, at least now you know. Can't wait to meet you and learn all about you and your persona and what you like. Going to be great fun all this as I have tons to show you when you want to go shopping. I am actually looking forward to pampering you too, well both of you when you get up here and having a really lovely first evening together. it mustn't be a half hearted thing it must be special. If Paula is coming out she should do it in style.!
Let me know what you think
Hugs and kisses me xxx"
sorry its so long but ive wanted to share it with other people for a long time, i find it quite touching!!
paula xx