i did it

[donna anne]

with the help of all you girls i got the courage to tell my wife last night. it was the best thing i ever did, next to dressing. she doesnt understand everything but is willing to work with me, heck she even painted my toenails while we were talking. i just want to thank all you girls and this site for the support to finally come out.

[Paula UK]

Fantastic, Donna!!

Im so pleased for you, it sounds like your wife took it ok. This, if handled correctly, should be the beginning to an whole new part of your life together. Take it easy and enjoy....When is she taking you shopping then ? :p

paula xx


with the help of all you girls i got the courage to tell my wife last night. it was the best thing i ever did, next to dressing. she doesnt understand everything but is willing to work with me, heck she even painted my toenails while we were talking. i just want to thank all you girls and this site for the support to finally come out.

[ChristineRenee]

Congrats Donna. If she was painting your toenails it sounds like she is going to be pretty understanding about it. I have never regretted telling my wife before we ever even got engaged. Though I would like her to be even more supportive, I know that had I kept it a secret from her and she had discovered it on her own, our marriage would have never recovered. You did the right thing and things should get a lot easier for you from here on out. You have a golden opportunity now to really bond with her like best girlfriends do which I think is the ultimate relationship a CD can hope for with his wife.

Enjoy your new found liberation Donna and congrats again!:)


Love,
Christine Renee

[Tristen Cox]

with the help of all you girls i got the courage to tell my wife last night. it was the best thing i ever did, next to dressing. she doesnt understand everything but is willing to work with me, heck she even painted my toenails while we were talking. i just want to thank all you girls and this site for the support to finally come out.

Thats great Donna, next she could be doing your make up. It's always nice to have someone help. I'm so happy for you. Nice going! :)

Love
Tristen

[Paula UK]

Ah yes, i remember that day Tristen........The most exhilerating day of my life. First i was papmered with a nice hot bath and my GF used the bath products that shed baught for me previously, on me. she did the lot for me, shaved my legs, under my arms and my chest and arms, it was fantastic!!! She then dried me down and moisturised me all over, by this time you can imagine how i was feeling (time for a cold shower i think). anyway she lead me from the bathroom back to the bedroom where shed already laid out wjhat she wanted me to wear, my eyes popped out, shed baught the lot for me, id never seen any of it before. stockings, nickers, bra, suspenders and the most gorgeous calf length lacey dress with flowing sleeves and hem....its truley gorgeous. anyway, she dressed me and then applied my make-up for me, to top it all shed also baught me a new wig, a nice blonde one, shoukder length and feathered around the cheaks...i think it was called a "britney"... i looked fantastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hopefully donna, youve now got all this to look forward too!!! :D

paula
x

Thats great Donna, next she could be doing your make up. It's always nice to have someone help. I'm so happy for you. Nice going! :)

Love
Tristen

[Megan_Renee]

The best thing I ever read on the internet is that she will still want you to be a man for her. To me it seems almost silly because she loves to have Megan around to shop with, but she married a man and that's what she had wanted.

I'm glad that you told her!

I have really been able to work through some things with my wife because she has asked me questions that I never thought of.

She may find it helpful to stop by this forum to see some other girls and what we do.

Megan Renee
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[Trinity_cat]

Congrats Donna Anne, you are officially one of my heroines.

You lucky ...*>"@#$%^&<>?...(jealous as hell) :eek:

[DonnaT]

That's great Donna!

I can only recommend that you take it slow. Don't overwhelm her with your dressing up. Listen to her for clues that may indicate she is a little concerned.

[StephanieCD]

Congratulations on your bravery - sounds like it is going well :)

[jennilouise]

That great news. I managed to tell my girlfriend and she seamed to like the fact that i dress up and she told me that she was even turn on about it.

jenni louise

[Sweet Susan]

Great news! When do we get to see the pictures?

[KayleighTV_UK]

Just wanted to say congrats!!

Why do you girls have all the luck? seems everytime i tell someone about me thats close something bad happens..

Im jelous!!

Kay

[Ava Mouse]

Donna,

Congratulations!

My wife took it as a shock at first, too. Eventually, she wanted to see Ava, and I dressed conservatively, and it was no way near as bad as she thought. It's been 3+ years now, and she has "gotten used to the idea."

I've gone slowly and patiently. We've agreed on what the limits are, found out what she is and isn't comfortable. She's even worn some of my outfits out to church/dinner and has gotten compliments on them. :)

So, be patient. If you're not, she might reject it. If you're patient, it's a lot more fun both of you dressing up, comparing outfits, experimenting with makeup, etc. :)

-Ava

[Wendy me]

donna just greate i would want to tell my wife .........she is closed minded i just
can't helpe thinking just how freeing that must be for you

[Tamara Croft]

with the help of all you girls i got the courage to tell my wife last night. it was the best thing i ever did, next to dressing. she doesnt understand everything but is willing to work with me, heck she even painted my toenails while we were talking. i just want to thank all you girls and this site for the support to finally come out.

I always love to read the happy endings, your g/f has got the best of both worlds... she has a b/f and a g/f now :p

Enjoy your new relationship and savour every minute :)

Tamara x

[Donna Louise]

Donna

That is terrific news. You are lucky to have such a good woman. I know when I told mine she almost freaked. Of course I got the usual - are you gay questions. She tolerates it but painting your toenails. What a lucky girl you are. Mine gives me grief when I paint mine. I get - I don't know why you do that I never did.

Hugs
Donna Louise

[Tamara Croft]

Donna

That is terrific news. You are lucky to have such a good woman. I know when I told mine she almost freaked. Of course I got the usual - are you gay questions. She tolerates it but painting your toenails. What a lucky girl you are. Mine gives me grief when I paint mine. I get - I don't know why you do that I never did.

Hugs
Donna Louise

Ask her if she wants you to paint them for her :p I don't paint mine either, but if Tammy offered (which she don't :( ) then I would gladly let her paint them.

Tamara x