Kristen Marie
11-12-2006, 07:16 PM
I am so appreciative of the ideas and support I have received about how to begin sharing my love for crossdressing with my wife. You ladies have been awesome. Everyone has said, go slow, and I have. I wanted to share a baby step that turned into a huge step yesterday. I had been waiting for weeks for the best timing.
On Saturday morning I was helping my wife with the laundry and I moved the laundry basket from the basement to our second floor bedroom. She had sorted everything so my task was to simply bring up the basket. As I unloaded the basket on the bed, I noticed my guy underpants were stacked on top of her panties. As I placed them on the bed to put away, I purposely left one of her light purple panties under my stack. I decided not put any of the clothes away and just left them on the bed. Since I had to work, I left mid-morning.
Around noon, my wife left for a baby shower and to do some shopping. When I arrived home before her, all of her things had been put away and all of mine were still on the bed, including the purple panties in that same neat stack. When she arrived back from shopping and the shower later that evening, she modeled her new clothes for me upstairs. Ladies love doing that.
I used the excitement of the moment to ask her if she was trying to spice up our sex life. She looked at me curiously, so I walked to the bed and showed her the pile of my underpants and her one pair at the bottom. I asked her if she was giving me a pair of her panties to have. She was caught off guard and I acted a bit uncomfortable as well. But I told her I thought it was a nice idea and I was game if she was. I also told her I had been thinking about it all day since I saw it this morning and just thought it might be fun. We chatted a bit more but she took the undies back. I was dismayed, but we at least talked about it. A huge step for me.
But, that evening as we were getting into bed, she asked me to turn off the lights and when I did she handed me the purple panties. She said I'm not sure about this but she was willing to explore. We had one of our best nights ever and when I awoke in the morning I still had them on. It was absolutely wonderful and she enjoyed it. This is the first time ever.
I am not going to be pushing for any return performance at at this time, but I was so pleased when she mentioned how much she enjoyed it to me today. This is a major step after 33 years of marriage. I hope this gives encourgement to someone, because it opened up a door for me. Thanks ladies
On Saturday morning I was helping my wife with the laundry and I moved the laundry basket from the basement to our second floor bedroom. She had sorted everything so my task was to simply bring up the basket. As I unloaded the basket on the bed, I noticed my guy underpants were stacked on top of her panties. As I placed them on the bed to put away, I purposely left one of her light purple panties under my stack. I decided not put any of the clothes away and just left them on the bed. Since I had to work, I left mid-morning.
Around noon, my wife left for a baby shower and to do some shopping. When I arrived home before her, all of her things had been put away and all of mine were still on the bed, including the purple panties in that same neat stack. When she arrived back from shopping and the shower later that evening, she modeled her new clothes for me upstairs. Ladies love doing that.
I used the excitement of the moment to ask her if she was trying to spice up our sex life. She looked at me curiously, so I walked to the bed and showed her the pile of my underpants and her one pair at the bottom. I asked her if she was giving me a pair of her panties to have. She was caught off guard and I acted a bit uncomfortable as well. But I told her I thought it was a nice idea and I was game if she was. I also told her I had been thinking about it all day since I saw it this morning and just thought it might be fun. We chatted a bit more but she took the undies back. I was dismayed, but we at least talked about it. A huge step for me.
But, that evening as we were getting into bed, she asked me to turn off the lights and when I did she handed me the purple panties. She said I'm not sure about this but she was willing to explore. We had one of our best nights ever and when I awoke in the morning I still had them on. It was absolutely wonderful and she enjoyed it. This is the first time ever.
I am not going to be pushing for any return performance at at this time, but I was so pleased when she mentioned how much she enjoyed it to me today. This is a major step after 33 years of marriage. I hope this gives encourgement to someone, because it opened up a door for me. Thanks ladies