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Billiesmith
11-13-2006, 06:11 AM
Just thinking,(I know, not again) just how many of us that are here are str8-bi-gay? My self I am bi. Would like to dress for man or woman. I could only Love a woman. I just like sex with both.
Just asking. Thanks
Billie
xoxoxo

Kate Simmons
11-13-2006, 06:18 AM
Whenever I get asked if I am straight, bi or gay my answer is always:"Yes". When they ask what that means, I say all of the above and none of the above. I don't classify myself and my feelings according to other people's standards.:happy: Ericka/Rich

PatriciaCD
11-13-2006, 07:37 AM
I am bi. I love my fiance and I would never leave her, I also enjoy having sex with men, while dressed of course.

Karren H
11-13-2006, 07:59 AM
I think sexual orientation is highly over rated.......I'm non of the above!!! non_sexual.... A nun-in-training........ I do look good in Black and White!!!

Ok I like women...a lot!!! Maybe too much that I'm starting to look and dress like them!! hehe

Love Karren

suzy
11-13-2006, 08:02 AM
What Karren said..........:D That's me alright! Only, did I say that I am a straight arrow??? well, I am....:D

JulieFL
11-13-2006, 08:59 AM
I'm married to a fantastic woman and would like to keep her, so it doesn't matter in my case.
:2c:

nykita_teen_cd
11-13-2006, 09:06 AM
Bi. you will find that most cd's are hetro

Cindylynn
11-13-2006, 09:08 AM
If I understood the term correctly I am pansexual. I am potentialy sexually atracted to anyone. Bi, gay, straight, definantly not just one for me. As usual I want it all and then some more. (giggle)
I am currantly in a relationship with a wonderful understanding, supportive womman:happy:

Cindee

Emma England
11-13-2006, 09:12 AM
but if I am dressed as a woman, would that make me a lesbian?

Paula Thomas
11-13-2006, 10:15 AM
Cindee - pansexual

pan·sex·u·al
Pronunciation: "pan-'sek-sh(&-)w&l, -sh&l
Function: adjective
: exhibiting or implying many forms of sexual expression
- pan·sex·u·al·i·ty /"pan-"sek-sh&-'wa-l&-tE/ noun

I thought it meant a fetish for kitchen utensils. :heehee:

After your description ("I am potentialy sexually atracted to anyone. Bi, gay, straight, definantly not just one for me. As usual I want it all and then some more. (giggle)
I am currantly in a relationship with a wonderful understanding, supportive womman")

:iagree:

I guess I am also "pansexual" - thank you for the term.

Warbender
11-13-2006, 10:18 AM
I think sexual orientation is highly over rated.......I'm non of the above!!! non_sexual.... A nun-in-training........ I do look good in Black and White!!!

Ok I like women...a lot!!! Maybe too much that I'm starting to look and dress like them!! hehe

Love Karren

You, and I may be as you said. for some time now I have been a try-sexual.
(I'll keep an open mind, and try it. If i like. then I keep doing it)

tall_brianna
11-13-2006, 11:10 AM
I like to think of myself as an uber omnisexual. :0

susancheerleader
11-13-2006, 11:48 AM
Just thinking,(I know, not again) just how many of us that are here are str8-bi-gay? My self I am bi. Would like to dress for man or woman. I could only Love a woman. I just like sex with both.
Just asking. Thanks
Billie
xoxoxo

Strait.

BobbieCD1944
11-13-2006, 12:59 PM
I thought it meant a fetish for kitchen utensils. :heehee:


Spatulas...... :spank:

Considering some of the fantasies I have, I'm Bi. I've lived and behaved straight/het all of my life. ... hrrrmmm does that make me a bi-virgin? :angel:

Lisa K
11-13-2006, 01:06 PM
Strait

Laurie Ann
11-13-2006, 01:09 PM
Most definitely straight.

hotbobbie
11-13-2006, 02:13 PM
Bi with heavy tilt to men

Sexy_Jennifer
11-13-2006, 05:12 PM
Definitely straight... how intensely boring! lol. BUT I would love to have sex with a very convincing tgirl or a 'chick with a dick' to use a vulgar term...

JennaisahottieNC
11-13-2006, 05:22 PM
i havwe to agree with jen on this bc i am always going to love women and i will never ever have a bf but i like to have sex with botyh dressed only with men

jenna

annekathleen
11-13-2006, 05:33 PM
I used to be straight, whether dressed as a male or wearing female clothing.
I primarily "dressed" for sexual gratification, but enjoy wearing panties just about 24/7.
Now I admit that I have become bi. I still have a steady girlfriend, but she has no clue that I like to wear womens clothing, nor does she know that I like to engage in sexual activity with other men.
As far as being bi, I have played around while wearing mens clothing, but I have engaged in sexual activities with other men while I was wearing sexy panties, and have even worn a bra and breast enhancers while playing around.
I would love to be totally dressed as a woman, and have a man take me and have his way with me.

JennaisahottieNC
11-13-2006, 05:36 PM
i like ur fantasy bc i want to have that done to me one day!!!! thats HOT!!!

Jenna

joanne_mi
11-13-2006, 05:37 PM
Straight to a fault here.

Does anyone else find that being straight adds to the confusion of all this? Honestly, I probably would have transitioned if I had been interested in men. Not being interested in men was a huge part of me deciding not to go that route.

Maybe one day I'll find a woman that's okay with all of this. I'm not holding my breath though.

Aprilrain
11-13-2006, 05:54 PM
Is it ones real life or ones thought life that defines their sexual preferance? If it is their real life than I'm 99% Hetero (it does not matter who i sleep with i will never be straight thats just a biological fact:heehee: ) i have only had one homosexual experiance and though i remember doing it i was drunk so i dont remember what it was like. however if it is ones thought life than i,m 25% lesbian and 75% hetero woman. God thats confusing, or should i say thanks God for the confusion.:straightface:

Sweet Jane
11-13-2006, 05:55 PM
Hi

straight..no interest in men at all.

joanne....I feel quite like you. When I was a teenager, I was soooo confused that I thought it would be best for me to transition. Thankfully I came from a small town and there was no support network for someone like me to get ideas from, so it never happened. I would be miserable as a TS woman. And yes, I have always been as confused as hell, except when I'm fully dressed and made up....go figure... For some funny reason, I become quite accepting of me then and I suppose I'm at my happiest...I just like myself for a while, then once I undress, yeah I get embarrassed and confused again...it's my life cycle????

Sky
11-13-2006, 06:32 PM
I would love to be totally dressed as a woman, and have a man take me and have his way with me.

Just do it. (but you don't have to wear Nikes).

MJ
11-13-2006, 06:37 PM
well OK nobody know this but i am bi...well another one of my secrets out

Victoria Anne
11-13-2006, 06:40 PM
straight...I have never had an intrest in men I do however have an intense intrest in my wife who is supportive of me.

MJ
11-13-2006, 06:49 PM
Straight to a fault here.


Does anyone else find that being straight adds to the confusion of all this? Honestly, I probably would have transitioned if I had been interested in men. Not being interested in men was a huge part of me deciding not to go that route.

Maybe one day I'll find a woman that's okay with all of this. I'm not holding my breath though.

first of all i was total hetero for 20+ years but when i came out and started my hrt i found myself attracted to men so i get the best of both worlds

kayla_cd_va
11-13-2006, 06:50 PM
Definately Bi!!!!!!

sarah-smith
11-13-2006, 07:28 PM
Just thinking,(I know, not again) just how many of us that are here are str8-bi-gay? My self I am bi. Would like to dress for man or woman. I could only Love a woman. I just like sex with both.
Just asking. Thanks
Billie
xoxoxo
I'm the same as you on this one... Bi but could only love a woman. don't mind dressing either way for either sexes :happy:

JennyTVPerth
11-13-2006, 09:41 PM
Definitely bi from a feelings point of view - but only when I'm dressed, and thinking about another tv/cd. Haven't gone that far yet in real life, but exploring the possibility.

Scotty
11-13-2006, 09:49 PM
It's a loaded question!! :D

Well I find an interest in men, in a fantasy, but in real life I've never really met one I'd consider being with, so thus I am straight.....

I'd like to "Look" and see what the other side is like, from a female point of view.....

PaulaMea
11-14-2006, 01:21 PM
Wow - this is a difficult topic as far as I'm concerned. I remember in the movie Kinsey, the concept of gay/straight was looked as as more of a continuum than a either/or. They had a scaled system 1 to 5 or, maybe it was 1 to 10. 1 being totally 100% straight. I don't think this is a black or white issue, there's a lot of grey out there. My overt identity is straight. Living in San Francisco, I've had a great deal of opportunity to experiment with my sexuality. Just about any configuration is highly available. I know that dressed or not, I'm not "into" men. Men do not turn me on. Although, I have been with M2F transgendered people on a few occasions (before I was married). Also, I watch my fair share of tranny and lesbian porn (with my wife). When I am transformed and my wife and I are sexual it's a very lesbian-like experience for both of us (she identifies a s bisexual). She calls me her girlfriend and I am most often passive and she the aggressor. It's exactly the opposite when I'm not dressed-up. So, basically, I can't even begin to figure out where I am in the sexual identity grey-scale. For sanity's sake, I try not to deliberate too much on it. How about "sexual-kinky human"?

I hope I've not been to explicit for the board.

Peace all
Paula :D

AlysonCD
11-14-2006, 03:30 PM
I am bi. I love my fiance and I would never leave her, I also enjoy having sex with men, while dressed of course.

Same here

tall_brianna
11-14-2006, 04:25 PM
Wow - this is a difficult topic as far as I'm concerned. I remember in the movie Kinsey, the concept of gay/straight was looked as as more of a continuum than a either/or. They had a scaled system 1 to 5 or, maybe it was 1 to 10.
Paula :D

This has turned into an interesting thread. I thought I would be a repeat of the last one with everyone jumping in like Mr. Garrison screaming, "I'm not gay" but it's actually been really interesting.

So I like the scale thing, although it's hard to put a weight on actions and amounts to, "Does it make me gay if my hot girlfriend takes me with a strapon?" I like to think in terms of attraction. 80-90 percent of the people I see in passing that I find physically attractive are female. Like I've heard more than one GG say, "Most guys are just gross." But some of the "girls" here are looking cuter and cuter every day! :love:

-b

CaptLex
11-14-2006, 04:29 PM
Like I've heard more than one GG say, "Most guys are just gross."
I've never read that in any of the posts from the GGs - only from CDs. You're right about the thread being better than the last one. Makes me nuts (not hard to do, I know) when people just post to reassure everyone that they're straight and don't have anything else to contribute. :rolleyes:

cathie
11-14-2006, 04:34 PM
I love woman but have been with men as well. I prefer woman nothing poking me in the eye whe I go down under. I'm married now to my second wife and love her immensly. I was all over the place in my first marriage. Men, woman, in drag out of drag oh man what a sl*t. I was really deep when I had an affair with a woman who liked me to dress as a woman and we had threesomes with other guys but they knew I was a guy. Huh?!

These days I'm happy as a guy partially dressing as a woman in my spare time while always being with a woman. My wife is my soul mate. She's my best friend and my sexual partner. I migh be bi deep down but I think most guys are in life.

tall_brianna
11-14-2006, 04:40 PM
I've never read that in any of the posts from the GGs - only from CDs.

The GGs were both girlfriends at the time trying to describe what made me different from their other suitors. If they had only known the true depth of that difference :eek:

-b

JeanneF
11-14-2006, 04:51 PM
Heteroflexible. :)

I'm bi, but the vast majority of my relationships and random hookups have been female. As far as guys go, my interest tends to be towards gay(ish) guys vs. typical straight guys. I'm just not into the "grunt, grunt, beer, football" kind of guys. Tim Gunn from Project Runway or Hugh Grant are perfect examples of the kind of guys I find attractive.

I could see myself in a long term relationship with either sex, as long as he/she is hot. ;)

claudia
11-14-2006, 07:55 PM
I am bi.enjoy having sex with cd's and tg's .

Charolette time
11-15-2006, 01:45 PM
Just thinking,(I know, not again) just how many of us that are here are str8-bi-gay? My self I am bi. Would like to dress for man or woman. I could only Love a woman. I just like sex with both.
Just asking. Thanks
Billie
xoxoxo

Nice legs, I would like to dress for you too, and even try the other side ,Long time ago I did, then he had heart attack a couple months later and passed away, 48 too young, never got around to it again, he was a friend from child hood, I new he was gay, but he was still my friend, he new that I was cding and he was cool with it, Charolette

The Private Hat
11-15-2006, 04:02 PM
Sorry to be boring, but I'm hetero. Sometimes I wish I wasn't. It's frustrating to go out dressed just to find that the only people interested in me are the 1 or 2 gay men that don't think I'm a weirdo.

Kimkandy
11-15-2006, 04:55 PM
I'm str8 or hetro... maybe slightly curved... could be bi... attracted to women, but there have been times when I've thought that's a :love: nice looking woman and then realized it's a guy :eek: .

So I'm attracted to women :hugs: , but I'm flexible in my definition of attractive looking female :doll: .

Kim

Kelly,R
11-15-2006, 05:23 PM
I'm str8 no interest in men at all,LOVE women LOL so much i dress like one.But mabye a hot looking CD or TV hmmm yep could do that I guess,so mabye I'm Bi...hmmm food for thought???:hugs:

Chip
11-15-2006, 06:11 PM
I am pretty new here, just a supportive partner (gay) trying to figure out what to do to make my partner's fantasies come true. He has expressed a desire to dress in lingere, etc., during sex. This post seems as good place as any to ask this: For those of you who have done this, what is it about being dressed in woman's clothes that gets you going? Is it the dressing? the undressing? being seduced? I have tried on woman's undergarments as a teenager and do remember that sensual feeling, is that it? Sorry... I seem to ask a lot of complicated questions!

cdlucy82
11-15-2006, 07:16 PM
im bi. twice as much fun!!!:devil:

LaurenS.
11-15-2006, 10:06 PM
Str8...so far....
Lauren

Tee
11-15-2006, 10:09 PM
Straight. definitely. i do like to dress up and make love with my wife....
i was confused in the past about TS and TV/CD even up to a month ago.
after this forum, i realised who i truly am.

serinalynn
11-15-2006, 10:10 PM
I prefer only women

Dee Model
11-16-2006, 06:50 PM
im bi. twice as much fun!!!:devil:

I wish it was as simple as the above quote for me. I have never been with any type other than GG but have been fantasing about getting it on with another TV for as long as i can remember.

I've gotten pretty accomplished at quashing the "guilt" post "dressed" orgasm (having sex with myself, obviously). It has gotten to the point where i feel like the "punk" in that Dirty Harry flick where ole Clint asks him he's feeling lucky while pointing a potentially loaded gun in his face. In other words...I gots to know...

Thing is, I have tried to let a guy "do me" on two occasions in the past with disasterous results: I felt nothing and could not go through with it.

I feel thou, in my tortured soul, that it would be different with another CDer. She would have to be gentle with me...not necessarily physically, but definately emotionally.

Am so glad I found this forum to communicate this as I have told no one this much. Ever.

Love...

Dee -x- :doll:

Jena11
11-16-2006, 08:35 PM
Well, I have nothing againts anyone, My quote is that I do not care if someone is white, black, purple or gay or strait. I accept everyone. Me I onlly see myself as a woman and only like women so I am a lesibian.

Jenna

tanya3
11-16-2006, 09:42 PM
good queation my wife brought this up one night . why is it ok for girls to have ( sex ) and not guys ? we are very open by the way . i think if the situation was right i may have a bi sex , but with the worry of diseces (sp) we are happy just the way we are

suchacutie
11-16-2006, 11:56 PM
I'm a one-woman kinda guy, er girl, er..well, you know what I mean!

tina

Modesty Blaise
11-17-2006, 05:34 AM
Straight, although I realise, as I see more sucessful CDs/TGs who look utterly feminine, that sexuality in those terms is purely about physical appearance. Only the most homophobic would have a problem with a straight guy and a TS female (they have everything but a uterus and and X chromosome) so if some one looks like the sex you find attractive where do you draw the defintitions?
I'm in a longterm relationship with a gorgeous and wonderful GG though so it is all theory for me! :D

Jessicainme
11-17-2006, 11:14 AM
Curious...I would rather have sex with a cder or tg..I love woman, but I feel if I was to have sex with a man who does not dress then that would make me gay...Am I messed up thinking that way? I have never been with anyone, except my wife who does not know that I like to dress.

Janice Ashton
11-17-2006, 12:01 PM
Stay Open-minded it leaves the door open for all options and when all said and done "It's whatever fuels your rockets"

ShortSkirt
11-17-2006, 01:42 PM
Bi.

susiegrl19
11-17-2006, 03:12 PM
Confused!!!!! I have a fantasy about being with a man while dressed and experince the other side with him. So far it is only a fantasy. I am very happy with my wife and she is very supportive of me being a CD, but yet the other eats at me a lot. She doesn't know about the fantasy. I have never even talked about it till now.

Lucy_Pink
11-18-2006, 11:58 AM
When dressed as a woman act as a woman only give it up if he/she is hot :p

Angela E.
11-19-2006, 11:28 AM
Let`s see.......I`m emotionally attracted to women and other tvs.Sexually I`m attracted to whoever I`m attracted to.But most men are so GROSS:sick: that I`d rather keep that facet of my sexuality as fantasy.Besides,no real man could make love to me the way my fantasy lover does:heehee: :blushing: I guess all this makes me bi.:bye: Angela E.:yrtw: :GE:

Raychel
11-19-2006, 11:33 AM
As straight as one could get. It is only one woman for me. My lovely wife. :hugs:

LORIE H
11-19-2006, 04:16 PM
Bi very Bi. I love being a girl and doing all the girl things men love. There is nothing that feels so good as a nice man making love to you. I just love it,love it,love it,:love: :hugs:

Han
11-19-2006, 04:19 PM
Straight as a Roman Road. Which is preety straight.

rickwi25
11-20-2006, 04:54 PM
Dressed or not, I only desire women. I think that is part of the fantasy for me.

Sierra Evon
11-20-2006, 05:15 PM
I like both sexes , but however I like guys alot more and would , like to have a BF, for once , I want to be treated like a girl , and be protected like a girl , those thing are very imprortant to me .

trannie T
11-20-2006, 06:18 PM
I have fantasies about being with a man, but I've only been with women and small farm animals.

:devil: :p :bonk:

Amy Hepker
11-20-2006, 06:20 PM
I have and only want to have sex with a GGFemale, My GLady only!

Vicky_Scot
11-20-2006, 07:04 PM
straight...I have never had an intrest in men I do however have an intense intrest in my wife who is supportive of me.

Ditto.

Oh im not interested in your wife, I mean I am interested in my wife.........you know what I meant:thumbsup:

MJ
11-20-2006, 07:31 PM
Bi very Bi. I love being a girl and doing all the girl things men love. There is nothing that feels so good as a nice man making love to you. I just love it,love it,love it,:love: :hugs:

hmmmmm well if only _b lived closer :love: oh well.. there is a first time for everything.. when is it my turn :(

Chiana
11-20-2006, 07:36 PM
Confused!!!!! I have a fantasy about being with a man while dressed and experince the other side with him. So far it is only a fantasy. I am very happy with my wife and she is very supportive of me being a CD, but yet the other eats at me a lot. She doesn't know about the fantasy. I have never even talked about it till now.

There must be something about the green eyed avatar as susiegrl19's response is close to mine. "Confused". I have only loved women. On the other hand, my fantasies are typically of men having their way with me. But they are always faceless annonymus men. Not anyone I know of specifically. I was attracted to a straight guy once. But he was really pretty and very feminine looking. But nothing ever happened with that. He is married now with something like 6 kids. I usually do not have fantasies about women. But having said that, I think my ideal sexual encounter would be with a lovely but controlling GG while I am dressed. I think men are dogs for the most part. Man, I am so confused......

JamieT
11-20-2006, 08:28 PM
I'm straight, that means females only

but i have become attracted to those males who can appear female when dressed.

Shergirly
11-21-2006, 09:54 PM
i am bi..But only when dressed..
Not really had a chance as a woman with a man yet..
But i dream of that..To be all woman for a guy..








Shergirly

JaydeeDenver
11-23-2006, 03:58 PM
Guess I'm bit of a rare breed - I'm a gay cd who loves being with other cd's, gay or staight, for dress up safe sexy fun. Love being a girl with a guy as a guy and love being a guy with a guy. I'm OK, you're OK. Its a cliche, but I'm having fun and enjoy being a girl/guy having a girl/guy like you!

New to this site and find the members soooo nice. Good info too.

cdjoanne
11-24-2006, 01:35 PM
I am straight i think, been married for 8 years, however i do fantasize about sex with men whilst being dressed as a woman. what's it like?
Am i normal? can somebody give me any answers.

cdjoanne
11-24-2006, 01:38 PM
Curious...I would rather have sex with a cder or tg..I love woman, but I feel if I was to have sex with a man who does not dress then that would make me gay...Am I messed up thinking that way? I have never been with anyone, except my wife who does not know that I like to dress.
I think i feel the same way, i am very curious as to what it would be like

cdjoanne
11-24-2006, 01:45 PM
I used to be straight, whether dressed as a male or wearing female clothing.
I primarily "dressed" for sexual gratification, but enjoy wearing panties just about 24/7.
Now I admit that I have become bi. I still have a steady girlfriend, but she has no clue that I like to wear womens clothing, nor does she know that I like to engage in sexual activity with other men.
As far as being bi, I have played around while wearing mens clothing, but I have engaged in sexual activities with other men while I was wearing sexy panties, and have even worn a bra and breast enhancers while playing around.
I would love to be totally dressed as a woman, and have a man take me and have his way with me.
I like your idea, think i would be to afraid to try it with a man whilst dressed, still just a fantasy at moment but willing to give anything a go once, unless i like it.