Dressed and left out somewhere

[Amy Hepker]

How many of you were dressed by your SO (Wife or GGrilfriend) taken out somewhere dropped off and told to get home by your self being dress enfemme partially or all the way?:eek: Did you walk or did you have to find some other way home?:( Did you make it home without conflick or problems???:happy: My xwife dropped me off a few blocks away from home once and I had to walk, but it was at night. I was pass by some cars and had to act like I was coughing to hide my mustach.:eek: I am just wondering. Have you ever asked an SO to do this to you???:hugs:

[Kate Simmons]

What would be the point of doing something like that Amy?:happy: Ericka/Rich

[suzy]

:eek: Are you serious???? :eek: Asked my S/O to do that???:eek: Are you nuts???:eek:

WHEW! That is scary.... ummmm no, I can't think of a single time that I asked for that kind of treatment nor has it happened to me... THANK GOD!!

[Karren H]

NO.. And why would you want to??

Karren

[Amy Hepker]

Well I was just wondering as some people get off on the thrill of being caught, and some Sos want to scare you, so you never want to dress again. This is how my Xwife was going to do, but never did. I think if it happened to me and I was totally dressed, I would have just found a way home. My xwife would have done it to embarrass the hell out of me as that is the way she felt about me dressing in the first place. She hated the other side of me and was jealous of my other side. She never did it though I know that she was going too.

[EricaCD]

As a game, this behavior strikes me as a bit odd. But still, if we are talking about two consenting adults, then so be it.

As a means of coercion or behavior modification by a SO, it strikes me as childish, needlessly provocative and potentially dangerous. I would view this as a clear indication that my relationship was over.

Erica

[Kimkandy]

It's not your wife trying to get rid of you... I'd be worried if she leaves you at a trains station or the airport.

Kim

[Shelly Preston]

The only time I could see this being a good thing is if the wife is trying to prove you can pass in public

Maybe not having you get all the way home but a few blocks

It would still be scary:eek:

[hotbobbie]

Wait you said she did and now you say she did not.

[shannonsilk]

it seems to be a common theme in porn stories. the girl has to resort to selling herself or something

[NewShy21NJmtf]

would be terrible if someone did that to you intendig to do you harm or scare you into not dressing, but as someone into some of the kinkier things in life, if both parties are consenting adults, as someone else said, it souds like a LOT of fun!!!!

-Stephanie

[Sandra]

How many of you were dressed by your SO (Wife or GGrilfriend) taken out somewhere dropped off and told to get home by your self being dress enfemme partially or all the way?:eek: Did you walk or did you have to find some other way home?:( Did you make it home without conflick or problems???:happy: My xwife dropped me off a few blocks away from home once and I had to walk, but it was at night. I was pass by some cars and had to act like I was coughing to hide my mustach.:eek: I am just wondering. Have you ever asked an SO to do this to you???:hugs:


Well I was just wondering as some people get off on the thrill of being caught, and some Sos want to scare you, so you never want to dress again. This is how my Xwife was going to do, but never did. I think if it happened to me and I was totally dressed, I would have just found a way home. My xwife would have done it to embarrass the hell out of me as that is the way she felt about me dressing in the first place. She hated the other side of me and was jealous of my other side. She never did it though I know that she was going too.

Ok which one was it either she did or didn't.

[Sweet Jane]

Hi

sounds like a "porn" story fantasy to me...all power to you if this is how you get your thrills, but I would be more than a little "animated" when I got home if my wife ever did this to me...

[axdressa]

How many of you were dressed by your SO (Wife or GGrilfriend) taken out somewhere dropped off and told to get home by your self being dress enfemme partially or all the way?:eek: Did you walk or did you have to find some other way home?:( Did you make it home without conflick or problems???:happy: My xwife dropped me off a few blocks away from home once and I had to walk, but it was at night. I was pass by some cars and had to act like I was coughing to hide my mustach.:eek: I am just wondering. Have you ever asked an SO to do this to you???:hugs:

Well I was just wondering as some people get off on the thrill of being caught, and some Sos want to scare you, so you never want to dress again. This is how my Xwife was going to do, but never did. I think if it happened to me and I was totally dressed, I would have just found a way home. My xwife would have done it to embarrass the hell out of me as that is the way she felt about me dressing in the first place. She hated the other side of me and was jealous of my other side. She never did it though I know that she was going too.

You say that your xwife never did it to you but if you read both of your msgs on this thread you change your mind in the first she did then in the second she didnt .... i believe that you have got this crossdressing thing all wrong ..... you seem to be two different people one not knowing what the other is doing if you can understand that


hugz Mallisa xxx:love:

[Amy Hepker]

At first I was trying to find out if this had happened to anyone else in an embarrassing situation. Like I said, it was at night when it did happen to me, so it was kind of exciting and scarry at the same time. Later in our relationship she threatened to do it for real, so That I would get caught a long way from home. Which I would have gotten caught, due to the fact that I had a Mustach and she would not let me shave it off. This would have been done to get me to stop dressing as she had changed by this point in our relationship and hated me. (both sides of me) for cheating on her with my other side (AMY). It was a wierd relationship and I am glad it is over.

[Kelly,R]

If my SO(which I don't have) ever did this to me,when I got home...MAN MODE would be on and it's not me who would be scared.:devil:

[kerrianna]

This would be a great scenario if you were both in agreement with a domme/sub (you being the sub of course) situation, and had agreed to allowing yourself to be humiliated. Some people get a real adrenalin rush from stuff like this.


Her doing it as a way of REALLY humiliating you hits much deeper psychological territory (ok, abuse really), even if somewhere deep inside you think you deserve it or need it. For it not to be actually abusive I think it would have to be consensual, although allowing someone to have power over you does work better if you have agreed to let them push you. A key to whether it is consensual is whether you previously discussed things and whether you agreed on a STOP word. If you let someone dominate you with no limits you do run into a real danger of actual harm, physical, emotional, or mental.

It's easy to be confused in this territory, which is why most people avoid it completely. You tap into parts of your self which are controlled for a reason usually. Sometimes you can find yourself in a LTR with a person whose abuse you find attracts you in an unhealthy way. If you're lucky you get out without too much damage.

If my SO did that to me it would be so out of context that I would be freaked about what was wrong.
If we had a consensual domme/sub relationship where we played 'games' like that, I would probably find it thrilling and a challenge.
:2c:

[KarenSusan]

This sounds like a fraternity initiation stunt.

[Angela E.]

I have nightmares like this.It may be nice as a fantasy but not so much fun if it actually happened.I know I`d be plenty POed.-Angela

[JulieCDorlando]

Hello,
Well, if I had a mustache and my wife wanted to take me out with me dressed, and drive me to where ever she was going to take me. I wouldnt so much as even put anything on knowing what will happen. First I wouldn't dream of going out dressed with a mustache, second I wouldn't even so much as even get into the car, and third, if I did get dressed and even got into the I car dressed with a mustache with my wife, there would not be no power on earth that would force me out of that car, that is unless she held a gun to my head, and then I would fight like no tomorrow to disarm her.

[Karmen]

It's not a nice scenario and I don't know why she would do that. I believe no wife would want any of the neighbours find out that her husband is a crossdresser. It's just common sense if you're looking through eyes of wife who loves you and also don't like or understand urge for crossdressing.

[finacarina]

may I ask why you would dress with a mustache and go out in public? now thats just asking for trouble I would think-hardly feminine if you ask me so whats the point of going out?: Sounds to me that your wife was trying to get rid of you. rolleyes:

[Calliope]

So what's the status of that lip hair nowadays?

[pediqr]

If I were in heels !!!? I would be looking elsewhere for significance:thumbsdn:

[TeriAnn]

never happened never will If I was told to do this she would be the one out the door.:rolleyes:

[susiegrl19]

If my SO(which I don't have) ever did this to me,when I got home...MAN MODE would be on and it's not me who would be scared.:devil:

I agree with you Kelly. All H... would break loose in this house, but on the other hand, I don't have to worry about such silly stuff like that.

[Billie1]

I'm reminded of one of the doctrines that was often used in my teaching methods classes at university (with kind regards to our British sisters:ukflag: ): "Teaching is the process of putting someone in a situation where they can only escape by learning." This, of course being done with positive intentions. The situation you describe sounds quite different, and I'm puzzled, because it sounds most unlikely without some degree of mutual consent. (But, wow, I thought my ex was a real loser! :loser: You got me beat!)

But, anyway, some positives can be learned from something like this - like shaving before going out in public dressed!:thinking:

[Angie G]

No I have not and don't think I will :hugs:
Angie

[MarinaTwelve200]

This is an example of one of those things that would make a GREAT "turn on" fantasy, but could be horrifying in real life.

Its why I think there may be a S/M element in many of our CD psyches. Not all of have it, and it may not be the predominant motivation to CD, but I DO think a lot of it have at least a trace of S/M in the enotional mix. Some CDs are driven by humiliation S/M alone (the forced fem types for example) in others it may be a minor reinforcing factor that can make us THINK that we REALLY WANT certian things--Like being "taken by a man" or " becomming a 'REAL' woman" when we REALLY DONT want it in real life.

[MsJanessa]

How many of you were dressed by your SO (Wife or GGrilfriend) taken out somewhere dropped off and told to get home by your self being dress enfemme partially or all the way?:eek: Did you walk or did you have to find some other way home?:( Did you make it home without conflick or problems???:happy: My xwife dropped me off a few blocks away from home once and I had to walk, but it was at night. I was pass by some cars and had to act like I was coughing to hide my mustach.:eek: I am just wondering. Have you ever asked an SO to do this to you???:hugs:

This sounds like somebody's erotic fantasy---if you are for real, the answer is simple---take your cell out of your purse and dial a taxi to come pick you up or if just a few blocks, then walk home----oh one other thing---if you are going out in public dressed----lose the mustache.

[Kristen Kelly]

If I gave her the chance my exwife would Love to do that :hiding: