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[Ingrid_Position]

Heya all and every, I'm new, both to this site and to the whole "Scene" in general. I have always had a fascination with my more abundant fem side, I have recently been privelleged to have been able to have gone out in drag. My friends have ranged in their reactions from "happy 4 u" shock, all the way to "You go girl" ect. My mum and step dad couldn't be happier and more accepting, my mother eager to teach all that I can ask in the way of sewing thru 2 dress / cosmetic tips. My only problem is, the individual with whom I previously socialised with is a psyco freak who is trying to beat me down with threats, emotional blackmail and the sort. Is there anything I might find heartening or usefull?

[Stephenie S]

Heya all and every, I'm new, both to this site and to the whole "Scene" in general. I have always had a fascination with my more abundant fem side, I have recently been privelleged to have been able to have gone out in drag. My friends have ranged in their reactions from "happy 4 u" shock, all the way to "You go girl" ect. My mum and step dad couldn't be happier and more accepting, my mother eager to teach all that I can ask in the way of sewing thru 2 dress / cosmetic tips. My only problem is, the individual with whom I previously socialised with is a psyco freak who is trying to beat me down with threats, emotional blackmail and the sort. Is there anything I might find heartening or usefull?

Stay away from psycho freaks who want to beat you down with threats and emotional blackmail.

Could physical threats be far behind? People who you socialize with should honor you. You deserve no less. Life is too short to waste time with losers.

Stephenie

[Jenna Jones]

What kind of blackmail? Also with all the people supporting you you dont even need to worry about this person. This is who you are so why care about it.


My only problem is, the individual with whom I previously socialised with is a psyco freak who is trying to beat me down with threats, emotional blackmail and the sort. Is there anything I might find heartening or usefull?

How hard would it be to cut off all ties with this person?

[Charolette time]

Heya all and every, I'm new, both to this site and to the whole "Scene" in general. I have always had a fascination with my more abundant fem side, I have recently been privelleged to have been able to have gone out in drag. My friends have ranged in their reactions from "happy 4 u" shock, all the way to "You go girl" ect. My mum and step dad couldn't be happier and more accepting, my mother eager to teach all that I can ask in the way of sewing thru 2 dress / cosmetic tips. My only problem is, the individual with whom I previously socialised with is a psyco freak who is trying to beat me down with threats, emotional blackmail and the sort. Is there anything I might find heartening or usefull?

Why should you worry about this creep, If your mom and step dad knows thats the best thing there is, they are your rock and salvation they love you, Its your life, enjoy and be proud of who you are, it gets easyer as time goes on, keep smiling Love Charolette

[Karren H]

Dump her and move on!! Nothing good about any of the words you used to describe your "friend".....

Karren

[Sandra]

Dump her and move on!! Nothing good about any of the words you used to describe your "friend".....

Karren

...or HIM

Why assume straight away it is a female?


Ingrid,

You've got family and friends who support you so steer clear of the other freind.

[Calliope]

Restraining order comes to mind. Glad to hear everything else is cozy in your life. Nice avatar, btw.

[Ingrid_Position]

Could physical threats be far behind? People who you socialize with should honor you. You deserve no less. Life is too short to waste time with losers.

Stephenie Physical threats didn't work for him as I kept calling his bluff. In the end, I think that he was more frightened of me than I was of being attacked. Thank you, I also believe this is the case, and there have been some quiet spoken ppl, who, I feel had fore warned me, it's just that subtlety was never my strong suit.


How hard would it be to cut off all ties with this person? Easy as owning no clothing shoes, ect...

[Ingrid_Position]

...or HIM

Why assume straight away it is a female?

Here is a good example of the confusion I'm left with; I was told that "drag involves a "Persona" and that it is not right to be doing CD or associated activities, excepting maybe one or two nights a week. I sense that largely, these sentiments were intended to keep me dependant upon this guy. Love may be blind, but like justice, she just woNt stop chasing me!

[Scotty]

Sooner or later it's time to leave, whether that's on a gourney or via your own two feet remains your choice.

Abuse is abuse whether it's physical or emotional.

Tolerance should be zero.

[Ingrid_Position]

Tank you all for your responses, they have provided me with an alternate POV. I found my balance and, with a little time and $$ well spent, I should have everything that I require to be ready to celebrate New Years in comfort, style and most importantly, high heels!

[Amy Hepker]

I am unsure of all the problems you are having iwth this person, but I can tell you that you need to stop this problem right away. Don't let threats both you, but watch out for anything more physical. Get camara to give you the extra protection you need, Beacreful of restraining orders as they can and will backfire. I put one on my wife (xwife Now) and it lasted a year. she had me in court so many times your head would spin. Remember I had it on her. If you make any comments against the other person, that can go against you and you can end up in court. The best way I have found is with security Camaras. They are cheap and remember a picture is worth a thousand words. Most people will not mess with a crossdresser, because they don't want to be associated with them in any way. It can't hurt you because you know you are a crossdresser. I have had X GGirlfriends tell my friends about it, and if they ever said anything to me I just denied it. I did tell a close friend before he found out from my wife (xwife) and he took it well and we are still friends. I do have another friend that does not want anything to do with me, because of who he works with and around. He does not want to be thought of as a crossdresser himself even though he isn't. Sorry I'm rambling again. Just end it and protect yourself. Stay close to friends and family and get camaras, the ones that are visable. Tape any conversations that he (or she) may have with you. Stay away from him or her!!!!