Kathryn Philips
11-18-2006, 06:21 PM
Last year I told my wife about my weakness for female clothes but I did not tell her I actually dressed. This resulted in the most serious crisis in our 12yr marriage. She eventually got over it but she suggested I see a shrink to get cured. After such a suggestion, I realised that she would never accept me as a crossdresser. But the reality is that I am a CD and I can neither be "cured" or want to be "cured". So I have continued to dress secretly. What I have just said is just background info and not why I am starting this thread. Some of you will know me as the girl who makes her own skirts and heeled shoes from male clothes (see my picture threads). I do this because the only way to get real clothes is to buy them in a shop with cash. I can't order online because there is the problem of delivery at home and even if I could get delivery elsewhewre, it would leave a transaction record on my bank/credit card statements. My wife looks at all my statements, not because she suspects anything, but because she was a victim of credit card fraud and is always on the lookout for suspect transactions.
The problem is that I really really really want to own at least 1 pair REAL 2-3 inch heal shoes, some nice REAL knee length skirts and some tops to go with these. I don't yet have the courage to go into a shop and buy them. So my question is: Has anyone who is in the open about their crossdressing ever bought clothes on behalf of a closeted CD living in the same town/city and then arranged a "drop-off"? I see this as one way to get around my own situation, but I would need to find someone local and who would be prepared to trust me. Does anyone have any other ideas?
The problem is that I really really really want to own at least 1 pair REAL 2-3 inch heal shoes, some nice REAL knee length skirts and some tops to go with these. I don't yet have the courage to go into a shop and buy them. So my question is: Has anyone who is in the open about their crossdressing ever bought clothes on behalf of a closeted CD living in the same town/city and then arranged a "drop-off"? I see this as one way to get around my own situation, but I would need to find someone local and who would be prepared to trust me. Does anyone have any other ideas?