Roberta Lynn
11-20-2006, 11:45 PM
This was posted by GGVanya to a different thread
I didn't want to hijack that thread so I'll ask my questions here.
"When Trudi and I first married I felt those "pressures" when she dressed as well. She wasn't pressuring me mind you, but I felt as if every time she dressed something was expected? of me, or I needed to perform? in some way.
Finally I had the heart to heart with her, and now realize that nothing changes in our home, regardless of whether it's him in BVD's or her in panties. I don't act any differently, unless of course we've planned something wickedly special but I know well in advance of those times".
What caught my eye is if you were to change the names my wife could have written it.
We had the same talk on the same subject not more than a month ago.
My question to the wives and SOs. Is this a common concern? Have you or do you feel this pressure?
And to those of you that dress in front of your SO. Do you think your partner feels this pressure?
I didn't want to hijack that thread so I'll ask my questions here.
"When Trudi and I first married I felt those "pressures" when she dressed as well. She wasn't pressuring me mind you, but I felt as if every time she dressed something was expected? of me, or I needed to perform? in some way.
Finally I had the heart to heart with her, and now realize that nothing changes in our home, regardless of whether it's him in BVD's or her in panties. I don't act any differently, unless of course we've planned something wickedly special but I know well in advance of those times".
What caught my eye is if you were to change the names my wife could have written it.
We had the same talk on the same subject not more than a month ago.
My question to the wives and SOs. Is this a common concern? Have you or do you feel this pressure?
And to those of you that dress in front of your SO. Do you think your partner feels this pressure?