How Many of us been out totaly enfemm

[Daizy Chains]

Just wondering how many of us are trapped in doors like me?
I have been out when I was younger. The usual long walks in the dark fancy
dress Idid once throw caution to the wind and went to the local shop
during the day but no one seamed to notice. If they did nothing was said.
Yours
Daizy
:hugs:
P.S Karren you are an inspiration

[Joy Carter]

Been out once so far and it was the best. So what's keeping you inside Hun +?

[Kate Simmons]

We are only "trapped" as you say by choice Daizy. Our attitude towards who we are and what we want to accomplish is what "drives" us to do things. It's not the question of throwing caution to the wind, it's a question our confidence level. If we are confident in our own abilities and self image nothing is unattainable. In that respect, we are the same basic person whether we wear a dress or not. It depends on what our needs are and how important they are to us. Don't hold you breath waiting to be "accepted" by others, just be yourself, it's much easier really.:happy: Kay Richards

[sara_also]

I have been out to dinners with members of tri-ess a few times and out with my wife several times to Casinos in Vegas. I have never had any problems.

[Michelle I]

As I have wrote about several times, I get out about once every two to three months. I spend time at my favorite salon getting my hair done, then usually shop at the mall after that. This is during the day time but have also been to the mall in the evening. I try and dress as a GG would and have had no problems other than teenage girls. The trips have been a wonderful experience, the onlt problem is getting past my neighbors on the return trip home.

I have another salon visit :happy: scheduled for next Wednesday, what a wonderful way to spend a day.

Melissa

[Daizy Chains]

I have two kid now and don't feel it's the right time just now also my mother-in- law lives with us so opertunities are limited.
Daizy

[MarinaTwelve200]

Ive been out ONCE---for a halloween party in 2004.

But I realized that I have the attitude that my CDing is something I do in PRIVATE. -----A PERSONAL thing. And I would no more consider going out dressed in public than going out NAKED. Its not a "fear" in my case, but simply an "attitude" in my Psyche that CDing is, for me, one of those "private things" we may do when we are alone. In the same category as taking a bath, using the toilet, or "pleasuring" one's self.
I dont think that this is the same thing as "being in the closet"---In that case the CDer WANTS to go out, but is afraid to, In MY case I see it as a PRIVATE matter where going out is not approprate.

[Rita Knight]

Since getting involved in this forum, I have discovered that way too any gurlz are deep in the closet. I am not advocating walking down the main street of small town USA on a Saturday afternoon dressed. However, I strongly urge gurlz to join a CD support group. In the USA, the best big examples are Tri-Ess at: http://www.tri-ess.org/ or Renaissance Trangender Association at: http://www.ren.org/page2.html In the UK, there is the Beaumont Society at: http://www.beaumontsociety.org.uk/ You can get dressed at a Tri-Ess meeting! There are plenty of smaller, independent groups. I think those closeted gurlz reading this need realtime contacts w/other CDs on a regular basis. I do go out quite a bit. I am a member of Tri-Ess and go to Tiffany's parties at Triangles in Danbury, CT.

[slamddoger]

just look nomol. out there people wont knows you at all .

[Brianna Lovely]

I've been out a few times in the last few months. I'm either very brave, giggle, or crazy, but I almost always go out in the daytime. I also go to some of the same places in drab and dressed.
Just being myself at the moment.

[Emily Ann Brown]

Haven't been out in several months because of family issues, but the holiday season is here now and being out and about is such a thrill !!! I feel a shopping trip coming on.


Emily Ann

[michelle-h]

I'm not sure if this counts or not. I have been out a few times, but only to T-friendly clubs at night. And always with other girls. But each time I was fully dressed. I don't have the courage or the wardrobe yet for daytime ventures. Maybe one day.

Michelle-H

[suzy]

:eek: ....been out kinda sorta...no make up tho....so I guess it doesn't count... No, it doesn't count.. so my answer is none...:o

[MsJanessa]

I usually go out 2-3 times a month--mainly to clubs and bars(even though I don't drink). Sometimes will go shopping at the local mall or various department stores in the area.

[LindaTS]

Funny that I just now saw this. Leaving in a few minutes to go shopping. It's so much fun spending money on myself. It's all daylight for me because of some night time problems.

[Sophia Rearen]

I'm an outie!

[Holly]

I've been out multiple times... usually with my wife (she's the greatest). I/ve had the pleasure of meeting several members of the forum here and also many of their wives/SO's as well. I find these relationships incredibly rewarding but, for those of you still closeted for whatever reason, remember, most oif those relationships began right here! If you haven't been out, if the opportunity ever presents itself, I do recommend it.

[Erica Lauren James]

Yes Been out a few times. Dinner, Shopping, Walks, Jogging. But one of the best times was on a sunday afternoon. I went with a gg to an open house for a day spa and tatto parlour in a very small town in Ontario. It was great, over 100 people there from men and women to whole families. Even some moms breast feeding there babies. No trouble at all.

Going out with company is so much more fun than going alone.

[Cyndie]

I've been out a few times. Mostly when traveling far from home, trips to parks or malls. Only people who ever said anything were teenage girls. I have been out a onee time locally. I went to a nice shopping arear one night, no one seemed to notice.

[JoAnnDallas]

When I first moved here to Dallas, I was staying at my sister's house while the wife was still in WV until the house sold. Durning that period, I started going out in the daylight. That was about four months of bliss. Then the house sold and I got a new job, so my dressing and outings got a lot less. Did get a chance to get dressed up for an intire day earlier this month, attending the Tri-Ess HEF2006. Hoping to be able to attend more Tri-Ess functions starting in January.

[Donna Marie]

I've been out several times - once to a Tri-ESS group, once to a local group, and a few times just "out" - One time I met another CD at a distant town and we went to the mall and had dinner. It was thrilling but we got some snide comments at the restaurant.

The last time was a morning trip to the park with my dog. I dressed appropriately for the occasion in jeans, rainjacket (it was treatening) and flats and with very little makeup. Wouldn't you know it, my dog reacted badly to another dog, causing a scene. Then later a GG with two shelties like mine wanted to know where I got my sheltie. With my masculine voice I just couldn't reply. She was far enough away that I just shrugged and walked on, but she sure did stare at me.

After each outing I wondered, "What on earth was I thinking?" Why would I put myself in a position to be embarassed? Ah, but then there is still that need for Donna to get out. Don't know when it will happen next, but I know it will.

[Daizy Chains]

Ive been out ONCE---for a halloween party in 2004.

But I realized that I have the attitude that my CDing is something I do in PRIVATE. -----A PERSONAL thing. And I would no more consider going out dressed in public than going out NAKED. Its not a "fear" in my case, but simply an "attitude" in my Psyche that CDing is, for me, one of those "private things" we may do when we are alone. In the same category as taking a bath, using the toilet, or "pleasuring" one's self.
I dont think that this is the same thing as "being in the closet"---In that case the CDer WANTS to go out, but is afraid to, In MY case I see it as a PRIVATE matter where going out is not approprate.

Sorry if I have offended any one.
I was just wondering how many Girls had gone out
Was not boasting or being judgmental

[Ashley1]

I have been out some a few years ago but not recently. However, my living situation has recently changed, and I may be out some in the near future. It might be nice to meet another CD girl or GG to go with.

Ashley1

[Jesse69]

I have been out twice in Chicago and 4 times in Bowling Green & Nashville for shopping. Really tried going out in femme in force to malls since I'm temporarily living in another city. Found out I am passable on looks, so I might do it back in Chicago.

[Eugenie]

I've been trapped at home for more than 45 years... :Angry3:

Recently, several events have made me change my perception about my feminine side and my attitide towards going out.

I'm now enjoying being out in the streets. But beware, its addictive... Once you try it you won't be able to stop from doing it... :heehee:

I personally feel bad now because I cannot go out when I'm in my home town. It is not for me that I fear, but for my brothers who are publicly well known. They have carriers that would suffer from a publicity around a coming out from my side.

So I can't wait for my next trip to Brussels...

:hugs:
Eugenie

[Gisele]

I am no longer trapped inside and I love it. I got the nerve up and went out dressed a few times now and had no problems. I always thought the world would come to an end if I went out dressed. Guess what......It didn't!:D

I will now start exploring my other side more out in public.

[michelleliz]

I have been out more times then I can count. Havent had any problems . It is great to be able to go into a store and try on what ever you want to buy. At least you know if it fits before you get it home. The sales clerk will even tell you if it looks good on you . It allways looks good they want to sell what ever you are trying on

Michelle Liz

[SherriePall]

About six times in the last two years or so. Shoe stores, women's clothing stores, the mall, salons. It's been fun and, as mentioned already, it is addictive.

[Penny]

I've been out so many times with my wife and without. I couln't count. I run arends, go shopping, out to eat. whatever. It is a matter of attitude. I don't get dressed to go out and I don't go out to get dresses. However am is how I go. I buy female things dressed or drab. Here is the one thing I have not been able to do. I have not been able ever, to shop for men's things while dress. Can't bring myself to go to Home Depot or buy auto parts. To me, it just does't seem right. Strange huh? Just one of my many quirks.

:hugs:

Penny

[Tina Dixon]

I have been out and had two transformations done, and the last one I drove home in fem form and it was a three hour drive in bad weather.

[melissacd]

I started going out in July of this year. I have gone to about 4 or 5 CD club events, a couple of dinners with different friends, a CD week-end with a group of thirty others, last Sunday I went out to a shopping mall and a christmas dinner with marissa and this week-end I will be at another CD week-end away.

It took me a very long time to get here, however, for me being able to get out dressed up has been the most wonderful, positive, fulfilling experience. I do not know why it took me so long and I highly recommend the experience. I plan to do a great deal more of this.

[carla smith]

Yes I do. But I had to convince myself that is was ok, gain confidence and go!

I lost interest in getting all fancied up without anywhere to go. I think it is a natural progression to head out the door. It is not for everybody. We are all individuals and have different desires.

The important thing is to have fun out there, in or out!

[krisinpink]

I did it (poorly I suspect) a few times when I was living single. I've done it once since 'hooking up' with my gg (she is great w/ make-up) and we had fun time at a local club. can't wait to try it again!

[linnea]

I get out about four or five times a year, usually for a day if I'm lucky. When I go out, I typically spend most of my time shopping at CD-friendly shops. Occasionally, I'll walk through a mall to get to a Lane Bryant store or to some other shop that I like. Each time I do this, I get more comfortable with it, but I have not yet gone out for a meal or gone to a movie. I would be more likely to do that if I were with some friends (and none of my friends know that I crossdress). I have also checked into and stayed at a motel while dressed.

[carolinewalker_2000]

Years ago when we lived in the country, I used, occasionally, to be able to dress and go out for a quiet walk. Since we moved into a city this has been more difficult as I can no longer walk out the front door in relative safety.

A fe months ago i took the plunge and went out for a "dress and drive" seeion - it was great!!!

I am now summoning up the courage to go out for dinner with some other girls I have met on a web site. wish me luck!!!

[crusadergirl]

I have been out about 3 times since i start dressing. the last time i went out a women noticed i wasn't a girl and said oh your a guy i thought you were a girl for a second. Its b/c i don't walk are talk like a girl i'm guessing plus i was with 3 friends and we were talking about football. It was hard for me to walk in heels it takes time to get it right.

[Felicia Conti]

I try to get out once a week if I can. I find going to regular places, clubs, restaurants shopping more fun and exciting than the same old gay-friendly ones. Take care.

Felicia


Just wondering how many of us are trapped in doors like me?
I have been out when I was younger. The usual long walks in the dark fancy
dress Idid once throw caution to the wind and went to the local shop
during the day but no one seamed to notice. If they did nothing was said.
Yours
Daizy
:hugs:
P.S Karren you are an inspiration

[DonnaT]

Been out a few times in the last couple of years.

[Marcie Sexton]

Funny I read this, I just ask my wife if she would venture out withme some evening just see how the freedom feels...With the neighborhood as it is, I would have to put on the makeup, thne put a few things in a bag and change in the car...God I hape she say yes, love to experience the feeling of being seen in public !!!

[Leslie Foxx]

I've been out many times. Daytime concert, shopping, restaurants, etc. Even out of state to go shopping at Glamour Boutique a few weeks ago with another gurl. Stopped at other "striaght" places on the way down and back. It was great.

I shall not be cloistered any longer. Been "in" with a cold for 12 days, and it's cramping my style. Gotta go take my vitamins.

[Calliope]

We are only "trapped" as you say by choice Daizy.

Bullseye!

Sure, there's small redneck 'religious' towns that can paralyze a CD but, for the most part, those 'trapped' in the closet have chosen to put themselves there. (Small redneck 'religious' towns can be left.)

Mixed feelings, poor body image. Some CDs intuitively chose mates who will 'police' their dressing. In the end, it's personal responsibility (as the right-wingers always say).

I think the most unfortunate thing about closeted life is that secrecy (implying shame) becomes a mate to the dressing - which distorts and darkens the experience.

[Bethanygirl]

Bullseye!

Sure, there's small redneck 'religious' towns that can paralyze a CD but, for the most part, those 'trapped' in the closet have chosen to put themselves there. (Small redneck 'religious' towns can be left.)

Mixed feelings, poor body image. Some CDs intuitively chose mates who will 'police' their dressing. In the end, it's personal responsibility (as the right-wingers always say).

I think the most unfortunate thing about closeted life is that secrecy (implying shame) becomes a mate to the dressing - which distorts and darkens the experience.

I live in a small town in Missouri, (one of those "small redneck 'religious' towns), and since I moved here I have never been anything but enfemme. I believe that over the last seven years everyone in town knows about me, but the first year here Was the only time I heard a derogatory remark, since then everyone is civil, some freindly. I imagine there is some bad gossip about me, and some will never be freindly, but isn't that just as true in your life however you live it?

Do not allow fears to overcome common sense, other people may not like it, other people may see you a an embaracement to the community, but ultimatly, if you accept yourself, others will have NO choice but to do so as well. You are not trying to defraud anyone, you just want to be you!

Be safe, but be you! :2c:

[Carol A]

I used to go out on a regular basic, but since we moved to a very small town my wife will not let me go out.

[Calliope]

I live in a small town in Missouri, (one of those "small redneck 'religious' towns), and since I moved here I have never been anything but enfemme.

Right on, sister!

(I left U. City in '84.)

[loki_uk]

Luckily I know a couple who run fetish and LGBT nights so going out enfemme with friends is not a problem

[Daizy Chains]

Luckily I know a couple who run fetish and LGBT nights so going out enfemme with friends is not a problem

Are any of these events in London?:straightface:

[Jenna1561]

I've been out several times, mainly on my own. I've been to one TRI-ESS meeting. I'm moving to the Dallas-Ft.Worth area in May and I'll be a lot closer to a chapter and hope to make more regular visits to TRI-ESS.

But, yes, going out enfemme is fun and I love it.


Jenna

[loki_uk]

Are any of these events in London?:straightface:

I usually go Lovetrix in Hatfield just north of London, a lovely little club which had its first LGBT night last Sunday which should will be a monthly event, but usually I go on their monthly fetish nights (very BDSM orientated though...)

As for actual pubs the Load Of Hay in Oxhey near Watford is very tranny friendly, they've seen me wear all sorts in there

[KimberlyS]

Marina, I think it is great that your Psyche has allowed you to keep your CDing private within your home. I think there are many more with you, but I have found that often they tend to be the less vocal ones here and on other forums.

We are out at that level we are comfortable with personally. And being out one way is not any better than any other way. It is our way. And we are all individuals and different in many,many ways.

Being a CDer most of my 40+ years, I have come to accept the differences that other people have. Some I agree with, some I can put up with, and some to me are just off the wall just like I am sure CDing is to others. I make friend with the ones with the lessor amount of difference, I interact with those I can accept, and there are a few I do try to avoid. But I alway try to make a personal effort to at less be civil and not mean to everyone.

I have been out about once or twice a year or so for the last 8+ years. Some years very dry and others a bit more, and this last year it has been 3 times. I have often wished I could keep my CDing at home and in private as it would make things so much easier for me and a lot for my wife. Going out has been a HUGE issue with my wife. Because going out does have a lot more risk to it. For the most part I am ok with CDing in private or wearing a mix of male and unisex female clothes. But what I have found personally is I get to points that I just feel trapped in my home and want to come out screaming to the world "This Is Me". My wife is even starting to learn to tell when I am nearing these points, and before I realize it at times. But my realistic side kicks in, some times more than others my wife would tell you. So most of my CDing out has been a bit more planned and has been out of town where I know few to no people and Kim can jump out and say "This is Me" with a lot less risk to it. Most of my CDing has been by myself and I prefer mainstream public places but have also been to a few clubs and out with some other CDers. Twice now just this year my wife has been along.

I also think there are other ways to be out which work for some and for others it does not. Some for me are:
--Shopping for femme clothes in male mode
--Wearing a mix of male and unisex visible female clothing on a daily basis
--Underdressing
--Planning an outing that is coming up
--Meeting with other CDers or couples in drab, just to talk or do something together, which may or may not be CDing related

KimberlyS - CD

[Jesse69]

I have been cding since 1991 and for most of the time I was a size 12 or 14. Ever since I lost so much weight to be a size 4 -6 and got a wig and breastforms I was transformed and found out I was passable. Always thought I would never be passable. Now that I've gone out several times I think I do enjoy going out in drag now, but I do it only to shop. And I worry if men will hit on me.

[Sierra Evon]

I find that for me that I'm very passable for a girl , but I tend to just stick with pants in public and not skirts , I wear my skirts at home around my apt.
out in public I wear alot of capri's and solid color girls tops , still all femme but can be hard for the untained eye of society to detect.....

[Katrina]

I've been out three times where I had to interact with people - two shopping and one with a local TG group. I've been out on "the drive" a few times as well. Other than that, its just what I wear everyday in drab mode.

[michelleII]

I have always been trapped indoors except for an occaisional walk around the house after dark. However I have recently moved to a country home with a lot of trees so I can xdress and feel free walking or sitting on the deck during the day. I do not go in public xdressed because I could never pass. Michelle

[hottieforyou]

i have never been out but i would like to someday

[Glenda58]

I go out once or twice a week. In fact I was out yesterday for 8 hours shopping. Had a nice time talking to SAs buying things even had to us my credit card and showed my real ID. Was at Payless and a young girl was looking at the same boots I had and we talk about how they feel on and how good they looked on her. We need to go out more often so world isn't afraid of us. Most people just don't care about us. So get out start shopping or just walk around the malls.

[Adrienne Heels]

I try to go out at least once a month......salon, shopping.

I also love to shop for femme things in drab while wearing a woman's jacket or shoes to make me feel a bit girly

[Butterfly Bill]

I've been out in clothes commonly associated with women (non-bifurcated garments as they would say on some other forums) on a daily basis since 1994, but I have never been "totally en femme", as I make no attempt to pass and shave only my legs (so pantyhose doesn't itch). Can't say I've never been razzed for it, but when this has happened the guy was usually drunk and hollering out thru the window of a car passing by. The rest, if they see me accepting myself as a man dressed this way, 99.9 percent of the people I encounter do as well.

[Lauren Richards]

I'm getting ready to go out now. I feel like getting out now that the weather is better, and getting some new lip gloss. Heading to the QFC (grocery and sundries store) on north Broadway in Seattle tonight. Should be fun! Oh, that's right, I need to change out of my current business look into something a little more casual. Or, not. A girl has so many choices..

Lauren

[maid phylis]

dear girls ,i am a member of crossdressers international in new york city,we have a social club and meeting every wed night and i have belonged to them for going on five years.since my first time there i have been going to our meetings dressed as phylisanne and i am dressed from the time i leave my house and get on the subway till i get home and change so i can enter my home as the father of my ily.but during those hours between 2:00 pm and 10:30 in the evening i am a woman and i cherish every one of those hours being a lady .so for all you girls who wish that they can go out as the woman that they want to be ,just go out and do it ,i did and i havent looked back.all my love phylisanne:love: :love:

[trannie T]

I only get out a few times a year, sometimes to a group meeting sometimes to a club. I enjoy going out dressed a little bit more each time I go out.

[Kathrynn]

Hi girls... i go out every weekend. Saturdays all day shopping,then at night to my favorite Gay bar for a great time with my friends. And on Sunday, first to laundromat and then to wallyworld for the groceries. And then back the bar for brunch and fun. And on every third Sunday at 8:30 i"ll start performing in a drag show with my other friends. We'll have a blast...
Kathrynn

[ArleneRaquel]

I go to bed wearing my bra and panties and I wear the same while I am doing housework. Totally femme when out, I wouldn't have it any other way. I started being Maureen 24/7 in June "05, before just underwear, after my wife died I went, gradually, to 24/7.:love: Maureen

[Joni Beauman]

My outings mostly during "field season". As a biologist, I do research and surveys all over the state, usually by myself. So from May to September or so there are lots of chances. The usual: malls, dinner, driving around in a State vehicle...Yikes, what am I doing? Risky behavior for the sake of it, or to fulfill an actual need? Sometimes you wonder. Joni

[Rachel Morley]

This time last year I had only just had my first outing. I only ever went out because of reading about all the girl's outings on this site. I was truly inspired to do it! Over the last year my outings have progressively increased in quantity and "severity" and now going out en femme with my wife as "two women" is a fairly common experience (about 3 times a month).

The only time I get nervous these days is when I have to speak to someone (you know like a Sales Assistant, a Checkout Cashier, or a Waiter). I recommend you progressively (but gently) push yourself to go out in public en femme. It's the most amazing feeling (buzz?) in the world, and when you do...you'll never go back! :happy:

[kay_jessica]

I usually go Lovetrix in Hatfield just north of London, a lovely little club which had its first LGBT night last Sunday which should will be a monthly event, but usually I go on their monthly fetish nights (very BDSM orientated though...)

As for actual pubs the Load Of Hay in Oxhey near Watford is very tranny friendly, they've seen me wear all sorts in there

And there is also Pink Punters at Milton Keynes, which has the added advantage that it hosts the TVChix Big Nite Out every second Friday of the month. It is also right opposite the Campernile Hotel which is very very TV/TS friendly. Especially on Friday nights.

And yes I do go out loads......

[Karren H]

Once you go out enfemme.....setting around the house in a dress just doesn't cut it any more!!!!!

:D

Love Karren

[eydie]

I try to get out on weekend nights, go to a local gay-club...but it never feels just right...the gay men don't want anything to do with you and the lesbians will talk with you but forget about anything elce. I always look forward meeting other crossdressers, wither they're straight, bi or gay. It's their friendships that mean alot to me.

[Daizy Chains]

Thanks to everyone who took an intrest in this thread
Daizy

[Stephanie-L]

I have been out three times totally en femme, one time was while driving to another city 8 hours away. I have never had a problem and would love to go out more. The last time was only a few days ago when I decided to do some shopping for myself. The SA knew I was a CD as I had told her, I wanted to be fitted for some new bras. She was very polite and helpful, and made a nice commision on the sale too....Stephanie

[tanya3]

i've only been out once so far . the weather was so bad all my wife and i could do was go for a ride . it was a lot of fun we can't wait for a chance to go out some more we just have to find the time .

[Cami_wi]

Hi Gang, for me it is an Everyday thing, getting dressed just happens to be as a woman. Yes there was a bit more in me than just CD'ing. I am a Transssexual Female and Proud of it ! I got over worring about what others thought and said. putting it SIMPLE Peoplle Talk about People and always will. A GG at my Salon told me this and it with me. Ppl talked about her, Nice Ass, Nice Tits, not how smart she was, how well she cut hair. Ppl talk and always will, He's to FAt, She is to Skinney, boy is She Ugly ... etc. I try to JUDGE ALL people by whats inside, what's in their heart, and personalities. Sure makes a WIDE Variety of Friends that Way !!!

Really Who Cares what Other's Think ... really . I do know allot of situations do not allow this, for those that can BE YOURSELF, other wise everyone only get's to know 1/2 of You :-)

I have 'found' the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be.

[Kimberly]

Been out a few times now -- for some fancy dress parties, then went to WayOut, and recently been out to college dressed, (when there weren't any movement classes!)

Stuck in doors a little at the moment, but I just need a women's coat for the winter -- then I'll be fine! :)

[michele_t39]

Hi Daizy,

I try to get out every opportunity I get. I usually get to the "TG North" Social a few of us in here go to every other Thursday night in Vermont.
Then I will take advantage of "business trips" and usually take a whole day before to get out for the whole day. I look forward to those days immensely.

[carolinebrookes]

I tend to keep myself to myself, which means I don't have too many aquantances outside of the internet. Having said this, it has not stopped me getting out and about.
So far this year, I have been shopping several times, to a civil ceremony of a pair of tv/ts friends which meant I spent the whole weekend en femme. I have also been to the movies on a few occasions.
I suspect that most people don't care how others look and I would say that even if I have been "made", that those people haven't cared too much either.
I dress to please myself and the situation I'm in. This always helps to blend in.

[Kate Simmons]

I try to get out on weekend nights, go to a local gay-club...but it never feels just right...the gay men don't want anything to do with you and the lesbians will talk with you but forget about anything elce. I always look forward meeting other crossdressers, wither they're straight, bi or gay. It's their friendships that mean alot to me.And I do appreciate your friendship Eydie. Just wish I could get you on the dance floor. It's So-o-o-o much fun. I always do appreciate your company. It's especially nice when we're the center of attention, right? It's just great to kick bad and enjoy time with friends.:happy: Ericka Kay

[Faye Emmette]

I've been dressing since the sixties and first went out in the 1990's.
As my life is in constant flux, I have been out with a friend earlier this year but am housebound now.
I have never gone out by myself except for drives when I had a car in the 90's. (I mainly ride a motorbike).
All here have different circumstances so I'm sure the response to this Q. will be varied; from the happy-go-lucky Karren to the unfortunate souls who still have to live their female lives in short grasps of solitude.

[Alysin CD]

Around 10 times. Best days of my life. :happy:

Alysin

[Annette_boy]

Hi Girls
Have been going out off and on sence late 60's and the feeling of freedom never diminishes each time I do I hope this photo attaches
Love to all Annette

[Deidra Cowen]

Been going out for about a year and a half. I usually go shopping enfemme perhaps on average once a week. Then everyother weekend when I don't have my kids at my place I go out clubbing Fri and Sat nites.

Its the best part of CDing for me...pretending I am a chick out in public! Makes me happy. :D

[Kenix]

I never thought of going out but I may try that if I think I can pass. I need a few more things before I can actually go out, like a wig and glasses.

[Natty_W]

Where I live it's customary for the whole town towear fancy dress on New Years Eve. Naturally that's an excellent excuse and I take full advantage of it.

My crowning glory was last year when I had to work late. I finished my shift in a full length black dress, heels and full make-up. It was fabulous, even if it did freak my boss out!

In the pub after I had loads of compliments, and there was even a few that took me for a GG. :happy: It was a real confidence booster.

Unfortunately there wasn't as good a reaction in the first pub we went in. I was given a wide berth by the majority of the people in there, and it's their reaction that I think of when I think about going out en femme any other time. :sad:

[Angie G]

Hi Daizy I have been out en femm just once on Halloween this year and loved it & some time I drive home from work in a skirt hose & heels :hugs:
Angie

[bianncats]

first time with makeup was tonite. went to a local mall. fun time

[Felica_ann_lendy]

i have not been out in a few months but i feel an outing coming on

[Jenfrso]

Never been out, I live in a small city and I run into alot of people I know, and with my luck, I'd run into one them and knock them over while dressed.

[Janelle d'Amour]

I've been out many times over the years, but never in my home community (except on Halloween). The latest venture was with a dear friend of mine who was visiting another local town. We got together and had a wonderful evening of dinner, drinks and dancing :dance:. I love road trips!

[Kimkandy]

I went out en femme for the first time last night. I got on a bus, walked through Liverpool Street Train station and went to Transmission Club http://www.trans-mission.org I had a great and will be going next month.

Kim

:dom: :Party2:

[Daizy Chains]

Good for you Hope to join you next time
Daizy

[sami1952]

I go on saturdays and sundays and full fem all weekand long,started doing it right after joining this forum.

[MelindaC]

I've only been a out a few times. But each time, it was WONDERFUL!!! I never felt so free. Just wish i could get out more often.

[StacyCD]

I've only been out a few times while I've been away from home and actually had the nerve to get a few makeovers. I am hoping that I will be able to increase my opportunities to dress and go out as my wife gets a handle on my crossdressing.

[Kristen Kelly]

As much as I can, I'm out 2 or 3 nights a week, love to hit the clubs and go dancing. When time allows I do my grocery shopping enfem, as well as trips to the mall. I know when it has been a good week when Kristen's laundry basket is overflowing.

[barbara f.]

when out last month for the second time at night. drove around in my car where it was safe. park my car a few times and went out for a walk on quiet street. it was a great feeling. look forward to doing it again.

[Phoebe Reece]

I spend the day out as Phoebe on average about 4 days a month. For about the past two years I have had the attitude that if I'm going to spend 2 hours getting ready, I am going out the door. I do not dress and sit around the house any more. I did that for far too many years.

[suzipage]

I have been out a couple of times over one weekend, years ago. Have a look at my stories on storysite; there are some autobiographical components in the fiction.

Suzi

[Diana West]

I really want to go out, but I still lack the confidence especially when it comes to my make-up.

I've already picked out my coat (it's freezing out here now), my boots (with a nice heel), my wig, my clothes, and even where I want to go (for you other gyrls in the SW suburbs - it's the Oak Brook Mall). Now I just need the nerve.

I've gone driving plenty of times and walked in forest preserves, but I really want to walk out and about people.

[Krystenw]

I didn't go out much before I spent two weeks en femme this summer. Since then I have been to the movies and to the Mall several times.
I gotta kinda watch it though. I saw someone I knew and almost said HI to them. I'm still not brave enough to do that yet.

[Janailene]

As a teenager and into my 20's I was thin and had a feminine look. Some of Mom's friends told us that I should have been born a girl as I was too pretty to be a boy. I was careful, but i would walk our dog as Janice. As I got bolder I did that in the day. In my 20's I spent time as Janice.

[gennee]

I have been out en femme many times. The more I do it the more that I enjoy it.

Gennee

:gorgeous:

[cosmolovesph]

i have gone shopping a couple times, halloween several times, and outtings even more so.... fun fun for sure, but it takes time to allow yourself to relax more when you go out, not everyone is really looking at you.

[Regina]

I started going out fully dressed a little more than two years ago, always at night gradually working my way up as far as interaction goes however, it is addictive and i am always looking for ways to increase going out so my solution is to start going out during the day when the wife is not home (live out so neighbors aren't a problem), do it! you will enjoy it, just remember go slow at first, good luck!


Regina

[Daizy Chains]

A big thank you to all who took part in this thread
it was my first and I am very happy it got over a hundred response's
and so many looked in.
it is good to know that we are not alone.
Daizy

[chattaboxx]

hi Daizy,

yes i have been out a few times...... and it is fantastic.

even though i still spend about an hour in the car working up the nerve to get out and walk into town.

The thing i notice is that people don't really notice you


Louise
(Chattaboxx)

ps

thank you for an interesting thread

[Dawntv]

was out for the first time in October went to Sagutuck mi which is a very friendly town with my gg i drove the whole four hours there dressed we took no boy clothes with us. it was such a thrill i got outed in a club where this guy was hitting on us we are both pretty blondes and i let my voice slip and he realized and started yelling to everyone that i was a guy. Well i got up and told him it was none of his buisness and he did not even realize he was hitting on a guy so just sit down and shut up. He did and upon leaving a fellow walked up to us and told me how proud he was cause he was a cd also who was trying to work up the nerve to go out.

[Sue Too]

I get out fairly often but its never enough. It is addictive. I've been shopping, out to eat, to the movies, and used changing rooms and restrooms en femme. It was scarey at first but with experience comes confidence. I urge anyone hiding in the closet to open the door and look the outside world square in the eye. It gives you a rush that no other experience can duplicate. Go for it Girls! I'd write more but I have to go shopping. <<<giggle>>>

bi bi

Susan

[SatinSarah]

When I was younger I went out on short walks and a drive on my own. I wish I could pluck up the courage to do it again. I don't know which is easiest. Just to go out alone or to pluck up courage and try to meet other CDs. I can only just remember the rush and the feeling of the cold air up my skirt. I keep reading on this site how easy it is to go out and not be bothered about being read. I am a naturally shy person and would find this really hard. I guess I would need to know if I look good enough as a woman that people wouldn't know who the man underneath is!

I lovereading all the posts here nd how many of you girls get to to go out and dress so often. Good luck to you all.

Sarah

[Cheryl T]

I go out regularly now either shopping, dinner or movies with my spouse and also with some sisters from my Tri-Ess chapter.
No one really cares or stares.