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Jenni B
12-03-2006, 06:03 AM
I just want to tell you all how lucky i must be. I've been with my SO for five years now and she has been nothing but a rock for me.

She puts up with my mood swings, my ups and downs, she has the patients of a saint i really dont know how she does it.

On a lighter note, How did it all start. Well about six month into the relationship she found some websites on the PC where i had been but hadn't erased them from the memory, she questioned me about them, figured the rest out, asked the usual questions then went away to think about it.

She came back to me to tell me that she loves me and that, well, you don't do it all the time. She then did her own searching on the web to answer her own questions, just like my sister and brother inlaw did when they found out.

As time has gone on she has made it look as if things have really been easy for her, although i wish i knew what was going through her mind.

Anyway, the first christmas together she bought me my first pair of black leather boots with a three and a half inch heel, then for my birthday we went to a wig boutique. It was so funny i asked to look at ladies wigs and the assistant thought i had lost it but sat there in the shop with my SO behind telling me if the wig looked right or not made me feel so good and relaxed at the same time.

Since then, when were out as a couple round the shops i just give her my money and she purchases things that i need or want.

In the past she has helped tranform into Jenni at the house so i can go out fully en femme and i would stand behind the gate in the back yard waiting for her to give me the thumbs up that its safe to cross the street to get to my car without any of the neighbours seeing me.

She doesn't help me with my make up now, not cos she doesn't want to, she just thinks i should be able to manage it on my own by now.

Also when we move house, i make it sound like we do it all the time. But we look at properties where the back garden isn't overlooked, one, because we just wouldn't want to be overlooked and two she would come out with a statement like 'well that back gardens no good for Jenni' She wants me to be able to go out and experience the feeling.

Thats about it really.

I would like to say that when I put this on here it wasn't to make any girl jealous or sad because i know some aren't as fortunate to be in the same position. But i want it to be a 'nice' read and maybe it will make some girls smile and grin.

Thank you darling, for everything. Jenni:love:

Naomi
12-03-2006, 06:23 AM
I just want to tell you all how lucky i must be. I've been with my SO for five years now and she has been nothing but a rock for me.

She puts up with my mood swings, my ups and downs, she has the patients of a saint i really dont know how she does it.

On a lighter note, How did it all start. Well about six month into the relationship she found some websites on the PC where i had been but hadn't erased them from the memory, she questioned me about them, figured the rest out, asked the usual questions then went away to think about it.

She came back to me to tell me that she loves me and that, well, you don't do it all the time. She then did her own searching on the web to answer her own questions, just like my sister and brother inlaw did when they found out.

As time has gone on she has made it look as if things have really been easy for her, although i wish i knew what was going through her mind.

Anyway, the first christmas together she bought me my first pair of black leather boots with a three and a half inch heel, then for my birthday we went to a wig boutique. It was so funny i asked to look at ladies wigs and the assistant thought i had lost it but sat there in the shop with my SO behind telling me if the wig looked right or not made me feel so good and relaxed at the same time.

Since then, when were out as a couple round the shops i just give her my money and she purchases things that i need or want.

In the past she has helped tranform into Jenni at the house so i can go out fully en femme and i would stand behind the gate in the back yard waiting for her to give me the thumbs up that its safe to cross the street to get to my car without any of the neighbours seeing me.

She doesn't help me with my make up now, not cos she doesn't want to, she just thinks i should be able to manage it on my own by now.

Also when we move house, i make it sound like we do it all the time. But we look at properties where the back garden isn't overlooked, one, because we just wouldn't want to be overlooked and two she would come out with a statement like 'well that back gardens no good for Jenni' She wants me to be able to go out and experience the feeling.

Thats about it really.

I would like to say that when I put this on here it wasn't to make any girl jealous or sad because i know some aren't as fortunate to be in the same position. But i want it to be a 'nice' read and maybe it will make some girls smile and grin.

Thank you darling, for everything. Jenni:love:

Hi Jenni, that was a lovely post i hope i can one day be as lucky as you

Kate Simmons
12-03-2006, 06:30 AM
Well, I'm smiling and grinning Jenni. I'm happy for you and your wife. It's nice that you can be supportive of one another, unike so many other stories I have read where the man is completely self centered with CDing.A good relationship like that is hard to find. Enjoy being together, Hon.:love: Ericka Kay

Sheila
12-03-2006, 07:30 AM
Jenni,

I am glad you SO is supporting of you.

Do you think she would like to join us on the forum (or maybe she is already here), We have a great GG section if she would be interested in joining us.

Jess

TeriAnn
12-03-2006, 07:40 AM
My wife has accepted my cding and helps me every way possible. To tell the truth I believe that if I was to get dressed and go out without her she would really be upset. She has told me that she wants to be a part of me being female.She loves me for who I was and still am and does not worry about what I dress like. I have shown her some things that I would like for Christmas, wether or not I get them is yet to be seen lol I love her so much for being as caring and loving as she is and is willing to be a part of my fem life as well. Thanks BlueBurd I :love: you

RachelDenise
12-03-2006, 08:00 AM
What a lovely relationship!

Di
12-03-2006, 12:14 PM
How lovely.....very Happy for you both.

Iniquity Blonde GG
12-03-2006, 12:20 PM
she sounds one-in-a-million hun :love:

Holly
12-03-2006, 12:30 PM
Jenni is sounds like you and your SO have found a balance that work for the two of you. Keep talking to one another.

Sandra
12-03-2006, 12:35 PM
Jenni is sounds like you and your SO have found a balance that work for the two of you. Keep talking to one another.


.....and remember to tell her how special she is to you.

Country girl
12-03-2006, 12:53 PM
Jenni, you are very lucky to have such a wonderful SO. It sounds like you are a good catch too. I hope someday that I will be lucky enough to find someone who will love me as much as you two obviously love each other. It is hard when the SO doesn't understand the CDing aspect or the actual benefits that come from having a relationship with a CDer. Good luck to y'all and God bless.
:hugs: Country Girl gg

Joy Carter
12-03-2006, 04:31 PM
Aw ya make me want ta cry.:bighug: Your such a lucky gurl Jenni and she's a lucky woman.:hugs:

Jenni B
12-03-2006, 05:20 PM
Thank you for all the lovely replies. I'm glad to see that the thread hit the spot.

Love you all.:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: Jen xx

Angela gg
12-03-2006, 10:29 PM
It is so nice to hear about the positives in relationships like yours. I want to make my relationship with my Robert/Robin that wonderful. I knew within a week of knowing him about his feminine side. That didn't scare me away. We have been together one year now and I look forward to many more years. Congratulations to the both of you!! Thank you for sharing!

Missy Anne's GG
12-03-2006, 10:47 PM
Hi Jenni,

Thank you for posting the beautiful relationship you have with your loving SO.

Hugs,

Missy Anne's GG