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Amy Hepker
12-04-2006, 07:15 AM
I was just wondering how many Ladies landed a Job while crossdressed??? I mean, going for a Job interview dressed as a Female and getting a Female Job!:heehee: And what Job is it??? What town and state??? I know I am nosey, hey Girls are! We gosip all the time.:hugs:
Karren H
12-04-2006, 07:42 AM
I have worked enfemme on two occassions, both time out in the field, both times I didn't have to meet anyone I knew....once was to inspect a piece of river front property on the Ohio River to see if it would make a good trans-loading facility.... I figured since it had to do with "trans" then it was proper to send Karren!!! hehehe
Love Karren
Jesse69
12-04-2006, 08:31 AM
Maybe I should try interviewing in an office temp job when I'm unemployed just for fun... Not my career though but would do it for a temp job. Would work in a skirt suit everyday!
Of course, I would be a secretary!
Kate Simmons
12-04-2006, 08:57 AM
Haven't had any up to this point but if I DO decide to start my own PI business, who do you think is going to do all the "legwork" in the field? Not Buggs Bunny, for sure!:happy: Ericka Kay
J-Girl
12-04-2006, 09:15 AM
I would never pass:( ! So I have never tried to land a job enfemme. I did go on a number of interviews while wearing panties, bra and black panty hose under my business suit. I was feeling down and thought I would throw caution to the wind and give myself something else to think about. I can tell you that I was not feeling sorry for myself for not having a job while waiting in the waiting room. I was having a great time.
I didn’t get any of those jobs. I did get a job shortly thereafter. I needed to get out of my blue funk and dressing did it for me. The following interviews I was more sure of myself, the world had not ended and I think that my self confidence and positive attitude showed through.
Jen :doll:
Diana West
12-04-2006, 09:29 AM
I visit various client sites. Sometimes I just have to go to people's homes.
Twice I wore lipstick. I acted as if nothing was unusual.
One young lady just kind of stared but didn't say anything.
The other time was an older woman. She called up her daughter while I was in the other room to tell her I was wearing make up.
Usually it's just the usual - women's underwear underneath my male clothes.
Charolette time
12-04-2006, 09:56 AM
I was just wondering how many Ladies landed a Job while crossdressed??? I mean, going for a Job interview dressed as a Female and getting a Female Job!:heehee: And what Job is it??? What town and state??? I know I am nosey, hey Girls are! We gosip all the time.:hugs:
I have not dressed , but was at A Lane Bryant store one time and while buying some clothes and panties, the sales girl asked if they were for me, I told her yes, and she said mabe you should work here and get an employee discount, wow, I asked her if I could wear ladies clothes and she says sure,and I could measure all of the cross dressers for bras:devil: its near the holidays and could use a few extra $$ but would just spend it on more pretty panties, and bras. Charolette
JenniferR771
12-04-2006, 10:32 AM
Working enfemme! That is one of my fantasies. I would be at my favorite thrift shop. They use prison work-release guys for help at times. But I would be the only one wearing a dress every day! The GG's all wear slacks.
michelleliz
12-04-2006, 10:40 AM
Wouldn't getting a Job AS a wpmen Require Id And SS number?
MichelleLiz
Jesse69
12-04-2006, 10:57 AM
Last time I shopped I walked into New York & Co and a guy was working there and he was wearing a woman's vest. He was working behind the counter.
vbcdgrl
12-04-2006, 02:56 PM
I'm retired, but I do know there is a full timer CD working at my former workplace, a large aerospace firm. I'm sure she hired in as a male and started dressing later. No way you could hire in as femme due to ID issues.
Vikki
TxKimberly
12-04-2006, 03:49 PM
I think she is asking how many of us have jobs that allow or tolerate our CDing. This does not mean that you have fooled anyone into hiring you as female.
Kim
Wouldn't getting a Job AS a wpmen Require Id And SS number?
MichelleLiz
DonnaT
12-04-2006, 04:06 PM
I know someone who interviewed enfemme. she was honest with them and she asked if there would be any problem. The companies (yes, more than once) were very tolerant, and she was hired both times.
jerseycarla
12-04-2006, 04:20 PM
I drove a bus for 20something years, I was very lucky to drive gay and lesbian groups. I always dressed when I drove these groups. I do wear panties 24/7. Now I just deliver lunches for an Italian resturant. I'm hoping to get lucky and deliver to a girl like me.
Sierra Evon
12-04-2006, 04:45 PM
I've never been or goten a job yet decked out in femme wear, Ive thought about it several times,but I've been too many interviews for jobs with mainstearm companies, and have accidentaly checked the female box on the application , I hate being interviewed by men , they always look at me funny , and I know what there thinking too, YUK.........:eek:
linnea
12-04-2006, 04:51 PM
I'd love to try it, and I've fantasized about what it would be like to do it. I'm sure that in my current job I would never have been hired nor would I be tolerated now if I were to try to work en femme. But congratulations to all who have been successful in this way!
Charolette time
12-11-2006, 12:33 PM
Already have ss number and id, drivers license, not trying to hide the fact of being crdresser, just the fun of wearing all the pretty cloths, Love Charolette
Cathy_NJ
12-11-2006, 07:20 PM
Charolette, re: your earlier reply, about Layne Bryant, do you still shop there? and is the offer still open? That sounds like it was a golden opportunity!
Kenix
12-11-2006, 08:07 PM
I think she is asking how many of us have jobs that allow or tolerate our CDing. This does not mean that you have fooled anyone into hiring you as female.
Kim
I think most large/croperate firms do tolerate CDing, if only for fear of being sued and all the negative publicity associated with it. However one may be looking having zero friends in the office.
Robin 36
12-11-2006, 08:24 PM
actually I am my own boss and I work from my home office about 65% of the time. Dressed as a women of course. When I meet with clients or work on-site somewhere I do do the drabe thing. Most of my clients are women and I don't think I want to compete with them. Nor they with me I suspect.
Sharon_Rose
12-11-2006, 08:34 PM
Once in college and once after college. In college, I bar tended in a alternative life style bar but got as many compliments from girls as I did girls. Worked there four years.
After college, interviewed with an insurance company. Told them that I liked to work dressed as a woman. [Had they said "no way, hose - whoops! Sorry, Jose, I would have gone somewhere else.] They were looking for customer service reps - mostly phone work. Made a lot of great girlfriends at that company. I actually miss it.
:love:
Thora
12-11-2006, 10:27 PM
I don't work in woman mode. I work gender-straight. I started my career twenty-five years ago when that sort of thing would have meant NO career. I haven't transitioned because it would be an interruption. I am out to my boss, however. And I work for the LGBT affinity group in the coorporation. I work on transgender issues. That's not my main job, I do it volunteer. So I speak with some hope and knowlege when I say:
Getting the job is the biggest problem. Once you are in, large coorporation or small, you are usually safe. If anything, you represent a diversity quotient. Transgender is getting to be the hot trend in business. They found out we buy stuff. LOTS OF STUFF. They have been courting gays for a while for the same reason.
So keep looking for that job as a woman. It'll still be hard to find. But at least it's out there somewhere. ...and the trans-women (and trans-men) I talk to on the job, still have friends on the job.
Bethanygirl
12-12-2006, 12:22 AM
I have held jobs as a woman since the early 1970's, I am currently a housewife, but I worked as a 911 dispatcher just a few years ago. I don't believe anyone cares, every interview I ever went on, they new my legal sex, but interviewed me without reference to my 'apperant' gender. I did have my name legally changed years ago, I think that helps with their comfort level, but they only seemed interested in if I was right for the position. I never got the feeling that I didn't get a job because I was transgendered, and I did get most of the jobs I've interviewed for over the years.
Kimkandy
12-12-2006, 12:31 AM
the sales girl asked if they were for me, I told her yes, and she said mabe you should work here and get an employee discount, wow, I asked her if I could wear ladies clothes and she says sure,and I could measure all of the cross dressers for bras:devil: its near the holidays and could use a few extra $$ but would just spend it on more pretty panties, and bras. Charolette
Sounds good if the sales girl does the hiring, you should give it a try. Are you sure you didn't :c9: dream this?
Kim
:dom: :hiding: :iagree:
StayceeCD
12-12-2006, 01:13 AM
Early 70's?? From you avatar pic you look like you were BORN in the 70's!! :D
I have held jobs as a woman since the early 1970's.
Angie G
12-12-2006, 01:21 AM
Amy some time geting dressed is a job and I love it :hugs:
Angie
allisonrn06
12-12-2006, 09:24 AM
I have never interviewed for a job dressed completely fem,but I did interview once wearing panties and hose under my male pants - I had gone shoe shopping prior to the interview,and wanted to drive home in my hose and new heels.
Amy Hepker
12-16-2006, 10:14 PM
I think it would be really neat to do, but I could never pass.
jjjjohanne
12-18-2006, 08:23 AM
I have considered getting a volunteer position and dressing enfemme as a guy. Shorts, hose, etc. I suppose if I could pass, I would consider a more feminine ensemble. I am too tall and lanky to pass as much of a woman! I haven't gotten up the nerve to do it yet. There was a member of this forum from the UK who held a volunteer job at a thrift store and passed. I don't know how it ended...
myMichelle
12-18-2006, 11:22 AM
Hi, all. I've never actually worked enfemme, but I do some volunteer work for a local not for profit agency in my area. I do this volunteer work totally enfemme. In fact, when I called and inquired about a positioin with them, I told them I was a CD and that I was looking for some sort of volunteer position that would afford me to opportunity to just be myself and do whatever work they wanted me to do.
This is the third enfemme volunteer position I've held in the past ten years or so. In every case, I've been treated with nothing but dignity and respect. For me, this is a great outlet. It's also therapeutic, because even when I'm feeling a bit unsure of myself, I have to put a smile on my face and keep right on going. And, I've discovered that this also affords me a wonderful opportunity to educate John Q. Public about crossdressers, transgenderism, etc. (In most cases, I am the first crossdresser any of my co-volunteers have ever known.)
As a footnote: for anyone who may want to consider volunteer work, I've found that non-profit organizations are generally the most open-minded when it comes to considering the possibility of letting a CD do volunteer work for them.
cosmolovesph
12-18-2006, 12:22 PM
I work from home, often dressed, does that count? :heehee:
Charolette time
12-29-2006, 01:58 PM
Yes I still shop there, and no job, the S O would not approve, and my tax man is a good friend and ,how would I explain the extra money to him, w-2s, but I did thank her for being so considerate, and may be some day I will have an understanding SO , then I could buy her some panties and extra small AAcup bras hehehe Charolette
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